The Undisputable REAL reason why there's so many deadbeat fathers and single mothers in the hood

[The ADD]

Most of the time when you're young and a baby is born it "usually" wasn't intentional.

And when you gettin p*ssy. Alotta times child birth isn't really a thought until you get that Phone Call.

Based on your post above this one, I see your overall point.

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

You know what, I just realized you can't read. And that's probably why you don't like comics. I get it now. Say no more breh. I'll get you some books on tape.

Nickelodeon lookin face ass


Bugs Bunny cotton tail on ya nose face ass

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

Thread is basically saying that dudes aren't gonna link up heavy with some female they know is leftovers. Especially if they know the dudes who nibbled before.

Not a complete lie when you stop and think about it. Not sure why some of you are going at him so hard.

Chick in question will just become a miserable Jesus Is My Man type female who still hoe around anyway. I knew and know the type.

They comin at me this way bekuz I'm telling the story of they life. Either how they got here or what they're doing now to their OWN children, if not both.


It's the unwritten true story of black households all across america

 

[Neuromancer]

Nickelodeon lookin face ass


Bugs Bunny cotton tail on ya nose face ass

Aight breh. You got me laughing now.

 

[Rekkapryde]

Maybe, maybe not on that last part.



But my thing is, how did it get that way. What were the obstacles besides Mass Incarceration, Government sponsored Drug Shipments, and certain Entertainers that caused it.


Bekuz from what I've found and almost experienced is that that's usually the dynamic.


Son-Son knows Marcel from 28th bekuz they had a class together. And both of them know Tajuana from 21st bekuz they both be lustin after her and she be lustin after them.

Both dudes end up smashin within a year or two of each other. Regardless if they knew about beforehand or not.

Marcel finds out that he's the Father and somehow someway if he didn't already know Son-Son hit. As soon as he finds out, now there's doubt in his mind. And by the time all of the Paperwork rolls in or whatever, he's done moved on.








It's really that simple. Most dudes ain't like "yeah I got a baby on the way, ima dodge this one". That's just a myth

I dunno dog, I'm sure there are some cats like that, but I dunno if that is the real reason. I think the core of a lot of issues is the lack of stability at home.

 

[Dr. Acula]

That is all I got.

If you have a kid, take of it. Seems pretty simple. OP is being an idiot though he is in the red so it seems to be a trend.

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

I dunno dog, I'm sure there are some cats like that, but I dunno if that is the real reason. I think the core of a lot of issues is the lack of stability at home.

You're thinking is just an accumulation of "after the fact". Im not saying that what you're getting at doesn't have any bearing on it but it's not everything.


Alotta times it's really just that. A nikka knows somebody else who hit his Baby Mom's. So to him, the p*ssy is devaluized bekuz of it

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

That is all I got.

If you have a kid, take of it. Seems pretty simple. OP is being an idiot though he is in the red so it seems to be a trend.

Real nikkaz don't be carin about no Negs.


Pull ya skirt down

 

[wickedsm]

That doesn't make sense. He can't handle it so he decides to become deeper involved?

That's just not logical

when i saw this thread last night
shyt sounded like some weed logic
you know how philosophical nikkas get when they high.


but nope. hes still on it this morning.

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

when i saw this thread last night
shyt sounded like some weed logic
you know how philosophical nikkas get when they high.


but nope. hes still on it this morning.

How is it "weed logic" when it's facts?



What makes what I'm saying Wrong, how is this outside of the box?

 

[The ADD]

when i saw this thread last night
shyt sounded like some weed logic
you know how philosophical nikkas get when they high.


but nope. hes still on it this morning.

I see his point after reading his other responses but ultimately the point doesn't lead to a dialogue about how to fix the issue. It basically reduced down to the same lack of responsibility we all know is the general leading cause.

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

I see his point after reading his other responses but ultimately the point doesn't lead to a dialogue about how to fix the issue. It basically reduced down to the same lack of responsibility we all know is the general leading cause.

If we gonna fix the issue then we gotta figure out what the exact causes is. Vague generalizing words like "irresponsibility", "growing up in a single parent household" and etc etc are nothing but Labels.



Literal vague blanket statements without any type of optics or dynamics that do nothing but Shame people. Black people have been trying to shame each other for decades, none of that shyt actually works tho. It just makes you cut nikkaz off

 

[wickedsm]

How is it "weed logic" when it's facts?



What makes what I'm saying Wrong, how is this outside of the box?

i said when i first read it thats what i thought.

if its a fact that some men are leaving their own flesh and blood because they impregnanted somebody that they knew fukked somebody that they knew
that doesnt say much for those men.

i could understand leaving a woman, i could understand your "not valuing the p*ssy"

i dont understand scummy humans that dont love their own offspring.

go ahead and cook with your "facts"

 

[DJDONTNOBODYPAYME]

i said when i first read it thats what i thought.

if its a fact that some men are leaving their own flesh and blood because they impregnanted somebody that they knew fukked somebody that they knew
that doesnt say much for those men.

i could understand leaving a woman, i could understand your "not valuing the p*ssy"

i dont understand scummy humans that dont love their own offspring.

go ahead and cook with your "facts"

It's sad but it's true.


U know what they say about a Man's ego....

 

[The ADD]

If we gonna fix the issue then we gotta figure out what the exact causes is. Vague generalizing words like "irresponsibility", "growing up in a single parent household" and etc etc are nothing but Labels.



Literal vague blanket statements without any type of optics or dynamics that do nothing but Shame people. Black people have been trying to shame each other for decades, none of that shyt actually works tho. It just makes you cut nikkaz off

Honestly your "cause" is putting the cart before the horse.

The gist (correct me if I'm wrong) is that they can't tolerate the thought of raising the kid based on her sexual history. The question still remains as to why they are engaging in activity that would put the possibility of having the kid in the first place. I'm not generally talking about sex but unprotected sex.

We can be coy but if you make a kid and you realistically view not actively playing a role in raising the child in all ways a father generally should as an option then you are being irresponsible.