These single women over 30 be mad AF

[ItsPeople]

She sound like a left over.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

This man just speaking on his person experience and she come in with all these assumptions while projecting her insecurities.

Both of these groups cancel each other out with that bullshīt they are spewing

The Breh can’t level up because he’s mediocre (but at least single with no kids) and the chick has 100k highway miles on her, proving his “leftovers” rhetoric but at least she’s somewhat self aware.

These people will continue to suffer in the revenge of the nerds era that’s gonna be here for a LOOOOOOOONG time

Should’ve learned how to code when people were jokingly preaching that shīt

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Well, he was being disrespectful to many women with the leftovers remark

It’s true. Why buy a used car with high mileage from Enterprise that dam near everyone has driven?

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Outside of the south and small towns, most people are dating over 30. Why we still acting like it’s 1980 when everyone was married with 3 kids by 30?

 

[Amo Husserl]

Nobody over 30 is being honest with themselves about the dating market and it shows.
Everybody movin' OD self-conscious and insecure 'cause they didn't lock sumn down in their 20s.
Assuming these millennials with these problems, they was dealt a bad economic hand.
I understand the frustration, but not bein' real about the situation at hand gone be the reason 30-sumns stay single.
But I can't call it, too many people movin' with high expectations actin' like they past they prime or accepted they life is over by 30.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

The complete irony of this thread.


The dude basically dissed himself in his post, talking about "nothing but leftovers nobody wants."


So he literally explained why nobody wants him.


Yet the thread is addressing the woman that replied to the dude's self ether.

I mean maybe dude is trying to date within his range, e.a. 28 - 34.

He might have a point. A lot of women got bad juju in those years

 

[O.Red]

I know it’s a source of jokes, but on some real shyt it’s an honorable thing to raise a child that ain’t your own. Even if it ain’t your child that’s still a child that would be grateful if a man took him under his wing. Just because things didn’t work out with the first man she was with, you can’t assume that she’s no good at all or “leftovers” as was stated. Cuz as someone else pointed out, that’s lowkey self ether cuz it says a lot about where you stand too since the women you have access to are, in his words, leftovers.

Society doesn't praise stepdaddies the way they praise other types of men, that's why this is never gonna hit like y'all want it to

Where are the stepdaddy songs? And this will be dismissed as superficial but men that don't receive praise or appreciation tend to opt out of what they consider a bad deal

The only times it's considered "honorable" to be a stepdad is when it's being used to corral unwilling men. There's no "honorable" treatment on the backend, as reflected by society. Again there are no stepdaddy songs. What's the poppin stepdaddy movie that's permeated culture as much as say, Baby Boy? Mind you Baby Boy is one of the most culturally influential movies of the last 30 years

And this lack of general appreciation applies to the kids as well "that's still a child that will be grateful if a man took him under his wing" is not as realistic or common as you're implying it is. There are plenty(PLENTY) stepchildren that are largely aversive, if not indifferent to their stepparents

The reason Gen Z and under males have largely rejected being step dads is because they watched Gen X being finessed into being clean up men with little reward. This is also why "A real man" is now seen as a backhanded compliment for suckas

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I know it’s a source of jokes, but on some real shyt it’s an honorable thing to raise a child that ain’t your own. Even if it ain’t your child that’s still a child that would be grateful if a man took him under his wing. Just because things didn’t work out with the first man she was with, you can’t assume that she’s no good at all or “leftovers” as was stated. Cuz as someone else pointed out, that’s lowkey self ether cuz it says a lot about where you stand too since the women you have access to are, in his words, leftovers.

This some real shyt… Real Man shyt. A lot of my partners(hell, some family too) would have drastically different lives in a negative way if wasn’t for some real G’s that stepped in and took on the role of a father figure. shyt, a lot of so called step daddy’s kept my hood from going to complete shyt socially and socially economically… Now with that being said, that was the 80s and 90s, and people were built different back then… This new gen of men and women have been corrupted when it comes to having virtue and being steadfast. Society has conditioned these traits out of too many of them, so I kind of understand why a young man would be mad hesitant to take on the role of raising another man’s child. It really ain’t in him and the chick might not even be worth the commitment l….

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I mean maybe dude is trying to date within his range, e.a. 28 - 34.

He might have a point. A lot of women got bad juju in those years

You really in here saying that all women who are single at the age of 26 are tainted beyond repair?

 

[MischievousMonkey]

She broke down the contradiction perfectly

 

[Michael's Black Son]

These dudes fall for the trap and let women shame them out of dating women younger than them.
Brother if all the 30 year old women are “leftovers”, go pull some women in their late 20s. Instead you‘re miserable and whining on the internet like those same leftover women.

This. A ton of mid 20s chicks all over the damn place. These dudes just want to be in the same place’s and same social circles as people in their age group.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

You really in here saying that all women who are single at the age of 26 are tainted beyond repair?

Im not sure what you mean by tainted. But the older you go up, the more things you'll likely have to deal with in a person. That's just being real.

Tainted? I dont know. But social media has shown what dudes dating single mothers got to deal with.

 

[Voice of Reason]

She ain't lying if you childless in your thirties why not date younger




or outside of your race

 

[Voice of Reason]

Outside of the south and small towns, most people are dating over 30. Why we still acting like it’s 1980 when everyone was married with 3 kids by 30?

most black women have kids by 25

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I know it’s a source of jokes, but on some real shyt it’s an honorable thing to raise a child that ain’t your own. Even if it ain’t your child that’s still a child that would be grateful if a man took him under his wing. Just because things didn’t work out with the first man she was with, you can’t assume that she’s no good at all or “leftovers” as was stated. Cuz as someone else pointed out, that’s lowkey self ether cuz it says a lot about where you stand too since the women you have access to are, in his words, leftovers.

Instead of advertising himself as some old unappealing nikka that can’t pull the type of woman he wants maybe he can just find gems in the “leftovers” and find happiness there. For all he know, there’s prolly a super bad single mom that has everything else on point and decided to cut ties with a man that didn’t want to do right by her, himself, or his child? Or what if he died tragically? This nikka could be getting a hot meal, great sex, and companionship instead of lamenting on his hassles with leftovers. Nah nikka, unless you the man with the master plan need to cut your losses

And that goes for the women that think this way too. fukk outta here with your wild expectations

This some real shyt… Real Man shyt. A lot of my partners(hell, some family too) would have drastically different lives in a negative way if wasn’t for some real G’s that stepped in and took on the role of a father figure. shyt, a lot of so called step daddy’s kept my hood from going to complete shyt socially and socially economically… Now with that being said, that was the 80s and 90s, and people were built different back then… This new gen of men and women have been corrupted when it comes to having virtue and being steadfast. Society has conditioned these traits out of too many of them, so I kind of understand why a young man would be mad hesitant to take on the role of raising another man’s child. It really ain’t in him and the chick might not even be worth the commitment l….

Oh its honorable until the ex jump back in, she doesnt respect you, or the kids dont respect you.

Dating a single mother can blow up in your face.

A lot dudes suffered the consequences and a lot dudes aint taking the chances, which sucks for the good single mothers out there.