Take away thecoli, look at what he says in a vacuum and that is not how a mentally and spiritually healthy person acts.
by whose standards is that defined?
But he basically advocates being the most-extreme of social introverts, has never once posted anything that can be minutely related to happiness
you're right i do advocate being a total social invert. true happiness is an internal state its a decision you make i am happy. it isn't caused by anything external to you at all
once made a thread looking for blow-up dolls or some shyt on some "women don't like me and I know that so what's the point? It's just a bodily function anyhow?"
i used to make a lot of shock and troll threads and troll people in their threads. most of that shyt was said for the shock value of saying is because people just don't say stuff like that. i'd often argue points i didn't even agree with with people on SOHH just for the sake of argument.
if you have been observing me since those early days clearly there's been a shift in my rhetoric since those days. mostly because i quit saying dumb and shocking things for the sake of saying them.
No, folks that is not the person you're about to turn into some tortured saint in here. I honestly feel bad for the guy, he obviously doesn't enjoy life.
you state that i don't enjoy life as if you're speaking for me when that isn't even possible. you look at what you've gathered about me from your perspective and of course you being you looking at my life would probably find it to be a miserable hell because you say things like
Human beings weren't made to be alone
i don't believe we are slaves to our genetic design, impulses. and emotions. i believe you can choose what to do with yourself. choose what you want for yourself. people like you talk that it sin't natural to live like that shyt about people like me but people like me believe that as a person you aren't a slave to your design and emotions you can define yourself past those things.
I am naturally skeptical of most people, but I still have personal relationships. He doesn't believe in them at all. Let me ask you all this, how many loners end up happy when it's all said and done?
this is what people in society who only really know extroversion say. they look at heavily introverted people such as myself and think how can you be ok being alone?
psychologically i'm mapped different from you. the comfort you gain from being around others is the comfort a gain from being alone. the discomfort you experience being alone that's what i feel when i'm around others for a prolong period of time.
He's scared of the world and to be engaged with the world. You guys are falling for specious arguments while ignoring that the architect of them takes it to a logical end and extreme that we've probably all seen in life before and it's unhealthy.
-My only post on the subject. Get well guy.
i'm not scared of the world at all when required i go out and interact with it just fine. i just recognize the world for what it is. i'm not like these people that put on blinders and go out there and pretend the world is a good place. the world and the majority of the people in it are ugly. most people only really care about themselves and how you serve their needs and purposes. these are the people you go out and say these are my friends and acquaintances and because your interest and their interest haven't been put into extreme conflict tall get along and you promote that as an enriching personal relationship when in reality in the right situation most friends become enemies and most of your enemies in life are actually people who used to be your friends.
the cherry on top. basically stop being who you are and become a person more inline with who i am because in my world where people think like me and feel like me a person like you is sick. you're not sick because you actually are you're sick because your thinking isn't in line with how i believe people should think and your life isn't in line with the way i think people should life and truthfully i don't respect that sort of deviation.
the irony is if i was just another poster posting things you agree with i'd be ok not because i'm actually ok but because you relate and agree to what i say.