problem is women are sleeping with those bums and having the men who have resources picking up the bullshyt giving them rules and regulations to follow.
Its not that deep at all. If you don't have what they want your not getting picked, you aren't getting buns. Your "resources" are worthless.
Contrary to fairytales and romantic comedies not all women want a man with 401k, a house in his name with enough room to start a family. Women aren't out here waiting and wanting to be saved like some damsel in distress and the ones that are, are not the ones you want. Some women want to smoke and fukk, just like men.