Essential The Locker Room's Random Thoughts

[Aphrodite]

is that a bad thing?

No but more people overcompensate than we think on surface.
Aware that you represent/possess a trait that people find disgusting or unlikable on average and you make up for it in other areas.

 

[TheLostOnes]

when u gone let me smash?

This nikka

 

[KOOL-AID]

Plausible, but there are people who naturally are like that too.

In my case, I was joking but we all know stereotypes and jokes are based in reality to a degree.

My backbone came from being fat and teased through middle and high school/early undergrad years.

mine was bein darkskin

This nikka

the worst she can say is no, u miss 100% of the shots u dnt take. plus coco thinks im ugly anyway dats why she dnt ever say hi or nothin

 

[全能の神]

I might lowkey be a sociopath.

 

[Lo-Co]

No but more people overcompensate than we think on surface.
Aware that you represent/possess a trait that people find disgusting or unlikable on average and you make up for it in other areas.

True. I think most of the bad traits I have/had are fixable. I'm still surprised at the women that actually liked me.

 

[Aphrodite]

I forgot who I told this to on here. But that's why trans women put so much emphasis on beauty. You will see so many transexuals into vanity and being dimes. The upkeep/maintenance and always being on point (aesthetically/on surface/superficially) because all of them know that society hates transexuals and finds transexuals to be freaks. Plus, you can't have kids. So if you can present a natural looking aesthetic (to blend in) or go even beyond a natural looking aesthetic and just be attractive as fukk, you will be taken more seriously and folks kinda understand the appeal.

Society judges on appearances/superficiality more than actual depth.
No one cares how you feel or what goes on in your head. What your soul is like.
It's about what can be seen.
Then you can be taken seriously.

 

[iBrowse]

Most of us (it seems) pick a struggle and become well rounded in other areas. There are folks who are unattractive, broke, horrible at sex & have ugly personalities. But you will hear more about a dude liking a regular looking chick because her personality is fire or some other shyt that compensates for her looks.

Two points for the bold:

True, most men aren't afforded that luxury though, don't believe me? Look at the coli .

Plus the men I know tend be equally yoked with the women they're with. I'll be straight up, there's women I'll bluntly admit that I would never date firstly because of their looks then because of their lack of ambition, character flaws, and overcompensation as a consequence of those traits. I don't get mad if a girl isn't feeling me for whatever reason there is, sometimes its not even indicative of there being something wrong with her. Regardless I'm secure in myself.

I have gotten the too nice thing before but she was a bird anyway.

 

[Regine Hunter]

Neg.

this that man and woman ish so harlem will let it rock

That's that transfer of germs ish that I will not partake in.

 

[iBrowse]

mine was bein darkskin

the worst she can say is no, u miss 100% of the shots u dnt take. plus coco thinks im ugly anyway dats why she dnt ever say hi or nothin

Yeah, I'd rather die than be fat again frfr. Ain't no way for me to live.

Exactly, @Coco probably needs to smash since she's restless and shyt. God speed breh and don't get her pregnants .

 

[全能の神]

nikkas really be scared to die

 

[Lo-Co]

@Regine Hunter

 

[Aphrodite]

mine was bein darkskin

the worst she can say is no, u miss 100% of the shots u dnt take. plus coco thinks im ugly anyway dats why she dnt ever say hi or nothin

Dark skinned folks overcompensate too. I see it on instagram all the time. Skin OD oiled up in every pic. Hella illuminators/markers on the makeup to make the skin look porcelain. Proving that it's "possible" for dark skinned women/girls to have long hair. Dark skinned guys with action figure bodies.

 

[Regine Hunter]

Society judges on appearances/superficiality more than actual depth.
No one cares how you feel or what goes on in your head. What your soul is like.
It's about what can be seen.
Then you can be taken seriously.

I'm doomed then.

 

[Aphrodite]

When you really think of it, so many people overcompensate. However it's understandable in this society just to avoid chaos and major drama. When you are attractive, you are treated better. When you are sexually open minded, you get treated better/well received. When you have money, people wanna be around you.

However, this is all conditional and temporary.
Looks don't always stay the same. Money runs out. You can get drained and have off periods with sex. You're not a machine.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Dark skinned folks overcompensate too. I see it on instagram all the time. Skin OD oiled up in every pic. Hella illuminators/markers on the makeup to make the skin look porcelain. Proving that it's "possible" for dark skinned women/girls to have long hair. Dark skinned guys with action figure bodies.

ouch, shade much?