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keeping a relaxed attitude when approaching women? im doing it more and talking yet. i feel like im giving an interview.

Stop focusing on your end goal and worry about being their friend to have an easier time getting to know someone

If the attraction is there and mutual things will progress naturally from friends to lovers, maybe the girl ain't feeling you since you feel like it's an interview she's not returning questions?
 

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Stop focusing on your end goal and worry about being their friend to have an easier time getting to know someone

If the attraction is there and mutual things will progress naturally from friends to lovers
true. i just feel like im setting the bar for myself too high to instantly be interesting, more than sex honestly.
 

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true. i just feel like im setting the bar for myself too high to instantly be interesting, more than sex honestly.

Just work on yourself and fleshing out your personality and being more sociable

I really can't stress that enough, it will make conversation easier to do because you will have more to talk about instead of grilling the woman
 

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Just work on yourself and fleshing out your personality and being more sociable

I really can't stress that enough, it will make conversation easier to do because you will have more to talk about instead of grilling the woman
true. thats the hard part honestly.
 
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