''These new men are weird'' - Lipstick Alley

[Shadow King]

my post addressed the both of them.

She is all of what u say, but that doesn't stop him from being a pushover in the situation. i mean no offense to him

What in his posts suggested this? That's projecting a quality on him basically because she cheated

 

[Solo_87]

Eh

LSA is predominantly blk women...at least supposedly

Dont blk women outnumber blk men? I believe in the states at least. Sure in many other places as well

In higher education blk women are far outpacing blk men... newer generations of blk women are out earning their male counterparts by quite a bit I believe

Then not all men are heterosexual sexual... blk men are more open to interracial dating

On top of just trying to find someone you are attracted to and vibe with...

So it's legitimately hard out here if you do want to date within your race as a black woman

If you want your partner not to have a criminal record and or decent credit it's even harder

Let's be real

I'm in a long term relationship but I lucked up

And that's not to say blk men have it easy or that blk women are perfect

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Why are you even on that site OP?

Half of these nikkas are members there

 

[CarmelBarbie]

I think the real big difference that without assisted reproductive therapy a woman normally can't have kids past 43 or 44 consistantly. Where as a man can probably still knock up a woman at 65 with a little liquor and some viagra at the most.

So a woman taking the man route can prevent her from having kids of her own. And lets keep it 100 most folks at some point in their life wants to have kids of their own. And most women (in general) at some point in their adult life would like the experience of having a child of their own (talking about pregnancy, birthing and etc).

So women shouldn't play the same games that men play and vice versa. Just like the avg man shouldn't be talking about he waiting till a woman calls him, takes him out on a date or shows interest in him. Mothafukka will almost never get a woman and will be single till they 60.

Actually numerous studies are showing that it’s not beneficial for older men to have children. Since it’s becoming more of phenomenon for men to wait to have children than ever before studies are being done and it looks like while women will have infertility issues when they wait to have children, men can cause birth defects when they wait to long to have children and at later ages:
The Risks to Babies of Older Fathers (Published 2019)
Older fathers associated with increased birth risks
Older fathers put health of partners, unborn children at risk: Men who delay fatherhood should consult their doctor and consider banking sperm before age 35

All this to say that it actually serves neither group to play games if they want children and families. The issue is that our current society is very shallow and dating has become that way too. There’s a lot of delusion on both sides.

personally I think it’s probably for the best that some of those women who complain just stay single.

 

[Balla]

Eh

LSA is predominantly blk women...at least supposedly

Dont blk women outnumber blk men? I believe in the states at least. Sure in many other places as well

In higher education blk women are far outpacing blk men... newer generations of blk women are out earning their male counterparts by quite a bit I believe

Then not all men are heterosexual sexual... blk men are more open to interracial dating

On top of just trying to find someone you are attracted to and vibe with...

So it's legitimately hard out here if you do want to date within your race as a black woman

If you want your partner not to have a criminal record and or decent credit it's even harder

Let's be real

I'm in a long term relationship but I lucked up

And that's not to say blk men have it easy or that blk women are perfect

This sounds like it’s straight from that site.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

They're delusional. They have nobody to blame for their lack of options but themselves. A man who doesn't look like O'Dell Beckham Jr is ugly. A man who isn't 6 feet is short. A man who isn't making more money than her(even if shes making above average income) is broke. A man who is working hard 16hrs a day is selfish and doesn't make time for her. A man that DOES have time off is lazy and unambitious. Theyve designed things in their head such that no man can ever be perfect.

I see a lot of them complaining about men now having standards and asking what is it that the woman is bringing to the table. Theyve spent so much time bringing nothing but trust issues, endless criticism and worn out p*ssy to the table that they're appalled that men have the "audacity" to ask for more in life than to respond to the every whim of a woman who is not reciprocating what he brings to the relationship.

Those lipstick alley broads are delusional. Of course we have standards now. Millennials and Gen Z ain't with that bullyshyt. Fuk I look like marrying a fat woman only for her to end up on that 300lb tv show on TLC. FOH

 

[Solo_87]

This sounds like it’s straight from that site.

Where's the lie tho?

Not to mention a lot of younger ppl period just have bad social skills ...I blame social media

 

[the bossman]

That site seems to have a population of bedwenches, bm haters, divestors, femcels and I’m guessing normal/decent bw too.
This site has a population of pawgset and bucks, sysbmred/pill, Kevin Samuel sheep follower types, incels, men who have issues with bw, and normal/decent bm.

you covered damn near all the mini black subcultures.

Have you ever used incel/femcels in real life conversations?

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Damn OP

 

[ALMIGHTY GOD]

Where's the lie tho?

