The Science of the Friend Zone

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lmao you friendzone yourself. anybody can walk right out of it.

any cats feeling silly about it, look at it this way:

she's coming around you cause she wants to.

You know all her likes and dislikes.

You listen to her complain about other men, so you know and that non-superficial shyt that she likes, pacing, etc....

When she's around, her guard and defenses are damn near totally down.



It's like somebody gave you a combination to a safe. You gonna use that shyt?

Breh she's telling you all the things she wanna change on the other nikka breaking her back. :pachaha:

She done already throw ya pride in the bushes :deadrose:
 

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Thats the friend zone.

Right, but there needs to be context involved. Its not, oh I dont wanna ruin a friendship, or I value him/her as a friend --- they just dont wanna fck with you. It would be that way whether ya'll were friends or not, and you just met.
 
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If she's not (no longer) sexually interested in you, you're in the friendzone.

Most men can start off with sexual interest from the woman but place themselves in the friendzone because of their behaviours or lack of physical escalation.
 

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When a girl who knows your feeling her says she likes you as a friend, what she really means is "i am not attracted to you but i dont know how to tell you without hurting your feelings because you seem like a sensitive little faq who wouldnt know how to handle it so this is a nice way of doing it without denting your fragile little ego"

fukk a friendzone tell that girl you already got plenty of friends and being just friends with her was never your intentions and keep it moving or tell her you actually have self-respect and ask her why you would think so low of yourself to be friends with someone who rejected you, i bet she wont even be able to answer that question.
 
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I was put in the friend zone by my Wife. Then I got out of it.

Smashed. Put a cheap ring on her finger.

And left her to smash on other bytches 4 years later. Should've stayed friends really.
 
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Right, but there needs to be context involved. Its not, oh I dont wanna ruin a friendship, or I value him/her as a friend --- they just dont wanna fck with you. It would be that way whether ya'll were friends or not, and you just met.

Not quite. There is also such a thing as a chick feeling you at first but putting you into friend status based on the way you play it.
 

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So basically he's saying that...friendzone isn't really that bad, because we're gradually making less and less friends and hence it's sorta a blessing to be there? :why:

How does that deal with the fact that, it's sorta painfull to be friendzoned :to:. Decent video but...felt sorta pointless. The only really good point made there was that the whole "Nice guy finishes last" is a bit of a delusion, seeing that it could just a be a case of you thinking that she was the one for you, when someone outside looking in could tell that you're not really compatible. The video should've just ended at that point.
 

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There is no such thing as a "friend zone", but there is such a thing as a "not feeling you, but I guess we can be friends if you aint a weirdo zone"...Even if you are a "friend" at first, if a broad feeling you, that box is always ready to unlock. You just have to find the key.

:blessed: This thread is old, already saw the video, but seeing this post again made it worth opening again.
 

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When a girl who knows your feeling her says she likes you as a friend, what she really means is "i am not attracted to you but i dont know how to tell you without hurting your feelings because you seem like a sensitive little faq who wouldnt know how to handle it so this is a nice way of doing it without denting your fragile little ego"

fukk a friendzone tell that girl you already got plenty of friends and being just friends with her was never your intentions and keep it moving or tell her you actually have self-respect and ask her why you would think so low of yourself to be friends with someone who rejected you, i bet she wont even be able to answer that question.


Ask the right girl, I bet you get an answer.
 

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This girl I know is having relationship problems...should I dive right in and tell her I have feelings for her?
 

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lmao you friendzone yourself. anybody can walk right out of it.

any cats feeling silly about it, look at it this way:

she's coming around you cause she wants to.

You know all her likes and dislikes.

You listen to her complain about other men, so you know and that non-superficial shyt that she likes, pacing, etc....

When she's around, her guard and defenses are damn near totally down.



It's like somebody gave you a combination to a safe. You gonna use that shyt?

:rudy: it dont work like that..
 
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