These single women over 30 be mad AF

[The ADD]

The thing is in many cases men “postponing” relationships is usually him waiting to be in the best position to provide for his to-be family, while women if we use the career angle is to be able to consume and “enjoy life”, its never “im gonna grind so when i get married i can provide a financial foundation for my family”.

This tends to be why the male angle is “damn these chicks washed, i grinded for this?”, when they turn on the marriage mind when they are finally ready, while women tend to have a “time is running out on me”.

Fair but it can’t be possible that everyone of these women is “washed”. I think that’s my bigger point.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Why does everything have to be framed as good or bad with ya'll?

You take all the humanity out a dating and then wonder why you don't get the connections you want.

Just because someone isn't for you doesn't mean they are "bad." Not everyone wants to just make incompatibility (which ya'll heavily promote) work while crying about it on the back end.

The way this forum talks about relationships is 100% based on desperation, following silly time lines and never focuses on combatibility or if marriage even makes sense in any particular scenario.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Fair but it can’t be possible that everyone of these women is “washed”. I think that’s my bigger point.

You’re arguing an absolute which is disingenuous.

 

[The ADD]

You’re arguing an absolute which is disingenuous.

Well I’m not arguing that with you. The tone of the orginal content is what I’m addressing.

Your reply to me was fair but not really relevant to my point.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Well I’m not arguing that with you. The tone of the orginal content is what I’m addressing.

Your reply to me was fair but not really relevant to my point.

It’s casual convo which is generalization in nature, no different than when women do the same thing about men and nobody says anything. In the case of when women do it, men often provide the examples lr stats disproving what the women is pushing as being a minority/anecdotal. While when men do it dudes are triggered and dismissive, if he is wrong show the data and examples. Most of the dudes in this thread with their capes on cant even point to 5 marriageable women they know personally in the age range lol

 

[Scaaar]

Dating in your 30s isn't hard. It's when people's delusions, unrealistic expectations, lack of self awareness, unhealed trauma, etc.

The thing is in many cases men “postponing” relationships is usually him waiting to be in the best position to provide for his to-be family, while women if we use the career angle is to be able to consume and “enjoy life”, its never “im gonna grind so when i get married i can provide a financial foundation for my family”.

This tends to be why the male angle is “damn these chicks washed, i grinded for this?”, when they turn on the marriage mind when they are finally ready, while women tend to have a “time is running out on me”.

Case in point. These dudes that are supposedly grinding it out and get to the finish line and think there's supposed to be this great woman waiting on them. Most of these dudes grinding it out have also been out here dating as well but feel entitled to a particular outcome just as much as the women do. Hence the unrealistic expectations. The chicks that were shooting at him are probably what he qualifies for but he "feels" he deserves better even though what you have been attracting says otherwise. That's when you have dudes whining on the Internet about dating instead of just pursuing what you actually qualify for (who actually likes you).

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dating in your 30s isn't hard. It's when people's delusions, unrealistic expectations, lack of self awareness, unhealed trauma, etc.

Case in point. These dudes that are supposedly grinding it out and get to the finish line and think there's supposed to be this great woman waiting on them. Most of these dudes grinding it out have also been out here dating as well but feel entitled to a particular outcome just as much as the women do. Hence the unrealistic expectations. The chicks that were shooting at him are probably what he qualifies for but he "feels" he deserves better even though what you have been attracting says otherwise. That's when you have dudes whining on the Internet about dating instead of just pursuing what you actually qualify for (who actually likes you).

You pulling an argument out of thin air. Avg dude isn't feeling entitled to anything, avg dude is going on dates and seeing how weird or burnt out women are hence the statements. Dudes keep tryna do slight of hand with arguments or just making shyt up. "Chicks that were shooting at him", nikka what? Lol
For the avg man he tended to date those who were proximity of him or was "out the way" grinding. There is a small number of women going into the fields that dudes who pick the "grind" path and the women who tend to be usally fit a personality type that is conflicting to working with others when it comes to relationships (hence where a woman and climb the ladder, be out numbered by men, and none of those men want anything to do with her outside of work).

 

[Scaaar]

You pulling an argument out of thin air. Avg dude isn't feeling entitled to anything, avg dude is going on dates and seeing how weird or burnt out women are hence the statements. Dudes keep tryna do slight of hand with arguments or just making shyt up. "Chicks that were shooting at him", nikka what? Lol
For the avg man he tended to date those who were proximity of him or was "out the way" grinding. There is a small number of women going into the fields that dudes who pick the "grind" path and the women who tend to be usally fit a personality type that is conflicting to working with others when it comes to relationships (hence where a woman and climb the ladder, be out numbered by men, and none of those men want anything to do with her outside of work).

This tends to be why the male angle is “damn these chicks washed, i grinded for this

This is the very definition of entitlement. They believe they're deserving of a particular outcome. If you are only running into or attracting people that are "washed" chances are that you're washed too. But again you bring up the main issue. Men/women aren't dating the people in their close proximity because with access to the Internet they feel they're deserving of better/more than what's around them. Some of y'all don't deserve these supposed 10s y'all lust after and complain about constantly. You just gotta admit you're an average man and get an average woman and go live out your life

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is the very definition of entitlement. They believe they're deserving of a particular outcome. If you are only running into or attracting people that are "washed" chances are that you're washed too. But again you bring up the main issue. Men/women aren't dating the people in their close proximity because with access to the Internet they feel they're deserving of better/more than what's around them. Some of y'all don't deserve these supposed 10s y'all lust after and complain about constantly. You just gotta admit you're an average man and get an average woman and go live out your life

You talking 10s and every one of.my statements are regarding being burnt out. Likeni said you are playing slight of hand and literally never converse in good faith. A breh will talk about observing jadedness, fitness, women drowning in debt, and addiction and you will deflect.to IG models or random incels who have nothing to do with anything and can't even get dates.

At this point you are only here to deflect and waste time.

My last post to you

 

[DatBoiHawk]

I follow ole girl on IG so I was seeing her posts on threads and I had to block her she fine as hell, but she may as well be the female KENT. Always crying and shyt about dating

 

[Scaaar]

You talking 10s and every one of.my statements are regarding being burnt out. Likeni said you are playing slight of hand and literally never converse in good faith. A breh will talk about observing jadedness, fitness, women drowning in debt, and addiction and you will deflect.to IG models or random incels who have nothing to do with anything and can't even get dates.

At this point you are only here to deflect and waste time.

My last post to you

My point still stands. As much as I see women whining about dating it's the same amount of brehs whining too. Both sides have unrealistic expectations and the dudes are just as burnt out and jaded as the women. If you wasn't you wouldn't be whining about the quality of your options

 

[Red11]

Dating in your 30s isn't hard. It's when people's delusions, unrealistic expectations, lack of self awareness, unhealed trauma, etc.

Case in point. These dudes that are supposedly grinding it out and get to the finish line and think there's supposed to be this great woman waiting on them. Most of these dudes grinding it out have also been out here dating as well but feel entitled to a particular outcome just as much as the women do. Hence the unrealistic expectations. The chicks that were shooting at him are probably what he qualifies for but he "feels" he deserves better even though what you have been attracting says otherwise. That's when you have dudes whining on the Internet about dating instead of just pursuing what you actually qualify for (who actually likes you).

Tbf...WOMEN told men this... #GMB says "soil your royal oats".

 

[General Mills]