there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

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I've witness this....seen a chick do this with a dude who kids wasn't even his, and everybody knew they weren't his but him.


Sad part is...I've witness this on more than once
I have actually witnessed it more than nikkaz just straight up being deadbeats. Real life conversations were the dude is talking to the broad and she like "well if you ain't gonna be with me you ain't got no kid" all while she talking on the phone to him while her live in boyfriend is at work. These females is worse than the dudes and we not just talking bout nikkaz either, the cac's is even worse.
 

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The black deadbeat father is perception and propaganda. The percentages are higher because there are less of us.
I think it has more to do with us having a high rate of out of wedlock births. It's really easy to assume that if a (black) woman has a baby on her own that her child's father is automatically out of the picture when in fact a great deal of us co-parent successfully.
 

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There is only a women f@#$*&$ deadbeats problem in the black community.


Stop throwing your pearls before swine :ufdup:
Nah, my little sisters father? That nikka is a fukking dead beat father. fukk him, straight up. How you not even speak to your daughter at a family function and you both there for 5 hours. I want to punch him in the throat. I even sat that nikka down and told him he needs to do better.:snoop:
 

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He was always a deadbeat though, which is the issue at hand


Nah, my little sisters father? That nikka is a fukking dead beat father. fukk him, straight up. How you not even speak to your daughter at a family function and you both there for 5 hours. I want to punch him in the throat. I even sat that nikka down and told him he needs to do better.:snoop:
 

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And with getting older and my experiences with other cultures, latino and asian families are fukked UP as well, (may be even worse with the incest molestation rates in the latino community)but their cultures keep things private unlike our community which for some reason, is the center of every social issue and we have to be so public about it and let outsiders put in their .02
 

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Yeah I made the decision to sleep with them and bust a nut without protection so stone me for that.

Like I said if they wanted to be single mothers I would have paid the child support my legal requirement .



The thing is, he made the decision to be with them in the first place. God don't like ugly. :ld:
 

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people dont like to talk about this side of the coin, society in general doesn't put a lot of accountability on the actions of women, understandably .

It's talked about but the right people aren't talking about thus the right people aren't listening.
 
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