Things ppl never told you about heartbreak and relationships

jadillac

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Can everyone in the coli(the ones who been in a real serious relationship:stopitslime:) please stop lying to nikkas saying “new p*ssy makes you forget the old”:gucci::gucci: the biggest lie I’ve ever herd in all mankind:camby::camby::camby: after I got dumped like 3 months later I started smashing like 5 girls for a couple months span and that shyt didn’t work:rudy::rudy::camby:

New sex only works for replacing when you didn't really love the other person.

When someone takes you thru highs and lows emotionally mentally and dominates your thoughts majority of the day, texting all day, talking all the time.... AND you have great sex on top of that, that really creates a groove in your brain(or heart if you wanna call it that)

Just smashing a new chick and then bouncing, doesn't fill that groove bc you're missing all that other stuff.

I'd say finding someone to chill/vibe with, even before sex happens, is a better alternative for getting over someone. But we still crave/want sex as dudes. Why is shyt so complicated? :noah::pachaha:
 

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Damn, what a way to put it in words
I'm telling you dude, I've been fukked up by plenty of girls, a few broke my heart and a few played around with my hormones
Maybe one or 2 of those chicks are actually sane to me
Done chose nikkas that got them pregnant and left, beat on them, burned them, all kinds of shyt
The one girl I think I was legit in love with is STUCK on one nikka and won't get rappers off her phone

Meanwhile, I stopped dating for 5 years, found a girl who really loves me and is as stuck on me as any woman. shyt person I've ever met, she even hooks me up with jobs and money and skills, and I'm with her cause I waited and vetted her and people I've met


This social media era got women acting like life is one big microwave where you stick everything in your life in for one minute, eat it, shyt it out, and repeat like it's all an endless supply for them.
 

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This social media era got women acting like life is one big microwave where you stick everything in your life in for one minute, eat it, shyt it out, and repeat like it's all an endless supply for them.

Very true.

Many of them are already prone to making bad decisions with men anyway. The abundance of dudes gassing them up makes it worse.

They'll throw away a good dude, get played by the bad dude they chose over the good guy and then lie to themselves the entire time about making the right decisions in their life.
 

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New sex only works for replacing when you didn't really love the other person.

When someone takes you thru highs and lows emotionally mentally and dominates your thoughts majority of the day, texting all day, talking all the time.... AND you have great sex on top of that, that really creates a groove in your brain(or heart if you wanna call it that)

Just smashing a new chick and then bouncing, doesn't fill that groove bc you're missing all that other stuff.

I'd say finding someone to chill/vibe with, even before sex happens, is a better alternative for getting over someone. But we still crave/want sex as dudes. Why is shyt so complicated? :noah::pachaha:
Exactly I was listing to ogs and people around so I started to smash left and right but that shyt didn’t work:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
Time really heals,also a breakup gives you the rare opportunity to completely change your life:ehh::ehh: new hair startle,new clothes, new job whatever:ehh:
 
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