I will never understand why Black men who declare how much they want to be leaders then also make it a point to tell us that they will never be responsible for where they put their dikks and if there is ever an opportunity "to fukk" they will do it and its up to the women to say no. Why would anyone allow someone would that mind set to lead them? That seems to be the very definition of choosing a deadbeat, which is ironically what they are trying to argue against at the same time
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to all that ladies that exposed OP. I started to do the same thing in another thread and he ran off and never responded once he could no longer defend his terrible logic and hypocrisy.