The main thing that terrifies me about being a father....

[Alan Emerald]

Been doing this for 2 years and change. Get a woman that loves you more then life and she will love your child the same. If your child is shytting down his leg like that, chances are the parent let the diaper fill up with shyt and then he shyt again. That, or they didnt put the diaper on right. This fatherhood shyt isnt that difficult.


Just dont get angry at your baby until they're at least 3. Parents screaming on 1 year olds, stunting their brain growth.

Some true words of wisdom (experience) here. Altho i have experienced a blowout with a fresh diaper and on tight. Had to consider the clothes to be a L. Carefully cut em off then head straight to the tub. Craziest thing is while your cleaning your child and holding your breath, they'll look up and smile at you as if nothing is wrong. Or they can't smell.

 

[agnosticlady]

I held my wifes leg open while eating beef jerky and sippin Brisk Rasberry. The smell of life is worse then the smell of a shytty diaper. Keep the baby wipes on deck and wipe that butt. Dont want your baby to end up with Hemroids from unwiped sour butt. They could scratch the dirty area and scratch their eye. TO many problems from having a filthy child. All that ewwww shyt goes out the window when you think about your childs health. They could vomit in your fukkin face and let out a painful cry and u thinkin, damn, whats wrong with my little dude

Yeah, I am the same way with my baby cousins and baby sister. Whenever I see a parent that looks great from head to toe but their baby/toddler/kid looks raggedy/sick it makes so mad ............ I do not have kids (I plan to later), but I can understand the feeling of wanting to know what is wrong with your baby

 

[Shadow King]

More shyt than baby

 

[Mowgli]

Some true words of wisdom (experience) here. Altho i have experienced a blowout with a fresh diaper and on tight. Had to consider the clothes to be a L. Carefully cut em off then head straight to the tub. Craziest thing is while your cleaning your child and holding your breath, they'll look up and smile at you as if nothing is wrong. Or they can't smell.

Its whatever to me at this point i just say ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, to make him laugh.

I think its important for fathers to not underestimate the time they spend with their children whether they are completely hands on or just in their childs presence, your presence is vital to the childs growth. Most the bad habits your child will pick up will come when you arent around and if you can see them while you are around, you can nip them in the bud asap. Doing social activities with your baby is vital because it teaches them courage and boundaries with other kids.

I took a couple months off taking my son to the jumping obstacles course place and let my wife take him. Went to take him and he was scared to go on obstacles he was tackling easily when i was going with him.

The little things add up. Just be there.

 

[Alan Emerald]

Its whatever to me at this point i just say ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, to make him laugh.

I think its important for fathers to not underestimate the time they spend with their children whether they are completely hands on or just in their childs presence, your presence is vital to the childs growth. Most the bad habits your child will pick up will come when you arent around and if you can see them while you are around, you can nip them in the bud asap. Doing social activities with your baby is vital because it teaches them courage and boundaries with other kids.

I took a couple months off taking my son to the jumping jam place and let my wife take him. Went to take him and he was scared to go on obstacles he was tackling easily when i was going with him.

The little things add up. Just be there.

So true. I have a 2yo and 5 month old (daughters) and the impact of my presence is already in full effect. Used to work mad hours until a sickness sent me home and those hours with them have been priceless. From the bonding to the mental and social development, every moment with them has changed for the better. But honestly, sometimes im not sure if i help them more than they help me.

 

[Mowgli]

So true. I have a 2yo and 5 month old (daughters) and the impact of my presence is already in full effect. Used to work mad hours until a sickness sent me home and those hours with them have been priceless. From the bonding to the mental and social development, every moment with them has changed for the better. But honestly, sometimes im not sure if i help them more than they help me.

I dunno, hopefully they're helping you help them more.

 

[Alan Emerald]

I dunno, hopefully they're helping you help them more.

Nah they are. I may not have conveyed my thoughts clearly. Just meant with the illness sometimes it gets hectic even depressing. But havin them around always put things in perspective and gives encouragement at my lowest points. Strength when i thought i was running on E.

 

[DMX]

JUST DONT PAY CHILD SUPPORT nikka HAHAHA

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Women don't know anything about giving birth FOH.

 

[LEEeveryday]

What is it then breh?

I thought they was fitting the baby for a cast at first...but that didn't make sense since babies bones are so soft and it wasn't crying....

then it dawned on me...

 

[Couth]

That's what the female is for. You should have minimal contact with the kid for the first ten years of its life.

 

[Birdman]

That ain't no baby that's an ice cream machine

 

[iBrowse]

@bcrusaderw

 

[iBrowse]

But how did it swirl around the leg though.

 

[Mowgli]

That's what the female is for. You should have minimal contact with the kid for the first ten years of its life.

Is that what happened to you. Raised tender for a decade?