Some people biggest haters and worst enemies are themselves.

and the sad part is that they have no idea that it's them who is literally sabotaging their own shyt but because they are arrogant and sure of themselves, their way of thinking, attitudes and the whole nine, trying to help them out or give them constructive criticism is useless. So when you see them all in a bad position, its like okay I'll let you figure it out. If you never do, then

hate to be like that but saving someone is not my responsibility especially if they don't care about themselves to begin with enough to make them wake up.
And its like wow. You see how they can be something but they choose to be nothing or waste whatever away on nonsense. They'll be ready to get defensive and etc but hey....