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Knicksman20

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As it was mentioned in the last thread by a fellow brother. My biggest annoyance is everyone thinking i'm a player just because of my looks.

My married coworkers are always trying to live through me telling me which females to hit, asking me if I was hanging out with so & so female outside of work or: "If I was you I'd blaze a trail through this place with all of these chicks". I hate it & it's mad annoying. I'm a low key person as it is don't engage or feed into those kinds of convos. It doesn't help that I'm the only Black man in my immediate dept. either.
 

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Cant front I been hit on by a few gay nikkas :snoop:

Lucky I was sober every time or I woulda been in jail

Or end up like Ving Rhames in Pulp Fiction

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Wild self

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True...


My nickname in HS was actually "Pretty"... I hated that shyt on the low. And ZERO chicks at school fukked with me but everyone thought I always had the hoes:what:


Even now, when we go out nikkas be expecting me to pull something... Like WATCHING me and waiting and 9/10 I do but not how they think i do.



Random shyt might happen around my boys like waitress leaving me her number, females rubbing up on me, or finesses chicks at the gym talking to me but that shyt NEVER happens when I'm alone.:scust:

Females at work assuming I'm a hoe:mjcry:


Head turns when I dress up:youngsabo:

If I was taller it probably wouldn't even be fair:wow:

Same shyt. Just cause I'm 6'0, light skinned, nice smile and teeth, and nice eyes, these dudes expect me to pull dimes and fukk them the same night. I often pull chicks on the low and fukk them when no one expects to. :youngsabo:

I hate attention like that and I like to get shyt done to make me feel good by myself.
 

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And not all white girls dig me neither... But I really don't care. Most of the time it's those stuckup, elitist acting white chicks that act all smug and republican like. And then I get the super ghetto chicks of other races that expect me to act like the average nikka on a hip hop video and are disappointed when I don't/not.

I notice I get more play from those types when I act stupid/ignorant... But that shyt gets tiring.

Only chick I had close to being an attractive nerd was my ex... But she was also lazy and diva-ish with superficial daddy issues and an extremely high opinion of her opinions without having any life experience to back it up. Once I realized that I was acting more like her father than her boyfriend it was time for me to ride

I like black women almost as much as I like Latinas but I haven't found the one for me yet. I have notice that the older I've gotten the more attractive I have become to some of them. Back in the day, it was almost 0 play from them even if I was a handsome nikka. I kinda still feel that way as I went to my older cousins wedding last year and all the black females around my age acting funny. But I'm kinda poppin with the younger black crowd tho :patrice:

You probably grew up in the early 00s where the super thug was in and most black females that looked good back then only fukked with nikkas that looked like them. Same problemI had. Latinas used to mess with me and I cleant up house with them, but I know that only a quality black woman is the one that I would marry. This era, is where all the "weirdo" black women thrive and anyone can eat off of them :banderas:
 

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Personally I've had....

-Rape threats (from females)

-What I believe are numerous missed opportunities due to obliviousness...

-The old "look away"....I hate that shyt....


-ice-grilled by nikkaz for no apparent reason....

-bytches giving me attitude for no reason.. Couldn't tell if they were just stupid or what....

When I ate at FRIDAY's a couple of days ago, that shyt happened to me. This fine ass PR chick was staring me down while she was at her table of girlfriends and gave me the :shaq: look the entire time when I was eating. This chick was mad thirsty, but her friends were all cockblockers.
 

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Why do women give attitude for no reason?
I notice that lightskin black chicks give me the most attitude. Like they judge me straight up



In fact, a lot of cute chicks done that shyt to me. My roommate for example, she hated me and I had never said 2 words to her for the longest. She would say that it was how I looked.. Like I was judging or thought I was better than everyone. Once she got to know me she realized that was the FURTHEST thing on my mind... I've had multiple women and even dudes say that about me


My sister and I get that a lot... So maybe it's just how you look and come off.

