appreciate the education. if you're right good stuff never knew. I just feel bad for all these unwanted kids out here....I never knew adopting was like that....plenty of foster kids out here 2
yea he brutally honesty about it all n the stress of the process...and I don't really ask questions cause I don't wanna be insensitive cause I'm Steph Curry with the % and don't wanna rub salt in the wound.
The overall point is that people take life for granted. its amazing any of us are here at all.
This is true breh. Long as his wife / female mate young enough to produce healthy eggs and her womb is healthy and she is able to carry they will be OK (even if they need a donor for an egg long as her womb is healthy they got a good chance).
With his old lady having a male partner she got a good chance to be successful if her womb and eggs (or donor eggs) are healthy. Cause the issue is freezing eggs that haven't been fertilized (since they are mostly water). But if you retrieve eggs and fertilize them immediately with the sperm then freeze the eggs / embryos the chances of having a percentage of a successful pregnancy goes up exponentially (cause embryos have less water then unfertilized eggs so the unthawing process is easier).
Then a couple can also do PGT testing on the embryos which helps eliminate the embryos that are most likely to fail to to chromosome issues and other defects. So that is why the chances of a successful pregnancy increase (fresh eggs immediately turned to embryos and then frozen and tested before being placed into a healthy womb).
But this tech ain't new as I mentioned that is how many folks been being born around the world since the 70s (this is how Mike Jackson kids were conceived) plus its how dinner and milk we get on our table every day and night (this is the process how cows and bulls have been created since the 80s as well).
Anyway I am wishing your home boy and especially his old lady a successful pregnancy. Having reproductive issues can destroy a person especially women.
I know a sista that had like 7 or 8 miscarriages (in her 30s). That shyt damn near destroyed that sista emotionally until her and her husband decided to do IVF with a egg donor. Folks fail to realize the shyt women have to go through with miscarriages and not being able to carry a child to full term. That sista that had them miscarriages had to go to the hospital and literally had to have labor induced so she could pass the dead fetus through her body. Think of a women having a 5, 6, 7 or 8 or 9 week old fetus die in her womb. Then having to make an appointment with her doctor (often times waiting a day or two or three for hospital availability with the dead fetus inside of her) to go to the hospital go into labor on the delivery section in the hospital. Go through the normal process of delivery only to deliver a dead fetus and leave the hospital with no child and just guilt, a broken heart and physical pain.
Man I don't wish that shyt on any woman and especially any black woman.
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she should be thankful if a overweight 40+ man is down to marry her
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