The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Women Thread

RoyalQ

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Another one that pokes the fukk out of my spider senses.

Women who are always posting certain memes on social media. I dont know how to describe them but all i can say is they seem like scorned memes. Few examples

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Or

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or
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and so on and so forth
So true:russ:. I'm a woman and I know to not even be friends with these kinds of girls. They are exhausting as friends, I cant imagine men in a relationship with them. Always posting relationship and self love quotes. I have an old coworker that I had to unfollow for this shyt. Multiple times per day posting relationship crap. She got 6 kids 4 baby daddies, current boyfriend is in jail and they getting married when he comes home, can't hold a job for more than a months. So much family drama.
My cousin is turning into this type of woman but I can't unfollow her.
 

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So true:russ:. I'm a woman and I know to not even be friends with these kinds of girls. They are exhausting as friends, I cant imagine men in a relationship with them. Always posting relationship and self love quotes. I have an old coworker that I had to unfollow for this shyt. Multiple times per day posting relationship crap. She got 6 kids 4 baby daddies, current boyfriend is in jail and they getting married when he comes home, can't hold a job for more than a months. So much family drama.
My cousin is turning into this type of woman but I can't unfollow her.
I don't mind if it's here and there. But when it's back to back to back in a span of 5 minutes I want to scream.
 

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So true:russ:. I'm a woman and I know to not even be friends with these kinds of girls. They are exhausting as friends, I cant imagine men in a relationship with them. Always posting relationship and self love quotes. I have an old coworker that I had to unfollow for this shyt. Multiple times per day posting relationship crap. She got 6 kids 4 baby daddies, current boyfriend is in jail and they getting married when he comes home, can't hold a job for more than a months. So much family drama.
My cousin is turning into this type of woman but I can't unfollow her.
Man all these are from this chick on facebook i was trying to fukk. She's friends with some friends of mine. I'll admit it's more than lust i have a bit of a crush on her. BUt the minute we became fb friends and i saw this i stayed away. She posts one of those at least 2 to 3 times a week.

So sad because i really looking to hit that phatty of hers from behind. Cute little black american chick from San Diego
 

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She takes pride in claiming she's crazy :beli:

Lack of identity outside of you or morphs into a female version of you to initially impress you. For the world of you, you don't know who she is or what makes her tick b/c she's a chameleon that takes on the traits of everyone around her while never having formed a stable identity for herself.:what:

Consumes too much female porn like romance novels and movies. Everybody got favorites but just like men can OD on porn and fapping, women can too. The result--makes em resent real men who can't live up to those fantasy standards.:martin:


Will let u do LITERALLY anything to her. :gladbron:

Is always going from relationship to relationship with no break in between.:comeon:

Can't keep anything between u and her. Big red flag here.:hhh:

Doesn't try to fix ur place up or clean up ur spot if ur junkie. It might seem irritating but a well raised woman can take u to the next level. If she's okay living with u in filth, sleeping on the floor or adding to ur mess...that ain't one u want. :picard:

Has low or very few standards in men.:mjlol:

Or

Has ridiculously high standards that don't match her own worth.:usure:

Poor hygiene :scust:

Posts on The Coli:troll:

So much underrated truth in that bolded. :whoo:
 

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well according to the coli I'm just one big walking stop sign. this is why i don't keep it real with men about my life :whew:
 

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1. Always claiming she's been wronged in past relationships, chances are she was probably doing the dirt and the reason it ended.
2. Has kids and says shyt like real men take care of some of other dudes kids.
3. Always going on and on about what real men do (Tranny Alert unless she's getting her Caitlyn Jenner on she wouldn't know anything about what men do).
4. Takes relationship advice from pics on social media, dumb bytches like Trina and simp guru's like Derrick Jaxn instead of happily married wife's.
5. Doesn't have a savings account there's good a chance she's bad with managing money and/or trying to live a lifestyle she can't afford.
6. Doesn't workout and eat like shyt.
7. Quickly brings up her financial hardships obvious she looking for help off the rip and nothing more.
8. Doesn't reply back in timely matter chances are she's talking to other dudes and you're just of them.
9. Got every form of social media chances are she has low self esteem and get's an ego boost of the attention she gets on there.
10. Always complaining all men ain't shyt or all nikkas ain't shyt but the real reason is all the men she likes fit that description and she doesn't have good decision making skills in picking mate and doesn't want to take accountability and own up for past decisions.
11. Can't take constructive criticism and whines that you're bashing her.
 
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