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I hope so :to:
It's obvious you like dude so take the time to think about whether this conversation is absolutely necessary. Or if you can overlook it because the good outweighs the bad.

You have to know that when people speak, it is difficult to always say the right thing. Sometimes its worth it to take the high road, let it go, and just enjoy the relationship.

If a major transgression was committed, I honestly think that you would have already checked him on it. This seems like something that is just nagging you. If its just something that is annoying you, let it go.

No man, or woman, will ever be perfect. Tossing someone in the bushes for minor offenses will leave people alone, always having to start over.

I wouldn't steer you wrong. :sasword:
 

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It's obvious you like dude so take the time to think about whether this conversation is absolutely necessary. Or if you can overlook it because the good outweighs the bad.

You have to know that when people speak, it is difficult to always say the right thing. Sometimes its worth it to take the high road, let it go, and just enjoy the relationship.

If a major transgression was committed, I honestly think that you would have already checked him on it. This seems like something that is just nagging you. If its just something that is annoying you, let it go.

No man, or woman, will ever be perfect. Tossing someone in the bushes for minor offenses will leave people alone, always having to start over.

I wouldn't steer you wrong. :sasword:
I ain't tripping on how he said things but more so what he said. Like he basically said my actions meant xyz when that wasn't true. If that makes sense. I just think it would benefit for us to get shyt in the open. Like if I'm acting a certain way ASK what it means don't say "you do this so it means this to me" and then you have an attitude.
 

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I ain't tripping on how he said things but more so what he said. Like he basically said my actions meant xyz when that wasn't true. If that makes sense. I just think it would benefit for us to get shyt in the open. Like if I'm acting a certain way ASK what it means don't say "you do this so it means this to me" and then you have an attitude.
Men and women communicate and think so differently. I fear that there's no way to persuade you to handle this differently. :ufdup:


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Men and women communicate and think so differently. I fear that there's no way to persuade you to handle this differently. :ufdup:


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LOL So because we communicate differently we shouldn't communicate? I don't think that's fair. I think that's also how people wake up not wanting to be with that person. I know I for sure was like "fukk this". But if I'm trying to be in a relationship I can't do that. If it goes wrong, it goes wrong. But if there are things I feel he should understand about me, I want to make sure he knows.
 

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LOL So because we communicate differently we shouldn't communicate? I don't think that's fair. I think that's also how people wake up not wanting to be with that person. I know I for sure was like "fukk this". But if I'm trying to be in a relationship I can't do that. If it goes wrong, it goes wrong. But if there are things I feel he should understand about me, I want to make sure he knows.
Cool.

I think you need a translator though, if you don't want this to go left.

Give me the message and I can tell you how to phrase it so that he gets your point without him taking it the wrong way. :lolbron:
 

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LOL So because we communicate differently we shouldn't communicate? I don't think that's fair. I think that's also how people wake up not wanting to be with that person. I know I for sure was like "fukk this". But if I'm trying to be in a relationship I can't do that. If it goes wrong, it goes wrong. But if there are things I feel he should understand about me, I want to make sure he knows.
:wow:, things have changed
 

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:wow:, things have changed
Shut it.
Cool.

I think you need a translator though, if you don't want this to go left.

Give me the message and I can tell you how to phrase it so that he gets your point without him taking it the wrong way. :lolbron:
:dwillhuh: Everything I need to say he needs to hear first.
 
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My plan is still on, I still want to move to Germany and pursue an education overseas.

Got my associates degree, got my diploma in the mail last week, just having trouble finding a job but I know with patience that will come.

Once I find my job I'll start to go in depth with my planning (living situations and such) and then I'm gone.

I'm glad that I still have the same goal from July of last year, completing my goal will do nothing other than prove to myself that I am capable of embracing the world and making the world familiar to me as if it's a beat from my heart.


Bump, bump :smile:
 

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So I go in and these b*stards don't have my file ready so I can't work until tomorrow so its basically one less day of pay.

I'm annoyed. :birdman:
 

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Why the hell is celery such a damn commitment? I don't need that much product. They need a bachelor sized version.
 

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Lol rettas talking about having sex and being in a relationship... i bet the devil is wearing a bubble coat and gloves
 
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