There are TWICE as many single men than women - Black men are impacted the hardest - Ages 18 - 29
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Wink Beaufield
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I'm talking generalities slim. SOME dudes hvae this issue.
Besides I'm in a relationship so if anything the p*ssy came out the water for me, not the sky.
I have a friend who’s pretty, paid, and has multiple business ventures but prefers men who have less than her. She was married to a man who had more but divorced him because she wants to do what she wants financially and socially. She said he was too controlling. With broke men they are just happy to be there and don’t question her on anything. I have another friend who always dated younger men but then realized that it was because she had control issues so is now dating someone more equally yoked. Some women have self esteem issues and bums know how to zone in and attach themselves by telling them what they want to hear. It can be for a lot of reasons, but my point is that a lot of the reasons these women date these type of men are not healthy and positive reasons. But at the end of the day it’s their life and there’s still plenty of good women who are looking for good men.
That's all it is. Just do the work on yourself whether it's physical, mental, financial, or social. You build the life or future that you want for yourself. But also approach and talk to women while you're doing that. Learning how to deal with and navigate women is one of the most important things in a man's life. They can elevate your situation or completely steer you off course depending on who you choose to allow in your life. It's just said seeing how some brehs have this defeated attitude when it comes to women and life. It's like they're throwing in the flag and they're under 30. Alot of it is based off what they're seeing off social media and second and third hand stories and experiences. But we should know now that a majority of that stuff isn't true or sensationalized to get attention. It's a lane out here for everyone you just gotta pick one that's comfortable for you and follow it. People get too caught up and measuring themselves with others and now they're feeling like they're not doing enough or should be doing more. But if you're comfortable with yourself that confidence will ooze off you and women pick up on those things. Just step and the women that align with you will separate from the pack. If a chic doesn't align or denies you, don't focus on that she just wasn't for you. Just thank her for the conversation and keep it moving. Never change your course trying to prove why a woman should be with you.I feel you and I agree, I think the main thing that helped me when I was younger was just getting shyt I wanted accomplished.
just keep snowballing each lil victory til your confidence is on point (it’s a long process but doable)I know some nikkas have it easier but it’s just what it is. Nikkas cant complain.
But that’s what’s dope about being a man imo, ain’t nobody coming save you. Nobody really cares about your struggles. But Once shyt start to come together for you , You can EAT. Our prime is much longer than Women ( assuming you did the work)
The truth is most single guys are “always at home”
Formerly Black Trash
Philosopher, Connoisseur, Future Legend
No social circle either
The older you get the harder it is to fix
Almost impossible
Dboys /scammers group their money get a section at your local club and take all the women home
“But but but but these women only want pookies” manosphere
Those guys are out everynight offcourse they gonna have their option of women
Scamming and selling drugs are very social jobs in nature.
I'm assuming its hard to sell drugs or scam without a social network...
I remember when I was single. This was before social media, a long time before.. I was always outside trying to be in the mix where women are. You don't have to spend your money on women just to be around and talk to them. Thats why I get a weird vibe from these dudes around here saying its hard to get women.
How many 9 to 5 men can be out doing that extroverted shyt like buying out the club or sections EVERY NIGHT?
Its both expensive and exhausting.
Peruvian Connect
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He said group their money together. 9/5ers can do that as wellHow many 9 to 5 men can be out doing that extroverted shyt like buying out the club or sections EVERY NIGHT?
Its both expensive and exhausting.
They usually do at after work sets. Group of regular dudes pool together $2k and have a ball.
He said that shyt like they aren't literally PookieHow many 9 to 5 men can be out doing that extroverted shyt like buying out the club or sections EVERY NIGHT?
Its both expensive and exhausting.
