The only thing worse than not having a father...

[Trillion]

take away the dad and that nikka odesnt grow up in the house he did, nor eat the food he did or the life he did, maybe pops hated mom and just chugged it out for his ungrateful offspring.


my dad didnt pat me on the head and give life lessons between 850-857pm like he was carl winslow, but I would not have this life for all the sacrifices pops made, ill never throw a word of slander his way

man what kinda man dont nurture his own seed bruh
what the fuc were u doing? drinking with your buds?
nikka put a million things before his son for over 18 years and he should be respected?
man if i had a friend that neglected his kids like that i wont have respect for him
how u gon see your son grow up, never teach your mini-you how to talk to girls how to drive , you just throw your son out in the world
like that

 

[LegendZelda325]

My dad was a piece of shyt too but he was a ridiculous provider so I guess he thought he "did enough".

Funny thing he was in the hospital last year after having heart surgery and he basically broke down and apologized for years of being emotionally abusive and a dikk.

Said he was proud of me said I'm gonna be a better father than he will be.

:shrug: So we good now.

Wow, your father is a better man than my fakkot ass father. After all the shyt he put us through, and to this day he maintains that he was a good father, and that I need to, in his words, "get over it." Every time he tells me that it just make me hate him more. Here I am trying to pick up the pieces of my life that he destroyed, and thats what he tells me??? My mother is like an emotionless zombie who pretends not to remember anything. To tell you the truth...they can both go to hell!!!

 

[MikelArteta]

if you don't shut up

 

[Trillion]

Wow, your father is a better man than my fakkot ass father. After all the shyt he put us through, and to this day he maintains that he was a good father, and that I need to, in his words, "get over it." Every time he tells me that it just make me hate him more. Here I am trying to pick up the pieces of my life that he destroyed, and thats what he tells me??? My mother is like an emotionless zombie who pretends not to remember anything. To tell you the truth...they can both go to hell!!!

keep your head up bro
when u move out and get your bytch u ait gon be like him

 

[hoodheronova]

Damn you going thru a lot my n*gga. You should go see a therapist tho before you start mass murdering people

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Wow, your father is a better man than my fakkot ass father. After all the shyt he put us through, and to this day he maintains that he was a good father, and that I need to, in his words, "get over it." Every time he tells me that it just make me hate him more. Here I am trying to pick up the pieces of my life that he destroyed, and thats what he tells me??? My mother is like an emotionless zombie who pretends not to remember anything. To tell you the truth...they can both go to hell!!!

If your family is anything like mine, your mom is just as much a victim as you were.

 

[Aceofspades404]

you stay undermining other people's life experiences, shyt is wack.
How you gone tell somebody how THEY should feel when you didn't live with them?
Just crawl back into your hole and keep that crap in your diary.

 

[Sad Bunny]

fukk ya dad...just act like he's dead

That's what i do to anyone ... friends or family or coworkers that don't add anything to my life

 

[MikelArteta]

you stay undermining other people's life experiences, shyt is wack.
How you gone tell somebody how THEY should feel when you didn't live with them?
Just crawl back into your hole and keep that crap in your diary.

 

[LegendZelda325]

She's right tho. You don't know me, and you don't know my circumstances. Your comments in this thread have been very disrespectful. And NO I don't think you should respect and love your parents no matter what. They brought me into their lives it wasn't the other way around. I didn't ask to be here, and I'm not just going to pat them on the back because they fukked without a condom!!!!

 

[SpringWater]

My whole thing is...if you're going to be more of a hindrance than a help JUST LEAVE!!!! I wish my parents would have divorced because my childhood was nothing but them yelling and fighting on into my teenage years when my father's rage and anger was then directed at me. Beatings, making me stand with my arms out while beating my back with a belt, cornering me (invading my personal space) while he yelled at me to the point of his spit flying into my face. I just feel so fukked up now as an adult in his early 20s. Where is my confidence suppose to come from? So many little things bother me and effect me now because of him.

I'm so sorry that you went through this. And, it's good you are talking about it. You shouldn't feel like you can't discuss it. It was certainly NOT your fault. He sounds weak. Like a weak man unable to separate his life frustrations from his duty as a father. You have to gain your confidence from within. Know it had absolutely nothing to do with you. Those were his own issues. Unfortunately, he made you a scapegoat but you don't deserve to be that, nor should you OWN his shyt. Leave his shyt with him and be your own man. Get a male mentor that you admire and get closer with your mother. Learn about the rest of your lineage, your grandfathers, and take pride in the good aspects of your heritage and cleave toward those aspects. Decide for yourself what type of man you'd like to be and what type of husband and father you would like to be and make a commitment to live based on your own principles. Judge your worth based on who you want to be and not on the mistreatment and devaluing your father subjected you to. He wasn't acting in his right mind. He was wrong. Also remember, parents are human and many make colossal mistakes that are NOT a reflection of their children in any way,.

I hope you are able to begin to forgive him for his weakness and feel better about who you are and where you are going. Much love.