This is true but also an american thing. In other countries/societies they ain't scared to tell their daughter, niece or granddaughter that they need to tighten their asses up to get a certain type of mate. They will also tell a woman....look you ain't all that so you need to be finding someone on your level.
Also lets not give the media a pass and women sisterhood (no matter the race). They feed some women this theories that its everyone elses problem and not their problem for certain situations. The media does it cause it sells and the female friends do it cause women really believe in supporting each other.
The difference is in this society a man is not given the benefit of doubt until he proves himself or makes something out of himself. Society as a whole ain't gonna give him a pat on the back for being sorry. His friends ain't gonna hold back calling him sorry or that his ass needs to tighten up. Ain't no man out here who ain't got on his friends or seen his friends get called out by the homies for being a sorry ass (whether thats getting a job, being broke, triffling or not having dating skills). Men are extremely and I mean extremely hard on other men.
Case in point any man who bytches in real life or not being able to get a woman usually gets the man shut the fukk up and stop being a p*ssy and scared to talk to women...
. Now compare that shyt to how women talk to each other when a woman complains how they can't get a man or having problem getting a mate. shyt will turn into a pitty party with hand holding ceremony and ice cream eating...