I suggest not keeping friends of the opposite sex over all. Once either gets into a serious relationship the friendship is pretty much dead in the water.
At some point if the relationship is serious, contact and conversations with those friends all but stop. It really has to if you want a healthy relationship going forward. There are a few exceptions like childhood friends but even then out of respect for your partner even that has to be limited.
Speaking on this on this because I had a home girl that recently hit me up and wanted to hangout again, I was like "we probably shouldn't" and man she caught feelings. "We just friends anyway, I just wanted to catch up, not like we dating"
All of which is true, but its a respect thing, what I look like going to the movies, out to eat or chilling with a female friend when I barely do that with the homies nowadays. Of course she didn't see it like that. We already have history sooo nahhh. I don't have any desire, and I dont want to make my girl look bad.
You know the sad thing is if she was a "ugly" i'd probably be more inclined to go out
But 1st thing people gonna think when they see us is



"I thought he had a girl"