Was gonna make a thread about the impact of having a Father in the black household...good post!
The Top Twelve Reasons Why So Many Good Black Men Are Still Single
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Was gonna make a thread about the impact of having a Father in the black household...good post!
half of them arent thugs
thats why
thats why
Yeah if ur a regular black man you're fukked. U have to deal with the wrath of everything. That's why its important to be independent. At least you'll be able to move the why u want
El negrito de tejas
Fukk the govt I got my own Deficit
Me and my boy in college were at a hookah bar with about 6 female friends.
All of them black, college degreed some in graduate school, majority grew up in a 2 parent household.
My older sister was talking to this black man who was 32 no kids, bmw 6 series, owned a 2 story house, and had a career in real estate. She said something was wrong with him.(She hadn't even met the guy yet)
I explain this mans exact stats to our female friends.
And guess what they all said?
"Somethings wrong with him"
"He's gay"
"He's on the down low"
"He's a liar or he's hiding something"
"Ain't no black man have all that without a black woman being involved"
Me and my boy:
Me: "what if he was white or Hispanic?"
Them: "oh that would be normal then..
Me and my boy:
I'm not giving up on black women but damn I can't have my shyt together without you thinking something is wrong with me?
I can't just want to be single?
All of them black, college degreed some in graduate school, majority grew up in a 2 parent household.
My older sister was talking to this black man who was 32 no kids, bmw 6 series, owned a 2 story house, and had a career in real estate. She said something was wrong with him.(She hadn't even met the guy yet)
I explain this mans exact stats to our female friends.
And guess what they all said?
"Somethings wrong with him"
"He's gay"
"He's on the down low"
"He's a liar or he's hiding something"
"Ain't no black man have all that without a black woman being involved"
Me and my boy:
Me: "what if he was white or Hispanic?"
Them: "oh that would be normal then..
Me and my boy:
I'm not giving up on black women but damn I can't have my shyt together without you thinking something is wrong with me?
I can't just want to be single?
Hijo de luna
Superstar
The list is bullshyt. Hell I work with about 5-6 single, quality, attractive, very sweet sistas. If I wasn't married
If you're a male and single- but not by choice-I don't know what to tell you. A vast majority of these girls want to be in relationsips, even if it's just for the financial benefit.
Your game's weak breh
This is so true. It's impossible to be a guy with money and not get women. You don't even need game or looks if you driving a nice car for instance. For instance I've smashed so many women over the years that I wasn't even trying to holla at. I'd pull up in my car and they'd be smiling at me. Or staring at me as I get out of my car. Needless to say I didn't have to say anything. Just "what's up" and got their number. shyt was beyond easy. Now I'm a decent looking dude but I'm not going to fool myself and think my looks was the reason the shyt was so simple for me. That shyt ONLY ever happened when I was driving my nice luxury cars or even a tricked out charger or something. But if I can fall into this much p*ssy imagined what of happened if I was actually out "looking".
Now if you are broke you are probably going to need a bit of game. But honestly I've seen so many broke dudes with attractive women. I've seen a bunch of ugly dudes with attractive women as well. So if you are a man and can't pull a woman you must be broke, ugly and gameless??? Damn that's a tough trifecta to live with. And it's very rare you meet a guy like that. Most of your broke hood nikka have mad game and have a whole line up of bad chicks based on that alone. Most of your nerdy black men have well paying careers and have a bunch of chicks jocking them because of that alone. And we know with the so called black man shortage black women aren't turning down regular, normal black men either. In fact I haven't really ever seen black men post high school have trouble pulling women.
I'm willing to bet most of these dudes are gay and are looking for a coverup for why they never have women.
The only way I can see this being true is if dude have social anxiety and is afraid to go and stay in the house all the time.
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Me and my boy in college were at a hookah bar with about 6 female friends.
All of them black, college degreed some in graduate school, majority grew up in a 2 parent household.
My older sister was talking to this black man who was 32 no kids, bmw 6 series, owned a 2 story house, and had a career in real estate. She said something was wrong with him.(She hadn't even met the guy yet)
I explain this mans exact stats to our female friends.
And guess what they all said?
"Somethings wrong with him"
"He's gay"
"He's on the down low"
"He's a liar or he's hiding something"
"Ain't no black man have all that without a black woman being involved"
Me and my boy:
Me: "what if he was white or Hispanic?"
Them: "oh that would be normal then..
Me and my boy:
I'm not giving up on black women but damn I can't have my shyt together without you thinking something is wrong with me?
I can't just want to be single?
But we wrong when we date pawgs
Be a father to these other nikkas kids and stop bashing black women.
philmonroe
Superstar
This is true but you know online has a tendency to bring out a lot of dudes who still don't get women and its from nothing they did themselves. Its all the girls fault or some,weak shyt like that. Never they're ugly, have no game, broke, etc.
perfectblack999
All Star
The Coli is something else man. I'm wondering where the hell you guys go to not run into qualified black women who are super thirsty for a man. They're EVERYWHERE.
I lived in Iowa for 3 years and while I wasn't doing my Atlanta numbers, I was still surviving.
I lived in Iowa for 3 years and while I wasn't doing my Atlanta numbers, I was still surviving.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
I had wanted to make a topic similar to this, you can't blame women for being single not many females like me but it's whatever now i just gotta focus on doing me now 
Tropical Fantasy
Superstar
Me and my boy in college were at a hookah bar with about 6 female friends.
All of them black, college degreed some in graduate school, majority grew up in a 2 parent household.
My older sister was talking to this black man who was 32 no kids, bmw 6 series, owned a 2 story house, and had a career in real estate. She said something was wrong with him.(She hadn't even met the guy yet)
I explain this mans exact stats to our female friends.
And guess what they all said?
"Somethings wrong with him"
"He's gay"
"He's on the down low"
"He's a liar or he's hiding something"
"Ain't no black man have all that without a black woman being involved"
Me and my boy:
Me: "what if he was white or Hispanic?"
Them: "oh that would be normal then..
Me and my boy:
I'm not giving up on black women but damn I can't have my shyt together without you thinking something is wrong with me?
I can't just want to be single?
I bet they all watch Love & Hip Hop, Real Housewives of Atlanta, & Scandal. Unfortunately this many black American women have this mentality. Not the majority but a substantial amount, I'd say 35-45%
Tropical Fantasy
Superstar
1. They keep meeting women with unrealistic expectations for what they want in a man.
2. They keep meeting women who put them in the wrong category by writing them off too quickly as not being "their type".
3. They're not wanted because they're not needed. Too many women have told them that they don't "need" a man.
4. They keep meeting black women who don't respect them just because they "are" black men.
9. They meet too many women who believe that single, good black men are "too good to be true".
11. They meet too many women who don't recognize a good man when they see one.
All facts. Black people, especially black women, date based on stereotypes, perception, and ideas
2. They keep meeting women who put them in the wrong category by writing them off too quickly as not being "their type".
3. They're not wanted because they're not needed. Too many women have told them that they don't "need" a man.
4. They keep meeting black women who don't respect them just because they "are" black men.
9. They meet too many women who believe that single, good black men are "too good to be true".
11. They meet too many women who don't recognize a good man when they see one.
All facts. Black people, especially black women, date based on stereotypes, perception, and ideas