These chicks AREN'T checking for me AT ALL...

[awkwardblackgirl]

Aren't you engaged?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Shouldn't you be way past banging random chicks after a certain age?

That shyt gotta feel empty after a certain age.

I'd hate to be that 40 year old nikka who is still chasing women while my peers are out here building empires.

you can't build empires without marrying women?

fukking bytches will NEVER get old... ask hugh hef

 

[semicko82]

HOH is the way breh. Works like a charm on some reverse psychology. Women respond to it.

Take this example. I have a female friend and we talk about relationships. At one point she was dating two guys at the same time. One dude clearly was just fukking her. He showed no interest beyond that and she knew it. The other guy was simping hard tryna lock her down. She comes to me with a problem.. she likes both guys of course but is concerned about why the one dude isn't in to her plus she says he gives her better dikk than the simp. Herein lies the problem with a lot of women, they always do the what if with guys. If she could have locked down other other guy she would have. Don't be the good dude that gets a pass cuz the nikka she really wanted just wanna fukk her. You're a place holder. That never works out and you are easily replaceable. Always match the power dynamic in the relationship. Don't be chasing for the duration of it.

As a man your gonna learn how women view you in life at some point. I've pretty much come to realize that I'm the nikka they like to fukk but not introduce to the folks. I have no problem with that. I see women that I've slept with first night on these dating apps with a list of requirements for a simp but she came over here with a bag of weed to smoke and slept over 2 nights . Meanwhile she's got you walking thru all the proper steps to hit it. I don't buy into the bullshyt anymore. Most women are hoes bend their moral rules to suit their current interest.

Yep this!!! I can tell it's a bunch of young dudes on here who doesn't know how the world works.
And how the hell is 34 sick and flabby?

 

[Keep_It_Hip_Hop_Fam]

It's a numbers game.

Other dudes are batting with similar percentages as you or even less.

If it is such a problem get off social media and meet women in real life where the success rate is much greater.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I deeply apologize for not getting gunned down in my youth. I had a incredibly ability to avoid set ups and fake friends. Again I do apologize.

fukk the haters and commit to the gym breh

 

[Larry Lambo]

It's a numbers game.

Other dudes are batting with similar percentages as you or even less.

If it is such a problem get off social media and meet women in real life where the success rate is much greater.

10% ain't bad at all. I mean how hard is it to spit at 10 chicks?

 

[Pazzy]

nikkas that claim to be having problems with women are basing this solely on their internet interactions with them.



Try meeting and talking to women the traditional way, by actually going outside

This.

 

[PhillyBirds215]

@The Emperor first things first, online dating can be the biggest self esteem killer. It always feels as if the girls you're interested in, aren't interested. On the other hand the ones you aren't interested in are giving you all the attention.

So now you have to figure out what you want out of the shyt. Either fwbs or something more and go from there.

I definitely wouldn't recommend online dating period, for reasons I stated above.
So you'll probably have better luck cracking on jawns out in the street, and if you ain't with the social media crazed jawns, get with the ones who are never on social media, and aren't always taking selfies.

 

[Crakface]

I've always been relatively successful with women but it's slowly hit me that these chicks just aren't checking for me AT ALL.

THE BIGGEST REASON is I'm a really low key person I don't take a lot of pictures and I don't do enough on social media as far as taking trips and pictures go.

I'm 34 and I don't really feel like trying to be my own hype man in order to attract women in 2017. I think the only thing I can change that I want to change is to get really really fit.

I live in a city of starving wolves and being a flashy mf would just be stupid.

It's just a weird feeling.
I just got some ass 2 nights ago but it's just bothering me that I've got like a 10% success rate now with talking to women in 2017.

Man when I look at my inbox.
There are so many women who read my shyt and don't even reply.
shyt has changed.
Social media really fukked me.

You have no money.
Your personal confidence is shot
Your physique is elderly and diabetic

 

[richaveli83]

They don't date COINTELPRO agents

 

[Hungry Rabbit]

I now understand that HOH is the way. Why? Just think logically about what's going on.

We know that attention is like a drug to women - they LOVE the shyt. They get dressed up, go out, dance, bytch, yell, etc. - why? For ATTENTION.

We have social media now. All day, every day, all a chick has to do is put up a picture/post/etc. and then get tons of positive attention from a GANG of SIMPs. "You're so fine!" "You're so beautiful!" "Damn, girl!" "You're right, I agree - you're so smart!" "Wifey!" Etc. Every...fukking...day. A majority of chicks get this type of attention every...single...day.

And guess what? The chick won't remember any of these poor fukks, because to them it's always about getting their NEXT fix via the NEXT post

So if this is true, what does this mean in terms of separating yourself in her mind from all these other SIMPs? Think about it, brehs... Just think about it.

 

[Address_Unknown]

I have literally fukked every woman I can in my city.

I'm trying to move so I can have a fresh start.

Travel, breh. Trust me.
I ain't the Social media having, picture taking, Shades'n'shirt wearing amateur wanna be model breh that takes pics or tries to generate an aura that women flock to out in these streets....but I eat, because I'm mostly genuine and I got a personality that most chicks really like and that makes me a viable option out here.

Now I'm not gonna say that I don't got women I can get with in my area, but ever since I was like 19 I've made a point to go on Holiday EVERY year, by myself most of the times and I'm not trying to brag lowkey on the amount of women I've met, befriended and have slid into some very generous relationships with, some which are still ongoing for up to a decade with new links being made every year.

Now I know some people gonna tell you "You travelling out for p*ssy, breh? You a lame?" but ain't everybody got it like everybody else and the last thing I think ANY breh should do is sit and go stagnant 'cause the female pool in his area is straight up trash and fukkery and slip into despondency.

Plus, as a breh visiting a location for a week or two I find the process of finding a woman and having her make up her mind whether she's into you enough to give you cheeks and or start a temporary fling is expedited by the fact that you only there for a minute so she makes up her mind real quick to fukk with you or send you off so your time isn't wasted trying to decipher chess/checker moves with blue balls slowly cutting off ya circulation.

 

[PeridotPuss]

No offense

You sound like you look and behave like a washed up p*ssyhound .....just going off the OP

If you're not in shape
Not enjoying your life
Not enjoying your life on social media
Focused on bytches that you're not getting
And don't have your money allllll the way together

At 34?

Why would these women be checking for you?

Especially the inner and outer high quality ones you're seeking? (You said the single mother who liked online attention wasn't good enough for you. ...) but you won't even consistently go .....to the gym? something which increases in importance as you age

You sound like the male equivalent of a woman who has been "ran through"

Spend your youth fukking women and not your body, mind and career and this is where it leaves you once the well runs dry feeling outpaced and settling for scraps

Today is the day breh....you're not getting any younger ....live for you, develop and level up in every way and see what happens

That said....34 isn't old or too old to date and find someone .....neither is 44 since you have no biological clock just take this as a sign to do better

And get offline

 

[Diyhai]

U just lame u can be 50 and still getting women in there late 20s
It's not the women it's just u

 

[mortuus est]

Why would these women be checking for you?

tell em sis