These single women over 30 be mad AF
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Nkrumah Was Right
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Leftovers attacking leftovers. That's why they're leftovers.
Just say it’s hard finding women without kids or you only running to women who just isn’t what im looking for
Because a lot of women on those dating sites have kids or spun the block and they well feel some type of way
Because a lot of women on those dating sites have kids or spun the block and they well feel some type of way
feelosofer
#ninergang
He deserved the response he got. Calling women leftovers like 3 day old spaghetti is not cool and he can't even pull them so he is a leftover in his own right.
U live in Canada and in your 50s
NAH SHE SIMPLY
REPEATED ALL THE SAME shyt THE COLI
HAS BEEN SAYING FOR YEARS
I know it’s a source of jokes, but on some real shyt it’s an honorable thing to raise a child that ain’t your own. Even if it ain’t your child that’s still a child that would be grateful if a man took him under his wing. Just because things didn’t work out with the first man she was with, you can’t assume that she’s no good at all or “leftovers” as was stated. Cuz as someone else pointed out, that’s lowkey self ether cuz it says a lot about where you stand too since the women you have access to are, in his words, leftovers.
Instead of advertising himself as some old unappealing nikka that can’t pull the type of woman he wants maybe he can just find gems in the “leftovers” and find happiness there. For all he know, there’s prolly a super bad single mom that has everything else on point and decided to cut ties with a man that didn’t want to do right by her, himself, or his child? Or what if he died tragically? This nikka could be getting a hot meal, great sex, and companionship instead of lamenting on his hassles with leftovers. Nah nikka, unless you the man with the master plan need to cut your losses
And that goes for the women that think this way too. fukk outta here with your wild expectations
Instead of advertising himself as some old unappealing nikka that can’t pull the type of woman he wants maybe he can just find gems in the “leftovers” and find happiness there. For all he know, there’s prolly a super bad single mom that has everything else on point and decided to cut ties with a man that didn’t want to do right by her, himself, or his child? Or what if he died tragically? This nikka could be getting a hot meal, great sex, and companionship instead of lamenting on his hassles with leftovers. Nah nikka, unless you the man with the master plan need to cut your losses
And that goes for the women that think this way too. fukk outta here with your wild expectations
Dude might not want to raise a kid that ain’t his. That’s not an unrealistic standard to have, the leftovers comment aside.I know it’s a source of jokes, but on some real shyt it’s an honorable thing to raise a child that ain’t your own. Even if it ain’t your child that’s still a child that would be grateful if a man took him under his wing. Just because things didn’t work out with the first man she was with, you can’t assume that she’s no good at all or “leftovers” as was stated. Cuz as someone else pointed out, that’s lowkey self ether cuz it says a lot about where you stand too since the women you have access to are, in his words, leftovers.
Instead of advertising himself as some old unappealing nikka that can’t pull the type of woman he wants maybe he can just find gems in the “leftovers” and find happiness there. For all he know, there’s prolly a super bad single mom that has everything else on point and decided to cut ties with a man that didn’t want to do right by her, himself, or his child? Or what if he died tragically? This nikka could be getting a hot meal, great sex, and companionship instead of lamenting on his hassles with leftovers. Nah nikka, unless you the man with the master plan need to cut your losses
And that goes for the women that think this way too. fukk outta here with your wild expectations
And that’s fair, which is where he should leave it at imo. We be feelin a way when BW have bullshyt to say about us despite that the experience of a BM comes with nuance just like their lives do. That’s why outside of a tight circle of friends cracking jokes and not being serious I’m not gon put people down like that. Never know what life might bring you later on.
I’m not necessarily interested in that myself atp of my life either. But if the circumstances were different I wouldn’t be close minded about it.
Of course that why I said the leftover comment aside. That said you kind of inferred he should embrace that option which is unfair. Even saying you wouldn’t be close minded hints at saying his core stance is wrong. People like what they like or don’t.
Illuminatos
#OVOXO
These dudes fall for the trap and let women shame them out of dating women younger than them. 
Brother if all the 30 year old women are “leftovers”, go pull some women in their late 20s. Instead you‘re miserable and whining on the internet like those same leftover women.
Brother if all the 30 year old women are “leftovers”, go pull some women in their late 20s. Instead you‘re miserable and whining on the internet like those same leftover women.
Unbothered
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I mean, I just turned 30 a couple of months ago.
I don't think dating is soo bad as he's making it seem, although I will say this, even in my late 20s (26-29) I realized that most women my age for better or worse have some level of “baggage” and I don't mean that in a bad way but rather, all the attractive good looking women with good vibes, personalities I like, etc either have kids (which for myself isn't a deal breaker at all) or they've been in a few relationships that has to some extent left them, understandably, a bit jaded, unfortunately.
Some women you're gonna have to put in more effort to make them believe in relationships again because they've been through soo many ups and downs that it's like getting close to them, romantically speaking, will take time and effort which can be draining for some bruhs like in the OP.
I don't think it's soo much about “leftovers,” but rather he wants a woman who is (emotionally) open and ready for him to step forward. Some women, especially those who are 30+ or reaching closer to being 30, are still “finding” themselves, mentally speaking, they are not very open due to not wanting to be hurt again. It's like one minute they may be open and willing to have you step to them but then suddenly they're back to being closed and skeptical.
I don't think dating is soo bad as he's making it seem, although I will say this, even in my late 20s (26-29) I realized that most women my age for better or worse have some level of “baggage” and I don't mean that in a bad way but rather, all the attractive good looking women with good vibes, personalities I like, etc either have kids (which for myself isn't a deal breaker at all) or they've been in a few relationships that has to some extent left them, understandably, a bit jaded, unfortunately.
Some women you're gonna have to put in more effort to make them believe in relationships again because they've been through soo many ups and downs that it's like getting close to them, romantically speaking, will take time and effort which can be draining for some bruhs like in the OP.
I don't think it's soo much about “leftovers,” but rather he wants a woman who is (emotionally) open and ready for him to step forward. Some women, especially those who are 30+ or reaching closer to being 30, are still “finding” themselves, mentally speaking, they are not very open due to not wanting to be hurt again. It's like one minute they may be open and willing to have you step to them but then suddenly they're back to being closed and skeptical.
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Field Marshall Bradley
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nikka sound like a hoe…. How you saying it ain’t nothing but leftovers available when you’re in the prime of your life…. He exposed himself and the OP to dumb to realize it
cyndaquil
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Sounds like bro is the one who is mad. He's trying to punch above his weight class. The attractive, single, no kids women he wants would rather be by themselves than be with him says a lot.She didn't sound mad to me. She sounded right.