Actually being a gentlemen is not hot in the coli streets I see. Your mothers didnt raise you right...yes I said it.
You don't learn that shyt from your mother you learn it from your dad.
And there isn't anything wrong with dating, courting and paying for dinners (my general rule is if I ask you out then im paying). Coli brehs in TLR always had a tough time knowing the difference between a simp and a logical, responsible adult who knows what courting is.
BUT
I still come from a tribe called Checkaho. A father will tell his son when to know he's being USED and when to move on.