Therapist who went viral for TikTok about her black male clients' discusses mental health struggles since the incident

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

FDB

 

[Braman]

Communicating with someone doesn't necessarily mean agreeing, disagreeing is better than shutting down or not being able to flesh out your thoughts. The shortest path to learning if someone is only seeking communication because they desire validation is...communication. If you arrive at the conclusion that she needs an inordinate amount of validation or therapy, at that point you have enough information to make decisions about the future of the relationship.

Bro I don’t need the explanation of what communication is

Which goes to my point that these conversations are often weighted as if black men don’t ‘get it’. No, we do get it.

However, therapy and the convos around it needs to reflect real life, and in real life: some of these women are batshyt crazy. More specifically, insecure af. So there needs to be room for ‘actually he communicates just fine, but you have an irrational need for something else/more’

Perfect example is a woman who’s been cheated on may have an irrational need for reassurance. Inherently that’s a YOU problem. 100% somehting SHE needs to heal from…Yet what happens is she can throw out some ambiguous ‘communicate’ and it takes that burden off of her and onto you. There are countless similar examples

 

[wizworld]

She doesn't carry herself like a professional. She doesn't sound like a professional. Why do y'all care? Why would you take relationship advice from a woman who flaps her arms when she talks?

 

[pawdalaw]

So what you are saying is the truth does not matter, only your personal experience and feelings do. Ohm, who argues like that a lot? Oh yea, some females argue in this same manner, ignoring what the actual stats state to remain loud about their false narratives. Most of the times, it is the most ignorant of females who do this too. So, what I am getting from you is that you are mentally feminized in your thinking. Unlike a masculine man who would actually seek out the truth and argue with stats against mine, you prefer to argue on feelings and your smidgeon of anecdotal evidence.
Leading cause of death of black men is homicide. Vast majority of those deaths are commited by other black men for frivolous reasons.

From the CDC-Leading Causes of Death-Males all races and origins 2018

Current and previous listings-leading causes of deaths-males, US

www.cdc.gov

It's impossible for you to state the facts without trying to insult or insinuate something that isn't true. I'm not attacking you. I've asked repeatedly for someone in this thread to make it make sense.

Oh and last, I grew up in places just as bad as you during the time period when L.A. gangs were causing so much havoc that they actually made movies about it. I also grew up in Baltimore, a known place that has a significant violent crime problem. Still, none of that changes the fact that it is 3-6% of Black men who are participating in that world. Which you have also proven that you are one of them. Not everyone chose to live a life like yours, in fact most Brothers do not. So enough with your BS blanket statements about Black men, when really it is just you and those like you that are causing the problems within our communities.

In the trenches, lol like you were an actual Veteran of War. You were just an ignorant boy who chose a negative path in life and is finally trying to do something about it. Some of use did not choose that path, and have been helping others out of it without having to have been a contributor to the havoc first.

And you are ignorant today because what you are doing essentially is minimizing the death, wealth disparity, incarceration rate and the gap in secondary education amongst black men. You keep parroting 3-6% to gloss over the fact that these issues are endemic to black men specifically and that far too many either die to young or get into legal troubles that will hinder them for the rest of their life.

Don't mention female tactics if you're not going to look at yourself. Answer the question: is the bolded endemic to our community? Does the plight of the black male in our community have anything to do with mental health?

 

[Uachet]

And you are ignorant today because what you are doing essentially is minimizing the death, wealth disparity, incarceration rate and the gap in secondary education amongst black men. You keep parroting 3-6% to gloss over the fact that these issues are endemic to black men specifically and that far too many either die to young or get into legal troubles that will hinder them for the rest of their life.

Don't mention female tactics if you're not going to look at yourself. Answer the question: is the bolded endemic to our community? Does the plight of the black male in our community have anything to do with mental health?

Seriously, I put up real data that goes against what you have just written. Most Black men are not in any of those categories you have highlighted, yet you want to still hold tightly to that belief? Seems to me you are having a hard time believing that most Black men are actually doing fine, perhaps because you do not experience that in your own life.

This will be my last time responding to you on this, because you have already demonstrated that you are a bundle of uncontrolled emotions. If you can't actually argue using actual data, it is a waste of time going back and forth with you. You have demonstrated that your ignorance of your own ethnicity and sex is so complete, that even the truth can't pierce your delusion.

 

[pawdalaw]

Breh you don't even know what you are arguing anymore.
Me: a significant # of black men can benefit from therapy.

You: no they won't.

I'm not reading that shyt, live in your bubble.

 

[richaveli83]

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Hope she pulls through....


*Whistles the catchy "Laughing To the Bank" tune that humans use on Twitter"

What's a bozo

 

[Piff Perkins]

Just seeing that video screen cap was enough. She looks down BAD bad.


Think about the black boys and black men who are deliberately abused and neglected by black teachers, therapists, and psychologists who do not view them as human beings. Who are fervent believers of intersectional feminist bullshyt that cast black men as little more than mindless predators whose very existence threatens women. And if you truly believe that shyt, what must be done to protect women? Destroy black men. By breaking them down emotionally and mentally by whatever means at an early age (school suspensions, delayed HS graduations, etc), and then letting the system do the rest...

 

[DA_LURKA]

This is who @pawdalaw ran in here defending...



She needs to put the Mossberg in her mouth and do the lord's work... Not sorry...

 

[Ozymandeas]

My emotional bandwidth is used up after that Eagles loss.

 

[DillaTUDE]

Love to see this. You could tell just by her sheer arrogance in those videos that she got off on being able to publicly denigrate black men.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Don’t like to see things like this, especially as a depression sufferer i can understand

She did/said some dumb shyt but it was mainly the delivery for me. Blaming black men for their own mental health issues is a no-no and it backfired.

Hope she comes through but her black male clientele is definitely going to no longer exist. Hopefully, some simps come and save her. Thats what they’re there for… not holding women accountable for their actions no matter what for a chance to smell the p*ssy

 

[jay83]

Did she type "Honest Thots from me"?

 

[315]

Love that for her, bytch