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Do you remember that guy about who I said that I'd rather jump off a bridge and land on the concrete below than date? This afternoon he texted me asking if we could talk. I told him to talk and he told me " No, you talk. ". In the end, we didn't talk, until a boob picture I posted in my SnapChat story stating that this was my ideal boob size. He pm'ed me saying that my boobs were fine. I got angry at him, like I do with every guy who talks about my breasts while not being my boyfriend. Then he asked to Skype. I said no. He asked if he could call me. I didn't pick up. Since I was starting to get seriously annoyed, I asked him what did he want from me. After an hour, he replies " More. ". Since he used to make fun of me for studying litterature in HS while he did economics, I told him that he needed to develop his answer otherwise I wouldn't understand.
Then he said that he was physically attracted to me. - I knew that already since in HS he always talked about how big my breasts were. -, he thought about me quite often and that he'd like to see me. I sent a laughing emoji with the message " Physical attraction ? How cute. ", then I told him " I don't want to see you. I don't want anything with you. ". He sent I think .. 6 crying emojis, asking me why I asked him to explain, and I told him that I wanted to see if he could be honest with his intentions. Just when I thought that I had been too mean, and I was starting to regret, he asks me " So, can we talk on Skype later ?". :francis:


My problem is that I feel like guys cannot understand when I reject them or they maybe just don't seem to take me or my opinion seriously. In public, they insist, I tell them I don't want to get to know them, yet they insist. They ask why? Then they tell me I'm being mean for not wanting to get to know them. I don't understand? Save your pride and walk off. Why do you insist?
I can't be mean to people who did nothing wrong to me. I'll feel bad about it afterwards. So when a guy comes near me and I'm not interested, I try to tell him but it's like I encourage him more than anything.

And then there's this guy up there, along with 2 other guys, I could purposely get them to be angry at me yet they will always come back like a lost puppy. I just don't understand. I have to force them just so they could tell me their true intentions and I know their true intentions from the start. They'll joke with me, they'll ask me about my day but they'll never say why they do all of that. And when I confront them about it, it's like they start to panic. :childplease:


I'll take advice from anyone.

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Don't feel bad. After you reject them, just stop communicating with them. Some guys just don't take a hint and will figure they still have a chance if you continue to communicate with them.

They'll eventually get over the rejection, but if you keep communicating with them they'll think the have a sliver of hope. So even though you may feel like you're being cruel by ignoring, it's the best thing you can do in this situation.
 

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god damn white women are so nosy

"do you live in this area"

"what do you do for a living"

"what's your name"

"what made you decide to try this today:

"we're having a get together later this evening, we'd love for you to come"

bytch, think imma willingly enter the sequel to get out
 

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Don't feel bad. After you reject them, just stop communicating with them. Some guys just don't take a hint and will figure they still have a chance if you continue to communicate with them.

They'll eventually get over the rejection, but if you keep communicating with them they'll think the have a sliver of hope. So even though you may feel like you're being cruel by ignoring, it's the best thing you can do in this situation.

What if he doesn't get over the rejection?
 

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This is my first gif ever doing this type of gif to have all the "in"s moving over the heads. I thought it was gonna be tough and come out :scust: but it came out like :wow:.
So, here go breh, enjoy it. :blessed:
Now I then leveled up my gif game because I can do so many different remixes with different gifs. :ohhh: The combinations are endless....:chrisbosh:
Y'all got any request, just holla at me.
 
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Don't feel bad. After you reject them, just stop communicating with them. Some guys just don't take a hint and will figure they still have a chance if you continue to communicate with them.

They'll eventually get over the rejection, but if you keep communicating with them they'll think the have a sliver of hope. So even though you may feel like you're being cruel by ignoring, it's the best thing you can do in this situation.

One of them has been after me since middle school. Are you sure ignoring them will work? :francis:
 

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giphy.gif

This is my first gif ever doing this type of gif to have all the "in"s moving over the heads. I thought it was gonna be tough and come out :scust: but it came out like :wow:.
So, here go breh, enjoy it. :blessed:
Now I then leveled up my gif game because I can do so many different remixes with different gifs. :ohhh: The combinations are endless....:chrisbosh:
Y'all got any request, just holla at me.
:laff: :laff: :myman: we gon get some spins outta this my mans
 
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