Essential The Locker Room's Random Thoughts

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

There will always be pro's and con's. If you're single by that time... perhaps family help and assistance will be paramount.

Agreed

I won't need much help. Military lifestyle taught me how to do everything on my own so
They just need to take em every other weekend so Stella can get her groove back

 

[Bless't]

Agreed

I won't need much help. Military lifestyle taught me how to do everything on my own so
They just need to take em every other weekend so Stella can get her groove back

 

[N711oir]

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[DanniC]

Random thought: Men say women are complicated but trying to figure them out is like astrophysics

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Some thick cornbread mufukkas work at target

 

[The Mad Titan]

My cousin and I found out that our homie wife was in a old homemade porn flick. We sitting there with disbelief. This flick is probably two or three years ago. My cousin was the one who found it and he called and told me.

Damn, we known them from a very long time. They've been together since high school days and I thought they were good. They both have two young beautiful twin baby sons together.

We know how much our homie loves his wife. He speaks about her 24/7 and talks about how life has blessed him with two beautiful twin boys and a beautiful wife. The look on his face says alot about his happiness and love for wife and sons. I've even seen how my homie and his wife interact with each other. It's like two flamingos birds dancing with each other.

In the next two weeks my homie invited me and my cousin to his mini 16 year anniversary party. My cousin asked mi if I should tell him because he couldn't do it. I said the same thing, but if we don't tell him... I don't know mane. I don't know.

I don't really want to fukk up something that is "perfect". My homie seems happy about his life. Now, I have to sit down and think long and hard about it. Should I be honest with my homeboy and tell him about his wife and fukk up a man's happiness for the greater good? Or should I just kept my mouth shut and let my homie enjoy his happiness without him knowing?

This is probably one of the toughest decisions ever in my 24 years of living on this earth. I don't tolerate cheating and I've been cheated on by four different women in my past. I don't know...

Thats tough man, do you know if it was cheating or if they were on a break at the time? If thats your homie and good friend, you kinda have to tell him. If they are both your friends I guess you should ask her about it 1st and try and have her tell him and if she don't out of respect for him being your good friend you have to tell him.


This should only be if they are close to you though, if its just a "friend" in a casual sense then I probably wouldn't get involved


Its ruff though, if all that's behind her and ish is good for them both that could ruin a whole family. Kids life included.


I'd probably hit her up 1st if possible. It would be wayyyy better if she told him (if he doesn't know already) than if one of yall told him


Good luck with that.

 

[The Mad Titan]

That's what I'm thinking lol I need at least An hours travel time between us On the flip side she can take her grandkids whenever she wants

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Wha??

 

[The Mad Titan]

Wha??

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I'll go home and be a family man then

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Thats tough man, do you know if it was cheating or if they were on a break at the time? If thats your homie and good friend, you kinda have to tell him. If they are both your friends I guess you should ask her about it 1st and try and have her tell him and if she don't out of respect for him being your good friend you have to tell him.


This should only be if they are close to you though, if its just a "friend" in a casual sense then I probably wouldn't get involved


Its ruff though, if all that's behind her and ish is good for them both that could ruin a whole family. Kids life included.


I'd probably hit her up 1st if possible. It would be wayyyy better if she told him (if he doesn't know already) than if one of yall told him


Good luck with that.

He's a "close" friend of mine. His wife, not so much but she is nice.

I think they were still together when she was shooting her porn flick, so I all I know from that time is everything was smooth and crisp according to my friend.

Its ruff though, if all that's behind her and ish is good for them both that could ruin a whole family. Kids life included.

This part right here is why I'm contemplating on what's the best appropriate approach, because they both have two beautiful twin sons together, and I don't want to mess it up. Plus they are both great parents. And trust mi he dosen;t know this at all. It's a tough decision because I might ruin one beautiful black family over a treacherous person who committed a sin. But they are so happy with each other, so I can see how positive their marriage is. Beautiful black family. Beautiful...

Thank you for your advice. I have a lot to think about in the next two weeks.

#GMB

If you're not going to say nothing now, than be prepared to not say anything forever.

Me personally, If that's my boy, I'm not holding anything back, i can't know something like that and let my nicca carry on like shyt is all good.

I feel you brother, but man oh man it's tough decision. If I tell him it would fukk his mind, body, soul, and family. He really loves her. And they have a beautiful family.

I have a lot to think about. But you;re right. You;re right.

 

[The ADD]

He's a "close" friend of mine. His wife, not so much but she is nice.

I think they were still together when she was shooting her porn flick, so I all I know from that time is everything was smooth and crisp according to my friend.



This part right here is why I'm contemplating on what's the best appropriate approach, because they both have two beautiful twin sons together, and I don't want to mess it up. Plus they are both great parents. And trust mi he dosen;t know this at all. It's a tough decision because I might ruin one beautiful black family over a treacherous person who committed a sin. But they are so happy with each other, so I can see how positive their marriage is. Beautiful black family. Beautiful...

Thank you for your advice. I have a lot to think about in the next two weeks.



#GMB

I feel you brother, but man oh man it's tough decision. If I tell him it would fukk his mind, body, soul, and family. He really loves her. And they have a beautiful family.

I have a lot to think about. But you;re right. You;re right.

Damn it man this is tough. There isn't a good answer.

Do you know him well enough to say he would say:

A: Hell I did some dirt and I might just have to eat this
B: I kept my nose clean so this is the ultimate betrayal

 

[BujuBoombastic]

Damn it man this is tough. There isn't a good answer.

Do you know him well enough to say he would say:

A: Hell I did some dirt and I might just have to eat this
B: I kept my nose clean so this is the ultimate betrayal

Choice B. Yep, definitely B.

How would you approach this hectic situation?

 

[Rawtid]

My cousin and I found out that our homie wife was in a old homemade porn flick. We sitting there with disbelief. This flick is probably two or three years ago. My cousin was the one who found it and he called and told me.

Damn, we known them from a very long time. They've been together since high school days and I thought they were good. They both have two young beautiful twin baby sons together.

We know how much our homie loves his wife. He speaks about her 24/7 and talks about how life has blessed him with two beautiful twin boys and a beautiful wife. The look on his face says alot about his happiness and love for wife and sons. I've even seen how my homie and his wife interact with each other. It's like two flamingos birds dancing with each other.

In the next two weeks my homie invited me and my cousin to his mini 16 year anniversary party. My cousin asked mi if I should tell him because he couldn't do it. I said the same thing, but if we don't tell him... I don't know mane. I don't know.

I don't really want to fukk up something that is "perfect". My homie seems happy about his life. Now, I have to sit down and think long and hard about it. Should I be honest with my homeboy and tell him about his wife and fukk up a man's happiness for the greater good? Or should I just kept my mouth shut and let my homie enjoy his happiness without him knowing?

This is probably one of the toughest decisions ever in my 24 years of living on this earth. I don't tolerate cheating and I've been cheated on by four different women in my past. I don't know...

It seems easier to bring it up to the wife to me. Only because you don't run the same risk of ruining a friendship but I also think it would force her to tell her husband because she is going to be scared that you guys will get to him first.

 

[The ADD]

Choice B. Yep, definitely B.

How would you approach this hectic situation?

I'm going to borrow this from something I heard recently:

The quick version was that two married couples were out minus one wife. The husband that was alone went to the bathroom and all these freaky text about meeting after the dinner pop-up and not from his wife. The other wife sees this (she's good friends with the absent wife) and tell dude he has until 5PM the next day to tell his wife everything or she does.

I think you approach her with a similar ultimatum. MAYBE is soften it just a little if she tells him.

Edit:

Honestly I don't even know if that right because he could snap.