The most disgusting thing about love is...

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...the way people feel entitled to it. they way they fall in love with someone and then finally find the courage to verbalize it then feel like just because they love that person they deserve to have that person love them in return.

deep down many people feel like if they give their love to someone they should get love from them back in return. its gotten to the point where saying i love you is a chess move others use to try to force you to say it in return.

in reality these people are so self-absorbed that they don't really care if the person of their affections really does love them in return just as long as they can force that person to play the part that's enough for them.

if somebody tells you they love you and you don't feel that way in return you should feel no guilt at all in doing them like this
 
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its no longer enough for people to simply feel the way they do. just to love a person. they then gotta take that love and try to use it to manipulate someone else into living a potential lie just to satisfy themselves?

perhaps its time people be more honest about and to themselves. is it really love or is that just the desire to posses someone? its that type of shyt that pressures people into relationships when they're still sorting out their feelings. that type of shyt that pressures people to propose to others because of an ultimatum.

one person likes the other person one person loves the other person. a certain amount of time passes and the one that loves feels entitled to be married to the object of their affections and pressures them into a marriage that's more than likely destined to fail.

how do you look at a calendar and say oh we been dating for x years, its time we get married? how do you put a shelf life on the natural progression of a relationship? i mean its not like that person goes to the person they love that hasn't suggested marriage and says i love you but to me its obvious the way you feel about me is different so i think we should end things here or just scale back to friendship. no what they do is take their love and try to turn it into leverage to pressure someone into a possible mistake because really the other person doesn't matter. its all about them.
 

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People have the wrong concept of love because they've been brainwashed by television and an assortment of media who promote love as an emotional surge. Love is more than mere emotions. It is a commitment. I'm sure every time our parents see us, they don't feel some crazy emotional surge, and yet their love for us is evident through the sacrifice they continually make on our behalf (that is if you have decent parents).

The love between a man and a woman is obviously different than parental love for a child, but in a way, it isn't. Even look at Michael Jordan and basketball. It was obvious he loved basketball through his commitment to it. He may not have always felt like being on the court like the game he had the flu, but he still went out there because he loved the game and was committed. Even in the Bible, Jesus didn't want to be crucified and asked God to let the cup pass from him if possible, but due to His love for us, accepted His fate.

On the other hand, what we are taught as love is really selfishness in the form of chasing an emotional high. Emotional addicts are little different from drug fiends, going from person to person looking for the next surge of emotion. Unfortunately, we constantly see this concept preached on television and through music... all for the love of profit. Love definitely exists, but what is masquerading as love these days is really an emotional rush addiction.
 

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People have the wrong concept of love because they've been brainwashed by television and an assortment of media who promote love as an emotional surge. Love is more than mere emotions. It is a commitment. I'm sure every time our parents see us, they don't feel some crazy emotional surge, and yet their love for us is evident through the sacrifice they continually make on our behalf (that is if you have decent parents).

The love between a man and a woman is obviously different than parental love for a child, but in a way, it isn't. Even look at Michael Jordan and basketball. It was obvious he loved basketball through his commitment to it. He may not have always felt like being on the court like the game he had the flu, but he still went out there because he loved the game and was committed. Even in the Bible, Jesus didn't want to be crucified and asked God to let the cup pass from him if possible, but due to His love for us, accepted His fate.

On the other hand, what we are taught as love is really selfishness in the form of chasing an emotional high. Emotional addicts are little different from drug fiends, going from person to person looking for the next surge of emotion. Unfortunately, we constantly see this concept preached on television and through music... all for the love of profit. Love definitely exists, but what is masquerading as love these days is really an emotional rush addiction.

Unfortunately this is all true..

Most people view love ALL wrong. Theres a thread right here, right now, where people are saying cheat on a girl because she isnt giving it up because she is a virgin :what: the game is all fukked up.. What worked for older generations, we ignore.

Women dont know how to be ladies, boys never become real men. hardly anyone strives for anything anymore.. What do you bring to the table? Besides 10k instagram followers?

Hardly the people who should get together do. The bigger ass hole I am to women, the more I get them. The nicer I am to them, the easier you fall into the friend zone :heh:

Half these girls out here idolizing Kim Kardashian and Marilyn Monroe :what: certified, known hoes. I never see girls put pictures of Oprah with a quote near it. Look who they look up to, look at what they want.
 

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Not at all. This is just an observation of common human behavior. I suppose you've never seen people in relationships where one is trying to hold the other captive using these type of strategies. Relationships that love becomes a verbalized obligation instead of a genuine feeling. Apparently though nobody can comment on human behavior without being compared to him. If two people arrive at the same solution but take different paths to get there by your logic one is trying to be like the other.
 
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naw.....
it gotta be that 1st eye watering fart she
crop dust the bedroom with.

her: dear lord i'm sorry:usure:
me: GAT DAMN!!:damn:
her: my stomach is upset:usure:
me: how the fukk is greek yogurt and salad makin
smells like that......eat some damn swine!:stopitslime:



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