Things ppl never told you about heartbreak and relationships

[jadillac]

All....and I mean all them sad love songs make sense and are relevent as fukk..

Haha, r&b songs you heard a thousand times and even sang along, know all the words to. Suddenly you hear them one more time, and now they hit way different.


Also, it makes you think about all these rap songs you grew up hearing and were told are derogatory to women....suddenly ur like, these dudes actually telling the truth. Lol.

 

[jadillac]

They rebound quick....but they never take the time to rebuilt themselves after the breakup..they just jump on the next dikk and the next dikk


And us men actually gotta restart and start over..rebuilt...
so long run we win.

This is true. The last girl I was with, she went straight to someone else who was already waiting in the cut, then he cheated on her, and now she's with his friend apparently. They stack up emotional issues like cordwood which makes them crazy. thinking every new guy is gonna be the best ever....but it's really just putting a band-aid on the situation bc soon he sees she's crazy too.

Maybe I’m weird but the biggest longest heartbreak I’ve ever had was over a close friend I grew feelings for but never dated.

I have one of those close friends from college. I still talk to her a couple times a year. I just want to message her and be like "hey, I know it doesnt matter now, but did you ever know that I liked you back then?"

She lives in Jersey, I'm in Texas so I know nothings gonna happen and too much times has passed. But I just kinda want to know.

 

[UpAndComing]

The worst part is around 1146pm..
You know she in a random bed with some.other dude doing all the nasty shyt for him...and u just on your phone swiping with no matches

Women rebound so fast

Women don't rebound, they monkey branch

 

[315]

Aww

 

[Malik1time]

Man I went thru tough times the thread quick dealings with women really help me to vent and talk it out with brehs my advice is don’t listen to people saying “they always come back blah blah”(which is semi true) but mentally just say she’s never coming back.....and move forward in your life...maybe the breakup is pointing you to your purpose in life

 

[Malik1time]

Women don't rebound, they monkey branch

This^^^^ but this why those women either try and come back to you or they fall in a endless loop and look dumb as shyt to themselves and people around them

 

[Malik1time]

Can everyone in the coli(the ones who been in a real serious relationship) please stop lying to nikkas saying “new p*ssy makes you forget the old” the biggest lie I’ve ever herd in all mankind after I got dumped like 3 months later I started smashing like 5 girls for a couple months span and that shyt didn’t work

 

[Uitomy]

The worst part is around 1146pm..
You know she in a random bed with some.other dude doing all the nasty shyt for him...and u just on your phone swiping with no matches

Women rebound so fast

But that's one of the reasons they can be unstable
When it's that easy to fukk it's almost like a contract to the devil, in exchange for ease of access they can catch diseases much easier and get increasingly insecure, and let nikkas dip on them constantly, they lose self worth.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I never learned that if you go through enough bullshyt and heartache with women that you become numb, dead and unfeeling inside That's not necessarily a bad thing in my eyes..

I expect bullshyt from women now. I KNOW it's coming. Call me jaded,, call me pessimistic, call me negative. I've heard it all.. I call myself a REALIST. I don't ever let a woman get me off my squre. Don't ever let a woman get me emotional. So whenever a woman starts showing her ass, acting distant, and doing a complete 180 from the bytch I met, at this point I'm just like and I'm on to the next. When if that same situation happened 10 years ago, I would've been for weeks on end...

I look back on the younger, more simpish me and wanna teleport back in time and slap the shyt out of myself and snap me out of it

I could've saved myself so much embarrasment, wasted effort, wasted time, and wasted money if I was the nikka back then that I am now..

Women and simps will try to shame you into putting up with a woman's bullshyt and being a doormat for her in the name of "chivalry" and "being a gentleman". Naw. fukk that. You're not misogynistic, a woman hater, etc. if you decide to put yourself FIRST. These bytches do it all if the time and they're called "empowered" while a man who looks out for his own interest first is called selfish. Smh. Hate these self absorbed hoes and their beta male orbiters...

 

[number21]

OP, do you actually miss the person and the relationship or just the p*ssy? Its always important to differentiate the two.

 

[1thouwow]

A nikka was devastated. Few times I had to run to my mom in tears and she had to hold me down. Took a while to bounce back and be happy. After that I ain’t get in a monogamous relationship for years

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Once you mature and stop seeing the world through rose colored glasses you kinda "get over" the whole notion that love is this magical thing. You can fall in love with a lot of people. Being in love is something that comes with time with someone you like. No reason to chase the feeling. Better to just find someone you get a long with and everything will fall into place

 

[904Lurker]

This is true. The last girl I was with, she went straight to someone else who was already waiting in the cut, then he cheated on her, and now she's with his friend apparently. They stack up emotional issues like cordwood which makes them crazy. thinking every new guy is gonna be the best ever....but it's really just putting a band-aid on the situation bc soon he sees she's crazy too.

BINGO

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Men take break ups way harder than women. If a guy had a major break up in the last 2 years he's completely ruined for the next woman. Better just to keep it pushing.

 

[deep]

This is true. The last girl I was with, she went straight to someone else who was already waiting in the cut, then he cheated on her, and now she's with his friend apparently. They stack up emotional issues like cordwood which makes them crazy. thinking every new guy is gonna be the best ever....but it's really just putting a band-aid on the situation bc soon he sees she's crazy too.

prolific post breh