there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

[Elle Driver]

Girl, that was back before he was saved. Jesus forgives and so should you Elle.

Let's hope @His_Excellence_Reincar realizes that about his murderous ex girlfriends.

I don't hate women.

I'm just here to help black women choose better men to procreate with

Would you consider yourself that better man?

 

[Rawtid]

Let's hope @His_Excellence_Reincar realizes that about his murderous ex girlfriends.

those women are damaged goods and any guy that deals with her is a simp.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I don't hate women.

I'm just here to help black women choose better men to procreate with

You don't even date black women. You need to help white women out because the ones you dated clearly had bad taste in men seeing as how you did the stereotypical thing and knocked three of them up out of wedlock (black women had nothing to do with that foolish that is your life). Go help that community out.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Yup.

I canoodled and cavorted with the wrong type of women difference is , I don't play the victim role or cry for pity.

LOL @ you cant be serious...your whole act here is this hang up over how evil and awful women are. You've been the leading voice in helping to turn the coli into a victim crisis board for men in this imaginary battle against women. You seek pity each day.

You wont accept the insightful point that @Elle Driver was trying to impress upon you: Now did you seek out, and develop a relationship with a woman that you KNEW would eventually abort your child behind your back? Of course not...you trusted and believed in the wrong person, just like millions of other men and women do when it comes to laying down with partners who turn out to be not who they appeared to be initally.

Instead of extending your sympathies to other women who make a mistake, you want to condemn women, and hilariously act as if they are choosing "deadbeats" on purpose. I wouldnt even call what you're doing judgmental. You're beyond that.

Many brothas and sistas grow up in troubled homes, and therefore become troubled adults from which dysfunctional behaviors spring. Thats a cursory explanation for threads like these, and in a macro socio-economic sense we live in a country that lookds down on us, creating even more internal hardships and confusion. I wish you'd slow down on your act, breh.

 

[Rawtid]

You wont accept the insightful point that @Elle Driver was trying to impress upon you: Now did you seek out, and develop a relationship with a woman that you KNEW would eventually abort your child behind your back? Of course not...you trusted and believed in the wrong person, just like millions of other men and women do when it comes to laying down with partners who turn out to be not who they appeared to be.

Instead of extending your sympathies to other women who make a mistake, you want to condemn women, and hilariously act as if they are choosing "deadbeats" on purpose. I wouldnt even call what you're doing judgmental. You're beyond that.

Son you're tripping. If those girls didn't abort he would have paid child support and been completely absent from the child's life like a good man that claims he doesn't want children but had sex raw should.

 

[How Sway?]

It's talked about but the right people aren't talking about thus the right people aren't listening.

the people who should be listening arent trying to listen at all and probably don't even care to.

Most of this talk about the single moms and deadbeat fathers online is really just preaching to the choir.

 

[Elle Driver]

LOL @ you cant be serious...your whole act here is this hang up over how evil and awful women are. You've been the leading voice in helping to turn the coli into a victim crisis board for men in this imaginary battle against women. You seek pity each day.

You wont accept the insightful point that @Elle Driver was trying to impress upon you: Now did you seek out, and develop a relationship with a woman that you KNEW would eventually abort your child behind your back? Of course not...you trusted and believed in the wrong person, just like millions of other men and women do when it comes to laying down with partners who turn out to be not who they appeared to be initally.

Instead of extending your sympathies to other women who make a mistake, you want to condemn women, and hilariously act as if they are choosing "deadbeats" on purpose. I wouldnt even call what you're doing judgmental. You're beyond that.

Many brothas and sistas grow up in troubled homes, and therefore become troubled adults from which dysfunctional behaviors spring. Thats a cursory explanation for threads like these, and in a macro socio-economic sense we live in a country that lookds down on us, creating even more internal hardships and confusion. I wish you'd slow down on your act, breh.

Here's the crux of it all breh, it's the misogynistic thinking that women are inherently responsible because we bring in life to this world. Should've picked a better man, shouldnt've murdered your own child, shouldnt've stuck around with a deadbeat because now you're damaged goods. Men who think like that rarely take blame/ownership for their part in it. I mean Reincar believes in Christianity right? The same religion that blamed a woman into seducing her husband into taking a bite out of a forbidden apple and being banished from the Garden of Eden.

 

[ebonykiss]

You don't even date black women. You need to help white women out because the ones you dated clearly had bad taste in men seeing as how you did the stereotypical thing and knocked three of them up out of wedlock (black women had nothing to do with that foolish that is your life). Go help that community out.

Ain't that the truth

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

The real culprits are all these social safety nets for women. Section 8, food stamps, TANF, HUD and whatever else is out there. It incentivized for our reckless sexual behaviors in predominately black neighborhoods. Get more kids without a marriage and "kaboom", they're rewarded with food and shelter. I would say more of the blame should be on the women because in epidemic proportions, the women are raising these men. It's a vicious cycle that can only be broken by a cultural shift. It's been bad for awhile but I mostly blame the current rap music because they made this stuff cool and stabilized people wanting to grow out of it.

The current King and Queen of Black Pop Music, Jay-Z and Beyonce, rarely make musical evidence of their marriage. I mean do not glorify it but can drill all the ratchet mess at their consumers. One may argue they are relating. I am not a supporter of entertainers being role models just made a point.

