The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Those are broke hoodrats. I wouldn't call them red flags, they aren't on the market for many men

I know plenty women who are doing well with fukked weave/hair.

 

[It is a mystery]

Why?

Choker on that type of occasion = super hoe. Everyday hoes are fine, but idk if you want a super hoe breh

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

oh yeah.

if shes over 21 and claims she never slept with a black guy

cause even if shes telling the truth shes obv been thinking about it and probably been playing with big ass dildos, her shyt done. you dont want that

nikka wtf

 

[Maude]

If she flat out refuses to tell you her bodycount or sexual history.
Now, let me be clear, i'm not talking about how you react to the news, i'm saying if she feels that its not something worth sharing.

Having a high bodycount isn't going to stop me from dating someone, but lying about it is.

How would you know or find out if it's true? I only ask if it's someone I potentially know.

 

[JordanWearinThe45]

If when she's talking to her friends on the phone you hear "bytch" this "bytch" that, hit n dip

 

[Bless't]

Exes are MUCH older
History of ain't shyt exes - poor decision making and clearly isn't learning from it
Still close friends with a long-time ex
General anti-male sentiment, except for you course (just give it time)
Smoking, drinking to excess
Being fat and lazy
Drug habit
Only male friends
Heavy social media presence while being older than 20
Expects you to pay her way
Manipulative
Claims to have haters and "bytches who are jealous" of her

Surprised this hasnt been mentioned much in the thread.

If she turns everything around on you and does so in an effortless manner... red flag. No matter how much sense you're making or how many valid points you're bringing up, if she still doesnt take responsibility for a blatant sign of disrespect or wrongdoing, bushes.

 

[Vodun]

its interesting when you know its a red flag you have a strong gut feeling that moves you. it kind of makes you step outside of yourself and start to question that action you just witness

 

[Malik1time]

Multiple, random ass tats (especialy on chest)

Posts on social media multiple times daily

Multiple baby fathers

Trips to dubai with "friends"

Flossing with bad credit

Doesnt pay her own bills

Yoo you isn't lying at all if I met a girl who said she travels to dubai imma hit her with the......

 

[EndDomination]

Yeah this is a more subtle one. I'm highly suspicious if a woman has no social media presence at all. If she's 'on and off' social media she's an attention seeker who loves online drama and oversharing.

There are three kinds of women with no social media presence.
Those who got "exposed" for something on social media, those who are from a tight-knit conservative/religious family who would basically use the platform to stalk her, or someone with a superiority complex about not having social media.
All three should be avoided, proceed with caution.
(p.s. The same is true for their male counterparts.)

 

[DaPresident]

This, smash fast usually got the same options as make em wait but without the waiting time. He got VIP access at Universal Studios


Not true. Unless she's a trash poster on the Coli.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

A lot of real talk in here.

From my experience women who are constantly at the club on weekends drinking it up is a wild red flag. A lot of these women low key suffer from alcoholism but will never admit to it.

 

[VFib]

Yoo you isn't lying at all if I met a girl who said she travels to dubai imma hit her with the......

What if she"s only been there once or twice.

 

[Guile]

Useless thread.

 

[K.Dot]

Why the hell is if she says she loves hard a red flag?

 

[resurrection]

Not reading thru this so sorry if I'm repeating

-Really big on social media
-Smokes
-Voted for our current president
-Hesitant to show affection