The SIMPING this guy does completely disgusts, be ready to puke, brehs

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Actually being a gentlemen is not hot in the coli streets I see. Your mothers didnt raise you right...yes I said it.

You don't learn that shyt from your mother you learn it from your dad.


And there isn't anything wrong with dating, courting and paying for dinners (my general rule is if I ask you out then im paying). Coli brehs in TLR always had a tough time knowing the difference between a simp and a logical, responsible adult who knows what courting is.

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I still come from a tribe called Checkaho. A father will tell his son when to know he's being USED and when to move on.
 

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Exactly. That is a man who doesn't value his own time, and nothing is sacred to him. This woman isn't being treated special, she is being checklisted cause the fool doesn't know
any other way to operate. She should also assume that if he is willing to do ALL of this, that if it doesn't work out, he may very well turn into a bitter bytch because he feels
he "invested" so much.

Any woman who does not see this will be played, or wonder why every dude seems mentally unbalanced, when she doesn't pump the breaks on dudes who do too much too quick.
Those dudes get clingy FAST.
Yea the value of time is the missing component here. I'm not saying brehs should put zero effort in but paying for a chick's babysitter :aicmon: What if a dude has kids and the woman doesn't? Should she pay for his? :comeon:

This dude is operating under the premise that the mere action of a woman giving him the time of day is worth all this insanity. No, u have to reserve that for someone who has proven themselves worthy which takes time.
 

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"I havent had sex in 18 months"


what he fails to realize is how he is is exactly why he hasn't had sex in 18 months...broads will like and go awww thats cute and he's such a sweet guy but best believe you gets no play...the last fight me and my wife got into, I called her a 100 bytches and hoes...that same night she was riding my dyck.
Wife women who like to be called bytches and hoes, all your doing is attracting women with low self worth.
 

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:mjlol: you know this sounds absurd. ain't no new nikka gonna pay for your damn kids babysitter. and you're nuts for thinking that that is a prerequisite for taking you out.

After 5 mins of convo

Breh: You're fun to talk to, how about I treat you to some coffee sometime?
Brehette: That will be during the day, so my kids babysitter charges $40 an hour, and my kids might get hungry so they need some groceries. I also need to fill up my tank.
Breh: ....just wanted some coffee:mjcry:
 

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Yea the value of time is the missing component here. I'm not saying brehs should put zero effort in but paying for a chick's babysitter :aicmon: What if a dude has kids and the woman doesn't? Should she pay for his? :comeon:

This dude is operating under the premise that the mere action of a woman giving him the time of day is worth all this insanity. No, u have to reserve that for someone who has proven themselves worthy which takes time.
Facts. Lord knows back in College I met a ton of decent girls who were worth dating. But I was on this jackassery and put all my eggs in one time-consuming basket.
Find out the chick wasn't worth all the effort, next thing I know everyone else moved on.

A man who doesn't value his time probably doesn't do anything meaningful. It should really be a BIG red flag.
 

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Courting vs Simping? What's the difference? Serious question. Provide examples too please.
 

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Courting vs Simping? What's the difference? Serious question. Provide examples too please.

Simping = the first post mentions it.
You are just getting to know a woman, yet you are paying for her groceries, babysitter, filling up her tank, and making sure that she has a reason to dress up for every date

Courting
You are just getting to know a woman. You invite her to dates, plan them, pay for everything on the date, even pick her up, but you are just getting to know her, not funding her life. You are not her man yet (hence courting), you are not responsible for her stability. She is an adult and not a child incapable of functioning without your assistance.
 

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Courting vs Simping? What's the difference? Serious question. Provide examples too please.

Courting aka Dating: Getting to know someone. Dates, Conversations, Cute Texts, SIMPLE gifts. I don't know you so I'm trying to get to know you

Simping: Using money/assets or fake deep nikka quotes to get a female's attention. Most of the time it's under the guise of " I'm not like most dudes."
 

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Simping = the first post mentions it.
You are just getting to know a woman, yet you are paying for her groceries, babysitter, filling up her tank, and making sure that she has a reason to dress up for every date

Courting
You are just getting to know a woman. You invite her to dates, plan them, pay for everything on the date, even pick her up, but you are just getting to know her, not funding her life. You are not her man yet (hence courting), you are not responsible for her stability.

Why don't nikkas/bytches understand this!!!?? :mindblown:
 

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Courting vs Simping? What's the difference? Serious question. Provide examples too please.
We've had plenty. @Paradise Road gave good examples like a date at a cafe, we even had a great thread a few days ago stating good first date spots like Dave and Busters and Laser Tag. That's how you court someone when trying to feel out if a relationship will blossom.

shyt like buying her gas, paying for her babysitter and shyt like that is simpin to the 10th degree. Telling women that you will treat them like a princess before even figuring if she's worth getting that treatment is sad sorry simpin. Buying someone's groceries who don't even stay at your fukking house is retarded, not even sad simping, just fukking stupid.

Now once you have made the cut from the dating life, you've gone exclusive with that person and this is an actual relationship and not just someone you fukking on thursday night, THEN she can get all these gifts and perks.
 
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