We are always on their minds. Go to any random country music based forum and see how many blacks are there. Probably little to none. White folks have always had an obsession into how we act, think, dress, speak, etc. They are the ultimate mimics. They immerse themselves into other cultures, white wash them and claim them as their own. By the time you let them feel comfortable they have taken over and switched the tone up. shyts been going on for centuries.
On a another note, its not shocking that there is a urgency to shut up any discussion about race. Humans tend to shy away from things that bring them pain. Even as a baby we are conditioned to avoid things that bring us discomfort. Race for white americans IS uncomfortable. White supremacy is a system that still exists, but they are in a hurry to tell you that racism is dead and we are all on a level playing field. Any deviation from this (ie Trayvon, Ferguson, Oscar, Sean Bell) is a abberation where we must trust the cops and blame the victim. They will argue you on semantics and make up scenarios in their head, speculation posing as evidence and facts (trayvon was mixing up syrup, Mike Brown was stealing, Oscar was unemployed) anything to distract you away from the point that unarmed young black men are being slaughtered in the streets like dogs. The one irefutable point that they never have an answer for is this:
If racism is truly dead, the playing field is level, and the cops act within their rights, why arent young white men and women being gunned down by police in a country where white people are still the overwhelming majority? Where are the white Trayvons, Oscar Grants and Mike Bells?