I think it's funny when a pretty chick (lightskin or any color/race) walks around all stuckup and I pay them no attention.. Purposely. fukk you, I don't got time for that shyt :childplease:
 

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was walking through the hood one day this lady said "hi how you doin" i said helloand kept it pushin...all a sudden after I walk by she says "YOU GOT BEEF!":usure:before I turned around I was thinking "With Who?:childplease: nikkas don't want it" i turned around like :dwillhuh: she was like "You got Muscles".
When I smile, the girls in my peripheral who were staring start smiling like :lolbron:.

I'll be in a waiting area and a lady will sit close to me tryna position herself to get holla'd at then when I get on the phone and say "sup" she'll get all excited :pachaha: then be like aw he just on the phone:sadcam::shaq2:

catch intense stares in your face its like :dwillhuh:they trying to read everything about you by staring in your eyes. then when you make eye contact they get shy.
 

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Having dime co workers who are interested in you , but can't spit game because your married ..... :mjcry:
 

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Same shyt. Just cause I'm 6'0, light skinned, nice smile and teeth, and nice eyes, these dudes expect me to pull dimes and fukk them the same night. I often pull chicks on the low and fukk them when no one expects to. :youngsabo:

I hate attention like that and I like to get shyt done to make me feel good by myself.

Bruh she looking for you

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was walking through the hood one day this lady said "hi how you doin" i said helloand kept it pushin...all a sudden after I walk by she says "YOU GOT BEEF!":usure:before I turned around I was thinking "With Who?:childplease: nikkas don't want it" i turned around like :dwillhuh: she was like "You got Muscles".
When I smile, the girls in my peripheral who were staring start smiling like :lolbron:.

I'll be in a waiting area and a lady will sit close to me tryna position herself to get holla'd at then when I get on the phone and say "sup" she'll get all excited :pachaha: then be like aw he just on the phone:sadcam::shaq2:

catch intense stares in your face its like :dwillhuh:they trying to read everything about you by staring in your eyes. then when you make eye contact they get shy.

:russ:

That shyt u just type kinda happen to me but it was different n weird....

I was walking through the block heading to Chipotle, and a bunch of Spanish hoes was walking my way looking at me like :shaq:, and one of them stop and was like "hi papi", I was wearing my rasta tank top shirt, with black clerks, Jesus chain, and shorts, it was an hot summer. So one of the Spanish girl said some weird shyt in Spanish "hombre negro sexy", I was like wha? :what:, and I shake my head and walk away, until one of her friends was like, she said "sexy black man", and other friend was like, " you have nice Trey Songz lips, I bet u eat allot of p*ssy", and I was like :dwillhuh:, mind u half theses girls was half my age, maybe around 16-18, and one of her spanish friends feel my muscles, she said "u have nice muscles, sexy blackman", and she ask for my facebook, number, so I gave it to her, and kept on walking I wasn't interested, and as soon as I walk away, she grabbed my ass and bite her lips..... :skip:

Arrive @ Chipotle, and a bunch of high school girls was sitting down waiting for their food, and two of them was looking at me like :takedat:, I peeped for a quick second while I was on my phone, so I order my shyt, sat down, and one of them came up to me like " Hi".........staring at me for a couple of seconds, and I was like "wah gawn"? , and she was shy and couldn't say ONE word, and she just stare at me for a couple a min like....:shaq:, I was like " are u going to say something?- (island accent), and her friend grabbed her, and gave me a quick smile like :jawalrus:, and both of them went outside and started to agure... :skip:, shyt got weird so I dipped. Don't under-stand females. Everytime I talk to one or one talk to me, it's like they're "shy" towards me when it comes to a conversation... :yeshrug:



But I know how u feel breh... :mjcry:

They keep thinking u got hoes..... it's not easy..
 

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No homo:whoa:but Pic violations are in effect right now. Before a single dam gay joke comes thru lemme say no homo, just dont want nun yall claiming the set:birdman:. If you anit put in work in the reveal thread you:ufdup:
 
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