My solution would be for these women to raise their sons into the men they want them to be. However, I do not know if that is a good thing. I am observing their work and maaannnn.... These young men do not stand a chance at real life.

 

[No_bammer_weed]

Here's the crux of it all breh, it's the misogynistic thinking that women are inherently responsible because we bring in life to this world. Should've picked a better man, shouldnt've murdered your own child, shouldnt've stuck around with a deadbeat because now you're damaged goods. Men who think like that rarely take blame/ownership for their part in it. I mean Reincar believes in Christianity right? The same religion that blamed a woman into seducing her husband into taking a bite out of a forbidden apple and being banished from the Garden of Eden.

Right...its this whole demeaning psychology at play here, that acts prejudicial towards women intrinsically. They wanna say: "well if these women would just stay in the kitchen, shut up, and do what I say at all times, just like white Jesus says and no matter how wrong I may be, then all these problems wouldnt exist!!"

The funny thing is, if we went back to the days before the women's rights movement, we would also go back to the days of segregation and slavery (because these anti women, black, gay, mexican, etc narratives are all related as they are products of white men creating social control of all groups except themselves). Then again, it makes sense since most of these niccas would rather stand side-by-side with a white nationalist, than a gay black man, or a black woman.

 

[Panther]

its all out war in here mayne

But really its mainly the result of people making long term decisions with temporary sexual partners

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Muthafukas don't realize that most dudes want to be a part of their children's lives but these hoes be mad as hell when the dude don't want to fukk with her anymore so she uses the child/children as a way of payback.

From what I've seen in the real world(Not internet propaganda and stats), this is the major reason why a lot of dudes are absent in their childs life.

Brothers, cousins, friends...etc


It's like uncle sam gave females the power to put nikkaz on "time out" if shyt's not going the way they planned it to.


Every once in a while, you'll come across one of them grown up crack baby/got a few screws loose/ receiving a Social Security Check since he was 13 despite the fact that he looks completely healthy type dog nikkaz.


If you grew up in the hood, you know the type.Lived with his mom, but him and all his siblings(at least 3-4) got Social Security checks for unknown "mental illnesses", so they lived the life of ghetto royalty?

You know the type.Seemed normal on the surface, but the more you hear him talk/ observe his actions, you come to realize that he has psychopathic tendencies.He did a bunch of crazy shyt around the neighborhood that earned him a lil rep + the money from the SSI checks that kept him decked out & geared up= The young rats throwing p*ssy at him left and right?

He got a few rats pregnant and those psychopathic tendencies/reason he was getting them SSI checks come bubbling to the surface.

You see him one day and you ask him "what's up with Aiesha? I hear y'all got a baby on the way?" and he hits you with

" Maaaann, fukk that ho.I'm not about to take care of that bytch and her kid..she's been fukking every nikka on the block anyway.Even if the kid is mine, I still don't want nothing to do with it.I can't be caught knocking up a trick bytch like that"


And shyt is that animalistic and raw.Those are the true "dog ass nikkaz" but most of the time, they're suffering from some type of mental illness anyway.Most families try to keep that shyt under wraps, though.

Females get caught up with nikkaz like that because of superficial/shallow/ on the surface shyt.


On the flip side, them SSI nikkaz have their female counterparts, to.Regular cats get caught up with the female version of SSI nikkaz because the face was cute, the ass was fat, and her sex game had his toes cramping up.We all know crazy chicks have less inhibitions.They'll throw that porno sex at you/swallow/ do shyt other "sane" females wouldn't dare.They also have no qualms about using what they have to play/ manipulate a less seasoned(Simp) gentlemen.I say gentlemen because they're the ones who get caught up trying to "save" a chick like that.After wrestling with a few SSI ho's, the gentlemen cat turns bitter.Now he's on YouTube looking up Tommy Sotomayor videos ....

It's a vicious cycle.Lot's of undiagnosed mental illness in the black community(in the world, hell).To the extent that if you really knew, you probably wouldn't want to step foot out your front door.


A lot of single moms unknowingly mark their sons with the energy of a simp.A lot of women have a hard time telling their sons "It's some shady ho's out here" and really meaning it because they think it might hurt his psyche and how he relates to women.A true female psychopath can sense that shyt from a mile away, grab the bull by the horns, and have his bloody heart in the palm of her claws in no time.By the time he realizes what's going on, he's ,game wise, unequipped, and spiritually/ mentally too weak to untangle the web she wove around him.Next thing you know, he's hitting the bottle, depressed, and blowing up like Professor Klump.In extreme cases, suicidal.

 

[Real N Quotes]

whoredom has been here since the beginning of time...a simple trojan can save you life

 

[Chris.B]

black women are responsible for most of the issues in the black community.

I have never seen a man pregnant before

 

[MikelArteta]

The only reason why I never dated black women in the past was because I grew up surrounded by white folks, I've admitted my c00nery and have changed my ways .

And now for the past fee years the black women plight has touched mg heart and I've been working to change that for the better.

You don't even date black women. You need to help white women out because the ones you dated clearly had bad taste in men seeing as how you did the stereotypical thing and knocked three of them up out of wedlock (black women had nothing to do with that foolish that is your life). Go help that community out.