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Exactly. I wish you'd learn to be comfortable with yourself. Confidence is attractive, not faking to fit in. You can't keep that up but for so long.
Only way iill be comfortable is when i finish losing weight. I cant express myself at this weight. Thats the issue. I feel like I play the background and try not to be noticed because of how I look. That's what I focus on. Too much
 

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Only way iill be comfortable is when i finish losing weight. I cant express myself at this weight. Thats the issue. I feel like I play the background and try not to be noticed because of how I look. That's what I focus on. Too much
I understand but why can't you do both? Lose weight and work on being comfortable? Weight loss is a process and takes some time, I don't think you should wait to express yourself until that happens. Do them simultaneously.
 

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when the white man realised the world around him was changing, it wasnt gon be long before the black man stayed behind the scenes and let the white man take credit to everything the black man did. the white man knew the black man would soon be able to deal with other races and soon stand on his own, be richer and more powerful. so the white man invented a pawg, the pawg would be designed to be submissive yet cunning, the black man as he got richer would want to be more powerful and neglect the fact that every king needs a strong willed queen who would support, challenge and advise him. the pawg was designed to not question the black man until the day the white decided the black man had amassed enough wealth...the rest is history.
 

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I understand but why can't you do both? Lose weight and work on being comfortable? Weight loss is a process and takes some time, I don't think you should wait to express yourself until that happens. Do them simultaneously.
I'm trying to be social. I joined a club last week. I was reserved. But im gonna try harder. I place too much focus on how I look. Assuming that's why I fail socially.
 

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I'm trying to be social. I joined a club last week. I was reserved. But im gonna try harder. I place too much focus on how I look. Assuming that's why I fail socially.
I guarantee that's not it. You fail socially because you're worried about too much shyt that doesn't matter.
 

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"Confidence is not something you gain. It is what is left when you stop worrying about things. It is what is left when you learn to trust yourself.
You gain confidence by losing fear, and you lose fear by facing it and teaching your mind to behave."
 

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Only way iill be comfortable is when i finish losing weight. I cant express myself at this weight. Thats the issue. I feel like I play the background and try not to be noticed because of how I look. That's what I focus on. Too much
Bruh I know that feeling. It seems like sometimes when I want to be apart of what's happening everyone like:comeon::beli: when im chill everybody has a good time. Thats why i just keep to myself
 
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