These single women over 30 be mad AF

[Problematic Pat]

Well, he was being disrespectful to many women with the leftovers remark

No he wasn't

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Hmm....I follow her and shes a single mother so I'd hazard a guess and say she was slightly triggered.

Bit leaving that aside, in another thread not so long ago you made a long list of negative traits you found in the men you dated so if you agree with what she is saying....does the same not apply to you.....in other words her point was that "what does it say about you that you keep attracting these same people" so if she's right then does the same apply to you?

Did I say that all those traits are present in multiple people or is that your assumption/spin in order to try to make the conversation relevant to me so you can argue with a woman because you agree with dude and feel triggered by push back?

You'll have to quote the message if you want specifics.

I think it's funny how ya'll remember everytime I sneeze.

 

[AAKing23]

We need to stop acting like a single man at 30 is the same thing as a single woman at 30


In the black community that woman usually already has kids while the man typically does not (54 percent of BM are childless)


Even if she doesn’t, her biological clock has her on a more urgent timeline. Men literally are just getting started with their lives at 30 in terms of career and upward mobility

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

And you can't be a 50/50 nikka and want a bad bytch, a smart bytch, a loyal bytch, a childless bytch be asking her pay for the 3rd date as a test to see if she using you. Don't work like that nikka.

Old simp cat daddy babble.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

This is simple math.

"If you cannot find a partner of decent quality, man or woman, it is because you are not of decent quality."

Too many people, like the breh in the post, believe they are worth more than they actually are.
If you really are THAT dude, you will attract THAT girl very easily.
If you have nothing but leftovers, it is because nobody thinks you're worth a fresh meal.

 

[Scaaar]

Making declarative statements like that says more about you than the people you’re talking about. The whole “the dating pool has pee in it”‘movement is hilarious to me. Go outside of your comfort zone

Everyone that even uses that saying is weird. If you listen to them talk for a few minutes you'll see why their dating life sucks and it usually doesn't have anything to do with outside folks lol

 

[WesCrook]

Exactly. If a woman is widowed with children, most men will assume she’s a good single mother. She seemingly did everything right and lost her spouse through circumstances beyond her control.

Realistically, that’s not the majority of single mothers in our community. It’s women sharing the same dirty dikk nikka. He’s either a deadbeat or in and out of jail.

No matter how bad women talk about their baby daddy, she made a conscious choice to keep that man’s child. And please believe, she had abortions before keeping his, which tells a man everything he needs to know.

Before, being a step dad was seen as honorable, but not so much now in this culture.

"Yaaasss"

 

[Uachet]

Old simp cat daddy babble.

I am glad someone said it. I damn sure felt the urge to say something similar.

 

[NaijaProdigy Redux]

Dude played himself with that comment and I’m supposed to defend him?

Never had any of the problems dating in my 30s

 

[MostReal]

The complete irony of this thread.


The dude basically dissed himself in his post, talking about "nothing but leftovers nobody wants."


So he literally explained why nobody wants him.


Yet the thread is addressing the woman that replied to the dude's self ether.

Right he sounded like a woman

 

[The ADD]

End of the day, for men, I can't speak for women, it usually comes down to..... Location and where you are in your career.

If you don't hit your stride til your 30s, you're suddenly behind in finding a legit partner
Now you're dealing with divorced women, women with multiple kids, clubbed out women with all male "friends", etc

And if you don't live in an area like Houston, or DC etc., you may have a hard time finding a Black women who may have slipped thru the dating cracks similar to the way you did.

Just my opinion

Always left out of the narrative on the male and female side. I can’t be that nobody exists that’s worth a damn but somehow you are the unicorn.

 

[Striving For Greatness]

Tit game proper

 

[MoveForward]

Dating in your 30’s is hard, I don’t even get why this is being disputed. Run into someone that is unmarried in their 30’s and you will usually see why. There is a reason divorces rates are higher for 2nd marriages and at what age do people usually go through their first divorces? Late 20’s, early 30’s.

You can fukk but if you want to date intentionally to find a wife, it’s extremely hard. Quality women are found and secured early…

 

[The ADD]

Dating in your 30’s is hard, I don’t even get why this is being disputed. Run into someone that is unmarried in their 30’s and you will usually see why. There is a reason divorces rates are higher for 2nd marriages and at what age do people usually go through their first divorces? Late 20’s, early 30’s.

You can fukk but if you want to date intentionally to find a wife, it’s extremely hard. Quality women are found and secured early…

I don’t think anyone is disputing it’s not easy. It’s more the stance that everyone is leftovers but I’m pristine and forced to date them. The odds would dispute that.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I don’t think anyone is disputing it’s not easy. It’s more the stance that everyone is leftovers but I’m pristine and forced to date them. The odds would dispute that.

The thing is in many cases men “postponing” relationships is usually him waiting to be in the best position to provide for his to-be family, while women if we use the career angle is to be able to consume and “enjoy life”, its never “im gonna grind so when i get married i can provide a financial foundation for my family”.

This tends to be why the male angle is “damn these chicks washed, i grinded for this?”, when they turn on the marriage mind when they are finally ready, while women tend to have a “time is running out on me”.