I have male friends and it's so baffling to me how one will FEEL ready to start a family whereas another will have had one and still isn't ready. I just wonder what causes a man to FEEL ready to start a family...could it be that he is satisfied in other areas of his like where another man who is not ready has much left to be desired concerning career and personal accomplishments. I wish that I could rationalize this![]()

8 traps laid down for you bytch ass mice.![]()
U know where they comin from?

They're coming from under the oven/heater. Upstairs and downstairs.![]()
I feel confused when people say they want to be in a relationship. Like how do you want that but don't have what it requires?I have male friends and it's so baffling to me how one will FEEL ready to start a family whereas another will have had one and still isn't ready. I just wonder what causes a man to FEEL ready to start a family...could it be that he is satisfied in other areas of his like where another man who is not ready has much left to be desired concerning career and personal accomplishments. I wish that I could rationalize this![]()
I feel confused when people say they want to be in a relationship. Like how do you want that but don't have what it requires?
When I meet someone I see if I like them 1st and then if I develop feelings I may wanna go further. But folks be out here single talking bout they "looking for a relationship" sounds ass backwards to me.
Because they shyt is boring and most people aren't ready for boring just yet. That's why there is always fidelity, imo, because sneaking around and shyt is exciting. You have to be a woman or someone fed up with a fast paced life to enjoy that.I know someone who was saying this and then next thing I knew he was engaged with a baby on the way...yet he seemed to still have this disatisfaction as though something else might be out there (settling).


It has been such a ruff last 6 months for me. But I finally feel like I am over that hump. I just finally let go of the last negative thing/person out of my life. That shyt was so hard. Life is so hard.
