TheRoot.com "Let’s Not Try to Act as if R. Kelly Dating a 19-Year-Old Is OK"

[badtguy]

No matter what you can ALWAYS find a woman to do what you want esp if you're wealthy.

You can molest a child
Kill someone
Have aids spread it to other women
Be a cannibal.
Women are soooo desperate they'll always be one to still wanna be wit you.

 

[Krazy K]

We live in a patriarchy. There is a noticeable advantage Men have in romantic relationships that is reinforced by social constructs, mores, and taboos. You either believe its there or not and I'm not going to argue with you or anyone else about it.

In 6,000 years of human civilization, this social dynamic has only been remotely challenged for 40 years.

And this challenge has pretty much happened exclusively in Western Society.

What I'm getting at here is that women who are contemporaries of men they are dating already have enough problems being recognized as a valuable partner in a relationship.

So i get the feeling of unease when a women is being pursued by a male suitor with far more experience and socioeconomic status.

Even worse when the woman herself is barely a woman and probably lacks the confidence, knowledge and resources to stand up for herself.

Jesus Christ have you ever been 19?

You just insulted the fukk outta this WOMAN purely based on her age like she dumb as fukk.

and even if she is dumb as fukk and lacks all that she is still a grown woman free to do as she pleases

 

[Jaylen Tatum]

but they cheer young black women with old white sugar daddies

 

[Marc Spector]

Jesus Christ have you ever been 19?

You just insulted the fukk outta this WOMAN purely based on her age like she dumb as fukk.

and even if she is dumb as fukk and lacks all that she is still a grown woman free to do as she pleases

yeah I'm 28 and i was a complete dumbass at 19. Like most people are at 19.

Few 19 year olds have the experience, patience, and forethought to be in serious relationships. Hell people until around 25 nowadays are completely flying by the seat of their pants when it comes to relationships.

How many adult relationships could you possibly have had at 19 breh?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I have nothing against age differences in relationship as long as both parties have reached a certain maturity, like if he was 49 dating someone 25 or older. They're both adults who know what they want.

But a 19 year old... Where are this girl's parents?? How do you let your 19-year-old daughter debase herself by being a sugar baby to some creepy old guy who pisses on underage girls I guess money does buy off people's dignity sometimes

you missing some key points here


SHE'S AN ADULT

don't matter where her parents are... they can't do shyt cause she's an adult... so there is no LET her do anything... what the fukk they gonna do?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

nah, I think it's because it's r.kelly. Plenty of older celebrities date younger women.

exactly.. nobody talking about seinfeld dating a fukking 17 year old but we gotta hear about kellz dating a legally grown woman

 

[Colin X]

So y'all would be cool if it was yalls 19 year old daughter?



Y'all would just say "well it's legal " ?

 

[Krazy K]

So y'all would be cool if it was yalls 19 year old daughter?



Y'all would just say "well it's legal " ?

It's legal to smoke cigarettes but I still don't allow smoking in my house

 

[Krazy K]

yeah I'm 28 and i was a complete dumbass at 19. Like most people are at 19.

Few 19 year olds have the experience, patience, and forethought to be in serious relationships. Hell people until around 25 nowadays are completely flying by the seat of their pants when it comes to relationships.

How many adult relationships could you possibly have had at 19 breh?

There are dumb adults breh

that don't negate the fact that adults are free to make whatever decisions they like.

When you were 19 were you capable of deciding for yourself who you want to fukk wit? Bad decision or not

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

So y'all would be cool if it was yalls 19 year old daughter?



Y'all would just say "well it's legal " ?

no.... i wouldn't be cool with it

but what can i do? especially if she got her own place and don't live with me?


go out there and beat her? go out there and beat up r kelly and catch a charge?


and after i'm done doing that, she still fukking him



what exactly would you do?

i had my first apt at 18... my mom didn't like it... i was smoking weed, drinking, fukking bytches, doing what i want.... fukk was she actually going to do except voice her displeasure? she couldn't even get in if i didn't allow it

 

[Marc Spector]

exactly.. nobody talking about seinfeld dating a fukking 17 year old but we gotta hear about kellz dating a legally grown woman

forgot about shoshanna lonstein...

gonna post her in the vintage white women thread

 

[ezrathegreat]

If black people spent half the amount of time they do policing black men's dikks, fixing the community, a lot of our problems would vanish overnight.

 

[Hope]

Is this a real relationship, or do they just hang out?

I don't know know anybody under 40 who still listens to R. Kelly. I doubt she really aware of all his experiences personal and private. This guy has been through a lot obviously.

 

[Koba St]

What makes these people think they can tell someone what to do with their life

 

[eastside313]

Lol fools in here like this is cool and why r kelly being bothered about it. I guess y'all don't have pedos in ya family. These niccas don't stop they can't stop. R kelly probably been knocking this broad down for years. And this nicca is a child molester and everybody knows it.

I guess y'all gonna be cool when yo 18 year old sister gettin fukked be a nicca older than yo pops.