If my friendship with you is basically dependent on social media and not real actual communication like you dont text, call, or even bother to talk to me in person, then we aren't friends.

how is it that I have people on the other side of the world nowhere near where I live that deem to check on me, that i met on social media and never seen before in real life and want to socialize with me than these folks that live near me or even in the next state over.

you have my number, you know where I live, and etc. Your ass can make the fukking effort to reach out to me instead of being lazy as fukk acting it's totally on me to keep the shyt alive. Obviously you have no interest in the shyt then. Everyone that knows me well knows that I'm a shy introvert that keeps close to a few people who I feel comfortable opening up to because they actually have gotten a chance to know me where I've established a line of trust with them. I'm not an open book. I'm not for chasing someone around that's going to think I'm going to be going to where they are at and they aren't going to make one bit of effort for me but have no problem doing it for other people. That's an insult to me. I understand if you have no car, no job and etc. I'll rock with you because thats no issue but if you can meet me up here or there or at least once if your situation improves, then please do so. If I could rock with you and you don't got it, you most definitely can do it for me too if I just so happen to go broke, have no job and etc. I've been there believe me so it's no thing.
But you know, some people don't believe in putting in work.
The good thing is that over time, I get to know my true peoples are and not these frauds.