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There really is no rationale. It's a moving a target with so many variables.
I have male friends and it's so baffling to me how one will FEEL ready to start a family whereas another will have had one and still isn't ready. I just wonder what causes a man to FEEL ready to start a family...could it be that he is satisfied in other areas of his like where another man who is not ready has much left to be desired concerning career and personal accomplishments. I wish that I could rationalize this :jbhmm:
 

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I have male friends and it's so baffling to me how one will FEEL ready to start a family whereas another will have had one and still isn't ready. I just wonder what causes a man to FEEL ready to start a family...could it be that he is satisfied in other areas of his like where another man who is not ready has much left to be desired concerning career and personal accomplishments. I wish that I could rationalize this :jbhmm:
I feel confused when people say they want to be in a relationship. Like how do you want that but don't have what it requires?

When I meet someone I see if I like them 1st and then if I develop feelings I may wanna go further. But folks be out here single talking bout they "looking for a relationship" sounds ass backwards to me.
 

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I feel confused when people say they want to be in a relationship. Like how do you want that but don't have what it requires?

When I meet someone I see if I like them 1st and then if I develop feelings I may wanna go further. But folks be out here single talking bout they "looking for a relationship" sounds ass backwards to me.

I know someone who was saying this and then next thing I knew he was engaged with a baby on the way...yet he seemed to still have this disatisfaction as though something else might be out there (settling).
 

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I know someone who was saying this and then next thing I knew he was engaged with a baby on the way...yet he seemed to still have this disatisfaction as though something else might be out there (settling).
Because they shyt is boring and most people aren't ready for boring just yet. That's why there is always fidelity, imo, because sneaking around and shyt is exciting. You have to be a woman or someone fed up with a fast paced life to enjoy that.
 

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It has been such a ruff last 6 months for me. But I finally feel like I am over that hump. I just finally let go of the last negative thing/person out of my life. That shyt was so hard. Life is so hard.

you can try to remove the toxicity from your life, but we always find a way of returning :ld:
 
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