They Don’t Want You to Find Love – Dating, Tech, and Porn Industries Want You To Be Single For Life - Rigged Game
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Thats why I said you have to be attractive or appealing.
If you are either you are not struggling on an app and can easily find a woman that fits the needs of whatever category you want.
I dont even think you read my post. Im out
Music Fiend
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I disagree here.
A lot of ppl found their significant other on hinge. Truth be told its probably the only one thats meant to be find, date, delete. Its even a part of their marketing thats its the app you delete.
Overall, I will say that the real issue with the design in general is apps removed the extraordinary out of dating, which is why most feel money driven.
I'm an in person approach type and truthfully the amount of times each of my exes and my current light up at "how did you meet" is crazy. Off rip i'm im up +1000 pts G. All because I walked up to her introduced myself. Told her she might be exactly what I'm looking for and that I'm taking her out this week.
Hey smart guy, what do you think the topic is about?
A. Getting Pu$$y
B. Buying Pu$$Y
C. None of the above
We’re going into 2026.
We’re DONE with the woe is me shyt and now about solutions. The same way we’re DONE with pretending that we don’t prefer light skin sistas.
I told y’all before, The Tinder Swindler gave y’all a play by play and damn BLUEPRINT on how to get women if you ain’t got it.
And why would you do that if you have found love and started a family? Drug dealers dont want you to get clean. Alcohol companies dont want you to be sober.
The dating stuff that gets pushed the most today is all about superficial, unrealistic BS and "us vs them" gender wars crap. It muddies the waters and poisons the minds of the impressionable.
Something nobody wants to admit is non-consumption focused social institutions are on their death bed or have been co-opted by corporate sponsers.
Dating apps was for weirdos “in my day” as we were busy living life. Like from 18-22 you had to be weird as fukk to be on dating apps, and shyt 22-26 you had yojr social circles to mingle in and meet people. So maybe 27 and up your career took you elsewhere to a new city and you didnt go to college so you had no alumni associations, career social orgs to tap into etc thrn ok you on apps.
But today people dont have any social lives that isnt consumption driven paired with apps being flooded with prostitutes so you get a shyt show of weirdos, prostitutes, and burnt out people.
Not a place you find love lol
Amo Husserl
Superstar
People impressionable, if they think the app is going to give them better chances to meet the one they are using the app most of the time to increase their success rate. Using the app as a filter to reduce their chances of failure. Meeting people in person is healthier, but we live in an era of society calibrated for immediacy and efficiency through convenience instead of long-term organic development through hard work.
Today's dating market is like the dollar menu.
Most people in the dating market now are budgeting their time and effort for less.
But still got a trash attitude and poor people skills, so they gamed themselves thinkin' they gamed the system.
'bout to smoke a cigarette.
I think you are missing the point. Many of you are.
They want you to pay WHILE you are using the service. If you find your match and enter a relationship, at least the dating app got something monetary out of you using their platform.
It's not the same analogy as a dealer.
To your point about the unrealistic ideals, the serial people who will never be satisfied or just want attention from dating apps, they will NEVER use a paid dating app. Because at the end of the day, they will likely always remain single bc they are ultimately sabotaging themselves with their "standards". They realize it enough to know they are wasting money by paying , but they still think they're gonna real in the silver tuna
People impressionable, if they think the app is going to give them better chances to meet the one they are using the app most of the time to increase their success rate. Using the app as a filter to reduce their chances of failure. Meeting people in person is healthier, but we live in an era of society calibrated for immediacy and efficiency through convenience instead of long-term organic development through hard work.
Today's dating market is like the dollar menu.
Most people in the dating market now are budgeting their time and effort for less.
But still got a trash attitude and poor people skills, so they gamed themselves thinkin' they gamed the system.
'bout to smoke a cigarette.
Then their problem is that they just as low quality and low effort as the people they are attempting to use. Sounds like they don't deserve anyone decent.
This aint how business and capitalism works. They dont want something and you keep it moving. They want you to keep giving it all up.
A lot of people dont even realize that they self sabotage or they are the problem. They give views, followers, subs (that turn into currency) to these influencers and experts that confirm their warped view rather than challenging it. They are truly no better than dealers.
One thing that bothers me is seeing these 35-40 yr old women on dating sites saying, "must believe in Jesus and have a daily, active relationship with him"
I'm cool with the believe in Jesus part, but you, with your tattoos and other non-Christian things on YOUR profile, are not about to tell me what a "daily, active relationship" is.
Women are so moved by performative displays. Which is why they adorn the pastor up there shouting and dancing, when he may or may not be living his life right. While there's a quiet man, who is a good man but just not being performative
I'm cool with the believe in Jesus part, but you, with your tattoos and other non-Christian things on YOUR profile, are not about to tell me what a "daily, active relationship" is.
Women are so moved by performative displays. Which is why they adorn the pastor up there shouting and dancing, when he may or may not be living his life right. While there's a quiet man, who is a good man but just not being performative
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