The Science of the Friend Zone

[Liquid]

watching this in about 20-30 minutes

 

[Sierra Mist]

The friend zone can get nasty though if you're not careful. You don't want to be in the position where the girl leads you on as if you can be something but she just uses you to get confidence from your simping her. I don't know if I've said it in this particular thread because it's old but one way to own the friendzone is to fukk the girl's friends. She can't get mad at you for it either because you're not with her so it's not cheating and it's not breaking the "girl code" either. Then watch her magically want you.

 

[b_low_brown]

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Would I want to date a woman that I don't find physically appealing, but who shared some of the same interests that I do? of course not. But would I want to be friends with her? yes.

If a woman has some non-physical assets, but looked passable but not all that attractive. I'd date her because I want access to those assets, not because I've got any sort of feelings for her or because I think she's attractive.

I think women operate on that same logic. If they can't get anything out of a man, then they wouldn't really be fukkin with him like that. Finding someone who has similar interests isn't hard. Finding a dude that is paid, intelligent, has similar interests, and who they find attractive is very difficult. Probably why so many women end up with bum ass dudes getting money illegally and who are looking swole only because they've been in prison and don't give a fukk about goin back. He's as close to the ideal as possible so they settlle

If you're at the top and you have shyt going for you, you don't complain about being in any damn friendzone.

 

[Liquid]

Video wasn't that good

 

[AquaCityBoy]

There's no such thing as the "friend zone" because women aren't vending machines that you put niceness coins into in exchange for sex.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

I was put in the friend zone by my Wife. Then I got out of it.

Smashed. Put a cheap ring on her finger.

And left her to smash on other bytches 4 years later. Should've stayed friends really.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Dudes that allow themselves to be in the "friendzone" deserve to be in the "friendzone"
I have never played along with that bullshyt. I have actually had times when I have told a chick straight up, I ain't tryna be your gatdamn friend.

Or I have flossed another female in her face and in turn the chick that was tryna put me in the friendzone let me smash. Females will get away with what u let them get away with. Females will test u to see how much she can do to u. This is how nyggaz end up in a trick bag. And The abundance of simps enable females to continue to walk all over some dudes. So if u sit around with these hopes of 1 day smashin, u are wishin on a fuccin star. The females are out lettin the next nyggaz bash her gts in while some dues sit around "hopin & wishin"

 

[Vilified not verified]

Ask the right girl, I bet you get an answer.

well im all ears

 

[electric_fur]

No the friendzone exists. You can't make a chick like you.

 

[winb83]

there is no such thing as the friend zone. you are not a friend because you don't value or want her friendship you're just a guy who wants to fukk her and who she doesn't want to fukk that's hanging around post-rejection.

most women aren't a$$holes. they'll let you down gently. if you wanna take that and run with it and call that the friend zone that just makes you an idiot.

 

[Arabial Knight]

If a chick is your friend and you've never boned then she isn't attracted to you. Get the fukk over it. There is no friendzone. There is a "I never wanted to get boned by you in the first place" zone.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

When a girl who knows your feeling her says she likes you as a friend, what she really means is "i am not attracted to you but i dont know how to tell you without hurting your feelings because you seem like a sensitive little faq who wouldnt know how to handle it so this is a nice way of doing it without denting your fragile little ego"

fukk a friendzone tell that girl you already got plenty of friends and being just friends with her was never your intentions and keep it moving or tell her you actually have self-respect and ask her why you would think so low of yourself to be friends with someone who rejected you, i bet she wont even be able to answer that question.

I honestly wouldn't expect dude to be my friend if I am not interested in him, and have more respect for him if he was like "im straight on being friends considering I want more, but your not interested and thats cool."

VS

A dude like " we can be friends." knowing damn well he is trying to either get in where he fit in or wait me out hoping I will come around.


The friend zone is just a nice way of telling someone.. "Hey, thats great that you like me and all, but im not feeling you in that way . But since im not a comeplete a$$hole, lets continue to get along and act like everything is cool between us knowing that one person likes the other."

Shyt dumb.

To put it plainly... either I want to fukk you, or I don't. And if I don't... "friendzone" you go

 

[360dagod]

There is no such thing as a "friend zone", but there is such a thing as a "not feeling you, but I guess we can be friends if you aint a weirdo zone"...Even if you are a "friend" at first, if a broad feeling you, that box is always ready to unlock. You just have to find the key.

being friends and being in the friend zone is 2 different things

 

[karim]

The Science of the Friend Zone - YouTube

Some of his points are cliche but a lot of them make a lot of sense. I personally don't believe the friendzone exists unless you allow yourself to be there. Do you guys agree or no?

this guy is wrong. there is nothing wrong with rejection if a woman just isn't attracted to you. if you get along otherwise, there is also nothing wrong with being friends. but a woman trying to put you in the friendzone is not your friend, she is using you, playing games and wasting your time.

i had this one chick at school who at first seemed to have a total crush on me. she went to great length to get my attention and when she finally did, she started playing a game i would call "hot and cold". one day she was all into me, the next she borderline ignored me. and dates would always start out pretty good and right in the middle of it, she would start blocking all advances and switch to just hanging out with a friend. she also became flakey and started telling me about other guys that asked her out. so i was like and stopped seeing her. i would be nice when we met at school, but other than that, i completely lost interest. she approached me a couple of times, hinting at us doing something together again, but i ignored her.

however, at some point she told me that she was pretty bad at dating or flirting, because she didn't know what to do. i also overheard her talking to a friend when she said something along the lines of "it started out kind of romantic, but you know i'm not good at that, so i screwed it up". then we were assigned to do a project together. we met at her house a couple of times, working on our project and she started escalating. i thought about fukking her, but with what i had seen before, i didn't feel comfortable about it, because we had to write this paper together, and i didn't want to jeoperdize my grades over some p*ssy. on the other hand, i had grown to like her, because we had a lot of things in common, she had a sense of humor and she struck me as a genuinely good person. so i thought that if she really was just shy or bad at dating, than i would try and give her another chance when we finished the paper, and see if she was serious about me.

i asked her out again, but she started playing the same kinds of games. so i gave her the face and told her that i took her behavior as disrespect. in response, she fed me all this bs about how she had feelings for me, but that she had a lot of doubts about whether or not a relationship would work out because we went to school together and blablabla. couldn't we just stay friends. i was like at first but then i and told her no, that she had manipulated me into making an ass out of myself, that what she had just told me was bs and that i had never met a woman who was undecided for month on end about whether or not she was attracted to me. she wrote me an email later, talking about complicated feelings and whatnot, which i ignored. so after a couple of weeks, she hit me up on facebook, trying to make smalltalk as if nothing had happened. i ignored that too. she left town soon afterwards, and a couple of month later, i received a message from her, saying that she was visiting and meeting up with a couple of mutual friends...

that right there is the friendzone, a woman trying to string you along. it is to be avoided at all costs. i can respect a woman who straight up tells me she isn't interested, or who let's me down after a couple of dates when she loses interest. it happens. everything else is nothing but manipulation and all you can do to a woman like that is to tell her to fukk off and leave you alone.