there is not a deadbeat problem in the black community

[J-Nice]

When it comes down to it, men have control over who they choose to have sex with. Women control the whole sexual process itself. When a man get's a woman pregnant, it becomes his job to provide for the child if the woman CHOOSES to have that child. Outside of his decision to be there for his child financially, emotionally etc. the process of the baby getting here itself is 100% controlled by the woman.

 

[MikelArteta]

Except gasp I wasn't a deadbeat.

So yes if you want to sleep around and pop out a b*stard do it with a man like reincar

Three white bytches aborted your seeds, you fukked around like that, and now you tryna create a teachable moment and tell chicks to stop fukking around with deadbeats? fukk outta here. Who's playing the victim now breh?

 

[J-Nice]

Three white bytches aborted your seeds, you fukked around like that, and now you tryna create a teachable moment and tell chicks to stop fukking around with deadbeats? fukk outta here. Who's playing the victim now breh?

How is he a deadbeat if he said that he was willing to provide for the children if they weren't aborted? I'm not following.

 

[KingDanz]

How is he a deadbeat if he said that he was willing to provide for the children if they weren't aborted? I'm not following.

 

[Elle Driver]

How is he a deadbeat if he said that he was willing to provide for the children if they weren't aborted? I'm not following.

I didn't call him a deadbeat, I said don't try to create a teachable moment about black women fukking around with deadbeats (and if you understand the context of the black woman being painted as a jezebel historically) when three white bytches aborted your seeds. If you haven't noticed by now, most of the rhetoric here has to do with blaming and shaming black women.

 

[Malik]

So this thread is about a woman picking a deadbeat and it being her fault?


How about the guy not be a deadbeat bum in the first place

But its those qualities that attract the woman though

 

[Busted_Toes]

who raises these deadbeats?

 

[marcuz]

who raises these deadbeats?

nobody cares these deadbeats usually get their values from women

 

[SouthernBelle]

nobody cares these deadbeats usually get their values from women

I already gave you the solution to this.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

I didn't call him a deadbeat, I said don't try to create a teachable moment about black women fukking around with deadbeats (and if you understand the context of the black woman being painted as a jezebel historically) when three white bytches aborted your seeds. If you haven't noticed by now, most of the rhetoric here has to do with blaming and shaming black women.

Blaming and shaming black women? How?

 

[marcuz]

But its those qualities that attract the woman though

 

[61 Corpses]

that smilie

 

[J-Nice]

I didn't call him a deadbeat, I said don't try to create a teachable moment about black women fukking around with deadbeats (and if you understand the context of the black woman being painted as a jezebel historically) when three white bytches aborted your seeds. If you haven't noticed by now, most of the rhetoric here has to do with blaming and shaming black women.

I understand the stereotype and historical relevance very well, I just fail to see how that applies in this situation. Was he "slut shaming" black women? Was he giving white women a pass? Was he even comparing the two? If not, then where are you coming from with that historic example? If it was three white women, three Persian women, or even three Black women, @His_Excellence_Reincar story provides some relevance to this thread and it's topic.

As far as the black women shaming is concerned, I see that all over this forum. But in this case, in this thread, I don't really see it.

 

[AAKing23]

We can go back and forth all day about who has or carries the most blame when it comes to the topic of fatherless black children in America, we can make a case against women for their constant naivety when it comes to falling for the wrong types of men, we can make a case against men for thinking with their penis and being sexually irresponsible and impregnating the wrong women, at the end of the day both black men and women are responsible for this problem and why continues to manifest itself in the black community.

 

[Elle Driver]

I understand the stereotype and historical relevance very well, I just fail to see how that applies in this situation. Was he "slut shaming" black women? Was he giving white women a pass? Was he even comparing the two? If not, then where are you coming from with that historic example? If it was three white women, three Persian women, or even three Black women, @His_Excellence_Reincar story provides some relevance to this thread and it's topic.

As far as the black women shaming is concerned, I see that all over this forum. But in this case, in this thread, I don't really see it.

Breh please, shyt is transparent as fukk. Blame black women for getting with deadbeats and creating a generation of deadbeat nikkas while you've barely dated black women to have any say in this topic.

Blaming and shaming black women? How?

Take a peak in this thread. There's no winning wit y'all. We're 100% responsible even though it takes a nikka to come inside a bytch in order for her to get pregnant.