Not to mention a lot of younger ppl period just have bad social skills ...I blame social media

5 dollar net worth.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Actually numerous studies are showing that it’s not beneficial for older men to have children. Since it’s becoming more of phenomenon for men to wait to have children than ever before studies are being done and it looks like while women will have infertility issues when they wait to have children, men can cause birth defects when they wait to long to have children and at later ages:
The Risks to Babies of Older Fathers (Published 2019)
Older fathers associated with increased birth risks
Older fathers put health of partners, unborn children at risk: Men who delay fatherhood should consult their doctor and consider banking sperm before age 35

All this to say that it actually serves neither group to play games if they want children and families. The issue is that our current society is very shallow and dating has become that way too. There’s a lot of delusion on both sides.

personally I think it’s probably for the best that some of those women who complain just stay single.

Not everyone needs to have kids. We have 7 billion people on this planet already. Birth rates are going down all across first world countries . Also, not all genes need to be passed on. The same way short brehs are having their genes filtered out, fat and obese women need to have their genes filtered out. At the end of the day tall beautiful people will keep reproducing . #handsome gang we in this BIHHHH.

 

[Originalman]

Actually numerous studies are showing that it’s not beneficial for older men to have children. Since it’s becoming more of phenomenon for men to wait to have children than ever before studies are being done and it looks like while women will have infertility issues when they wait to have children, men can cause birth defects when they wait to long to have children and at later ages:
The Risks to Babies of Older Fathers (Published 2019)
Older fathers associated with increased birth risks
Older fathers put health of partners, unborn children at risk: Men who delay fatherhood should consult their doctor and consider banking sperm before age 35

All this to say that it actually serves neither group to play games if they want children and families. The issue is that our current society is very shallow and dating has become that way too. There’s a lot of delusion on both sides.

personally I think it’s probably for the best that some of those women who complain just stay single.

Yeah true it is a higher rate of defects the older the father is. But its just humanly easier for a man who is 50 to help produce a child without medical reproductive practices. Than a women who is 50 who will need donor eggs, hormon shots, pills and lab techs mating her donor egg with semen to make an embryo and place said embryo in the 50 year old woman's uterus.

Its just how god made us.

Also wanted to add for men due to how god made them its a numbers game when it comes to reproduction. Due to the 1,000s of sperm released during ejaculation. Plus the way conception happens. Even if say 50 percent of the sperm are defective. The odds say you have 50 percent who are not. Also the 50 percent who are not defective are normally stronger and will out swim the defective sperm.

Now lets take a look at women. If a women has 50 percent chance of her eggs being defective. That means that 6 months out of 12 her eggs are bad for lack of a bad term. Since biologically women only create one egg a month. Now lets fast forward this. Scientifically women's estrogen levels decrease greatly at 40 and even greater from 41 to 44. Going from say a possible of 7 out 10 eggs being good to 4 out of 10 to 1 out of 10 or 1 out of 20 for women 44 >.

Which is also a reason most IVF doctors do not do IVF with a woman's own eggs when she is 44 and up. They use donor eggs cause the chance for pregnancy even with doctors help and ovary stimulation is 3%< if it is their own egg and they are 44 and up.

So all these famous women on TV and movies having babies at 45 plus they all donor eggs and through IVF.

 

[the bossman]

Eh

LSA is predominantly blk women...at least supposedly

Dont blk women outnumber blk men? I believe in the states at least. Sure in many other places as well

In higher education blk women are far outpacing blk men... newer generations of blk women are out earning their male counterparts by quite a bit I believe

Then not all men are heterosexual sexual... blk men are more open to interracial dating

On top of just trying to find someone you are attracted to and vibe with...

So it's legitimately hard out here if you do want to date within your race as a black woman

If you want your partner not to have a criminal record and or decent credit it's even harder

Let's be real

I'm in a long term relationship but I lucked up

And that's not to say blk men have it easy or that blk women are perfect

all the usual talking points from your annual ABC News specials "black, educated, & single"

so what are some common shortcomings black men have to deal with in black women? or are they all perfect?

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

i agree it sounds like u both weren't fit for traditional gender roles. tbh u sound like too much of a pushover in the situation and she sounds like too much of a user. however, i would not say it never works. it works for the right people. if u lack the ability to pick the right people (supportive follower, good leader) then don't try it

You heard it first hear fellas,Straight from the horses mouth!

You called that man a pushover for providing all the conventional things women say they want to make THEM happy. Damn THAT'S the disrespect we talking about.

Maybe you right, because if I did all that for a woman and she cheated on me and people calling me that shyt, she'd be hanging over the balcony like Suge did Vanilla Ice.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

There's a good amount of coli nikkas over there. I'm just one of them who made it clear that I'm there. Because it's a troll account.

You must be trollin them shyt out of the hoes