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I don't have any children, I never will, and I'll never be in a position to be responsible for one or at this point in my life really even interact with one again so there isn't a problem.

It's not like I'm going to harm a child. They just find them to be obnoxious. If they ever do try to say anything to me I give them short clipped monotonous responses until they get the hint and leave me alone or I pretend I didn't hear them / ignore them until they go away. All those usually work well. As a last resort I'll tell them don't speak to me I'm a stranger.
At what age did you have the epiphany not to give a fukk? What was the event that was the turning point in your life to make you nihilistic?
 

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Damn..the babies aggravate you that much? You can teach them things. Lead by example. It's very rewarding.
 

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Hes been like this for over 20 years. If i can recall, some woman broke him when he was a teenager or his early 20s and he aint been the same since.
 

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At what age did you have the epiphany not to give a fukk? What was the event that was the turning point in your life to make you nihilistic?
I've always been this way. I was raised an only child who never had to share or go along with anyone. I almost always got my way. Most children are forced to compromise with other children or their parents make them do things they don't want to do.

I've lived an entire life of almost no sacrifice or compromise for another human being. It's my nature to be this way at this point. My worst nightmare is even being put in a position that relies on another. Typically in my life If I can't do it myself or acquire it with money I lose interest in it and don't want it anymore.
 

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Clinical psychologist here. Dude would definitely meet the diagnosis for schizoid personality disorder, but I don't necessarily view people with that disorder as "pathological" per se, especially compared to the symptoms characteristic of other personality disorders. The problem isn't really that he thinks this way and chooses to live his life in this manner, as there is some truth to his arguments about the challenges inherent in being connected to other people. The problem is that his ideology is so rigid and inflexible that he has completely closed himself off from the possibility that things COULD potentially be different for him. And while he makes sound arguments for why this type of lifestyle makes sense for him, it seems like he tends to overextend those personally valuable insights into these broad generalizations about how the world/humanity/society works that are just not true for most other people with different types of life experiences. Not sure what his history with mental health treatment is, but he could benefit from therapy, not with someone who looks at him as "diseased" and is trying to fix him, but is willing to meet him where he's at and try to understand why he feels this way, and also appreciates that he likely has a very rich and complex inner life that sustains him. People like him are super interesting when you take time to get to know them.
 

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I've always been this way. I was raised an only child who never had to share or go along with anyone. I almost always got my way. Most children are forced to compromise with other children or their parents make them do things they don't want to do.

I've lived an entire life of almost no sacrifice or compromise for another human being. It's my nature to be this way at this point. My worst nightmare is even being put in a position that relies on another. Typically in my life If I can't do it myself or acquire it with money I lose interest in it and don't want it anymore.
What is your game plan once you age and your health deteriorates?
 

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Clinical psychologist here. Dude would definitely meet the diagnosis for schizoid personality disorder, but I don't necessarily view people with that disorder as "pathological" per se, especially compared to the symptoms characteristic of other personality disorders. The problem isn't really that he thinks this way and chooses to live his life in this manner, as there is some truth to his arguments about the challenges inherent in being connected to other people. The problem is that his ideology is so rigid and inflexible that he has completely closed himself off from the possibility that things COULD potentially be different for him. And while he makes sound arguments for why this type of lifestyle makes sense for him, it seems like he tends to overextend those personally valuable insights into these broad generalizations about how the world/humanity/society works that are just not true for most other people with different types of life experiences. Not sure what his history with mental health treatment is, but he could benefit from therapy, not with someone who looks at him as "diseased" and is trying to fix him, but is willing to meet him where he's at and try to understand why he feels this way, and also appreciates that he likely has a very rich and complex inner life that sustains him. People like him are super interesting when you take time to get to know them.
I don't do this. I totally get that my views and opinions are both extreme my own and people shouldn't strive to live a life entirely being self sufficient never relying on others.

If anything what you describe is other people. They have a way they view the world and to them anyone outside that is a problem. If you don't share their values they find it offensive. You can even see it with how some people here treat me.

There's this whole I have other people's approval so I'm a winner and you don't so you're a loser angle. Like the approval of others is some form of mental currency that determines winners and losers in life. Like having a woman choose to be with them or have sex with them two concepts I personally find repulsive are some high value that makes them winners in life. These are people who likely spend excessive amounts of time and money and go into debt chasing the approval of others.

In my value system the fact that you need someone else's approval means you lost. The way they think I'm a loser I think they're losers and they laugh at me and I'm laughing right back at them because their whole world is dependent upon other people giving them acceptance and approval and I've become self-sufficient.
 

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Yall gotta let breh cook at this point. He doesn’t bother anyone here or in real life’s

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I don't have any children, I never will, and I'll never be in a position to be responsible for one or at this point in my life really even interact with one again so there isn't a problem.

It's not like I'm going to harm a child. They just find them to be obnoxious. If they ever do try to say anything to me I give them short clipped monotonous responses until they get the hint and leave me alone or I pretend I didn't hear them / ignore them until they go away. All those usually work well. As a last resort I'll tell them don't speak to me I'm a stranger.

It's sohh demonic friends
 
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