Narcissism or any form of arrogance is not cute. Stay humble and modest of yourselves, ladies and gentlemen because that narcissism and arrogant shyt is extremely negative and draining to be around. Not trying to put folks on blast but let's just say I can't simply write it off because it's family. I just feel like making an excuse to not go but I'd be wrong to not show up though I do not feel like feeding anymore people's insecurities or egos especially if they damn sure aren't going up to bat me for me or can't even do something as simple as wish me a happy birthday. Yet it's all about them and they want me to go and show them love for theirs. Not a good look.