The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread

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Another one that pokes the fukk out of my spider senses.

Women who are always posting certain memes on social media. I dont know how to describe them but all i can say is they seem like scorned memes. Few examples

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Or

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or
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and so on and so forth
 

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1. Has children.
2. Smokes or does drugs.
3. Identifies as a feminist or co-signs feminist ideas or talking points.
4. Doesn't belive in patriarchy or fights against patriarchy.
5. Uses Tumblr words like "Misogynoir", "Cisgender", and "Colorist".
6. History of sexual abuse.
7. Has casual sex.
8. Grew up without a her father or doesn't have a relationship with her father.
 
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Lol so 85% of all women are undateable to u

To be honest, by the time I hit my mid to late 20s I was starting to be selective and if having someone with a depth of personality and intellectual curiosity was as important as good p*ssy. If that eliminates 85%:yeshrug: I found the keeper that was right for me with those standards. People put too much drama in their lives but fukking every hot girl with a pulse.
 

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What are some red flags when dating women ?

I'll start..

1. History of dating ex-cons or current gang members
2. Let's you hit it raw on the first date
3. Children under 5
5. Goes on and on or 'friends' with her ex
6. Binge drinking
7. Bad relationship with father
8. Has been recently engaged or married
9. Lies about little things --- bigger lies will exist
10 .over 35, wants marriage yet still single.
11. Eats an astonishing amount of fast food
12. Drinks cheap liquor (burnetts, taaka, colt 45)

Add on...
I dislike your avi OP, and have disliked it from the start that you've used it - I simply don't think those killings were justified at the end of the day an eye for an eye is just not it. Innocent people got killed on both sides, neither were ok. And yes it was revenge, but then go out and kill the actual cops who did the killing. That's my 2 cents.

That said: this tread subject is piff, pure piff. Great subject. And all the young bulls + kent should read it and all dudes should read it period. Props.
 

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Yes. I can't believe guys don't understand this.

Guy you don't care about : Instant smash
Guy you actually value : Wait to build.

Kinda like for guys

Girl you couldn't give a shyt about and just wanna smash : Mickey D
Girl you really like: Get suited and booted to take her out on the town

Sorry, no. I am not going to be your simp or "Plan B" nice guy so you can fukk dudes you admit ain't shyt so you can build (i.e. use) me once you are done. Been there with some chicks in my youth. I was a slow learner back then but once I knew the game, detecting this vibe meant a :camby:sooner rather than later. Call us when you are 35 and claim "there ain't no good men out there."
 

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When she has 4 brothers, 2 in jail and the others she never mention their whereabouts. Considers her dad a "idiot" and her mom her savior. A person to look up to when she mentions that her mom use to fight people when she gets drunk back in her younger days. Has leopard print tattoo on foot and leopard on almost anything you can out leopard print on.
 

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Have a conversation. A long one. In person. Go straight to the horse's mouth rather than looking at fb/ig/tattoos she has/etc. A person might be able to memorize 3 or 4 "right" answers, but not all of them. Talk long enough and true colors will come out

THIS! I'm in this situation right NOW. The more you talk to them the more shyt you will undercover. "I didn't txt you back because i smoked weed.." (women that smoke anything, red flag!!) "yeah porn can fukk yo your mind.. my last bf was heavy into it.." so what did you do? Dump him? :usure: "No.. he wanted to do anal, I was like.. dude man I'm not into that :picard:" so.. what did you do?:gucci: " well I'm
Not the type of person to knock something without trying it first.. :patrice:" oh.. tell me more.. :dwillhuh: " he fukked me in my ass.. :ehh: " did you like it.. :beli: " hell yeah :ohlawd:" yep.. this is the girl at the front desk at my job also telling me this yesterday.. idk how this convo came up.. :flabbynsick:
 

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Cuts herself. No joke knew a black girl that did this, then she wondered why I took so long for me to ask her to be my girlfriend. It was never gonna happen :skip:

Bisexual. Not necessarily a deal breaker for some dudes, but it is for me on taking her seriously. Only if shes experienced tho

THIS!! I know a Hispanics chick that cut her self and is bisexual. Always messing around with rough neck dudes at bars. Skips out on work also.
 

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Has too many male "friends"
Had interest for a girl a while back who stayed talking to simps about all of her problems , eventually telling them everything we would talk about :what:
Wasn't serious but it's none of their business.

Ex is in jail (domestic abuse)
Daddy issues
Favorite shows are from Shonda Rimes
Been molested
Stays posting memes on IG
Posts all her business on Facebook
Leopard print

What's with the leopard print or print from a big cat? Brehs explain?! :pachaha:
 

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Women can have male friends. Problem is if she ask him to fukk and he complies without a second thought(which most dudes would do if the girl is halfway attractive), that ain't your friend. That's a nikka wanting to fukk you, but too passive to actually just approach like that.

I refuse to believe women are that dense when it comes to this. My question is why they try to play around the whole male friends thing? :patrice:

Attention. That is all... :stopitslime:
 

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Sorry, no. I am not going to be your simp or "Plan B" nice guy so you can fukk dudes you admit ain't shyt so you can build (i.e. use) me once you are done. Been there with some chicks in my youth. I was a slow learner back then but once I knew the game, detecting this vibe meant a :camby:sooner rather than later. Call us when you are 35 and claim "there ain't no good men out there."
You still gone have the same number, love?
 
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