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SuperGrizzy

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No. He's from Tumblr.
The last time he wrote me was telling me it was his birthday the day before (I haven't wrote him back in days) and I told him "Happy belated birthday" and he said "Thank you" (with a heart emoji). Then he put those looking eyes emojis hours later. I ignored it. I see at 4:16 AM he wrote me with the "Not to sound cliche, but what are we?" thing and I'm just confused.
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I'll say it again; nikkas don't belong on Tumblr
 

Aphrodite

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Days ago he spammed my notifications liking all the photos of my body in a 2 minute span.:dahell:
 

Kasgoinjail

AKA RehReh 😇
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Got mad about something a flushed my mans freshly rolled spliff down the toilet:lupe:








Potheads are crazy. I thought y'all were supposed to be chill?:gucci:
They usually chill after the weed lol

I once was talking to my friends about how superb the spliff being rolled was and the wind just blew the whole thing away, left looking at paper for 45 seconds, real pain.
 

EARFQUAKE

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No. He's from Tumblr.
The last time he wrote me was telling me it was his birthday the day before (I haven't wrote him back in days) and I told him "Happy belated birthday" and he said "Thank you" (with a heart emoji). Then he put those looking eyes emojis hours later. I ignored it. I see at 4:16 AM he wrote me with the "Not to sound cliche, but what are we?" thing and I'm just confused.

This is why I'm hesitant to engage in private messages with men. It's basically a invitation to their life and business but even in a casual/friendly level I'm not always willing to commit to that type of involvement. 99% of the time I just don't care about other people's lives or problems and it's rare when I really get invested, I'm only personally invested into three people's lives here.
 

Aphrodite

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This is why I'm hesitant to engage in private messages with men. It's basically a invitation to their life and business but even in a casual/friendly level I'm not always willing to commit to that type of involvement. 99% of the time I just don't care about other people's lives or problems and it's rare when I really get invested, I'm only personally invested into three people's lives here.
I'm a flirt as yall know but I never flirted with him. I've just been polite. Never implied anything sexual with him. He has asked me about my romantic life and I told him that I am single and abstinent and focusing on myself and my career and that is probably what made him feel he could go for it. But overall, it was me even engaging conversation with him (despite most of my responses are 1 or 2 words). Guys think you giving them any attention means you have interest in them is what I am learning. I just didn't want to be a bytch and thought I would be polite by not leaving him always on read.
 

EARFQUAKE

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I'm a flirt as yall know but I never flirted with him. I've just been polite. Never implied anything sexual with him. He has asked me about my romantic life and I told him that I am single and abstinent and focusing on myself and my career and that is probably what made him feel he could go for it. But overall, it was me even engaging conversation with him (despite most of my responses are 1 or 2 words). Guys think you giving them any attention means you have interest in them is what I am learning. I just didn't want to be a bytch and thought I would be polite by not leaving him always on read.

Women are like this too but they aren't going to move aggressively in public. They act just as possessive in PMs if not worse. Fangirl syndrome.
 

CinnaSlim

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I'm a flirt as yall know but I never flirted with him. I've just been polite. Never implied anything sexual with him. He has asked me about my romantic life and I told him that I am single and abstinent and focusing on myself and my career and that is probably what made him feel he could go for it. But overall, it was me even engaging conversation with him (despite most of my responses are 1 or 2 words). Guys think you giving them any attention means you have interest in them is what I am learning. I just didn't want to be a bytch and thought I would be polite by not leaving him always on read.
Many many men take politeness for flirting and interest which is why most women just ignore them.
 
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