Think I'm mentally depressed....

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Real thread. No bragging, just stating facts because I can't really understand why I'm not enjoying the fukk out of life.

shyt is crazy. I got what people would consider a great job, make almost 6 figures, got a nice car, stay in a nice place, got the latest of a lot of stuff, no kids, etc...

But I'm never really happy. Every day its like I'm just going through the motions. Get up in the morning, go to a place I don't really like (I'm the lone black dude in the department, the one sister is on some c00n shyt and the other blacks at the company are old), eventually come home, and just rinse, wash, and repeat. It's to the point where most of my happiness come from watching the Hawks win (please don't laugh :mjcry:).

Like I've literally been thinking to myself trying to figure this shyt out but I just don't understand it :wtf:. Guess I'm trying to ask y'all how are y'all finding happiness in this world?

I've been thinking about getting back into the church maybe...
I dealt with my own struggle related to work a while back. The best thing for me was realizing that my happiness can only be defined byt what I want it to be defined as. Career was definitely the first out of the window in what makes me happy. Oddly enough once I let go and basically put less empahsis on my career I became more successful.

I wish I had better answers but for me the simple fact that I get up everyday and do what I want in reason works for me.
 

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Try something different, if you dont have people to go kick it with just go explore the town on your own. You'll find a passion in something sooner or later as long as you keep looking for new things to do. I'm trying to get fit again, ya boy got flabby being content, but im around that age where if you dont truly treat your body right then it will effect your future, plus working out feels good after you get through the growing pains. The thing is when you grow older, it doesnt necessarily mean to never kid around anymore, you have to have fun like you did when you were a kid. The people that seems the most childlike with humor in their older age seems to be more happy..you cant take everything too serious all the time. Relax and find one hobby that involves you to get away from home and work.:yeshrug: What do you like to do? Expand on what you like and try new things, foods, events, bars etc. new places new things. I be feeling like that sometimes too but you have to just find different shyt to do when you basically done what you think is all that theres to do. Good Luck Breh
 

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Real thread. No bragging, just stating facts because I can't really understand why I'm not enjoying the fukk out of life.

shyt is crazy. I got what people would consider a great job, make almost 6 figures, got a nice car, stay in a nice place, got the latest of a lot of stuff, no kids, etc...

But I'm never really happy. Every day its like I'm just going through the motions. Get up in the morning, go to a place I don't really like (I'm the lone black dude in the department, the one sister is on some c00n shyt and the other blacks at the company are old), eventually come home, and just rinse, wash, and repeat. It's to the point where most of my happiness come from watching the Hawks win (please don't laugh :mjcry:).

Like I've literally been thinking to myself trying to figure this shyt out but I just don't understand it :wtf:. Guess I'm trying to ask y'all how are y'all finding happiness in this world?

I've been thinking about getting back into the church maybe...
Save your money --> quit your job -->Start a business that will replace your income / find a job that makes you happy --> Find a great woman to date --> marry --> have kids.
 

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Real thread. No bragging, just stating facts because I can't really understand why I'm not enjoying the fukk out of life.

shyt is crazy. I got what people would consider a great job, make almost 6 figures, got a nice car, stay in a nice place, got the latest of a lot of stuff, no kids, etc...

But I'm never really happy. Every day its like I'm just going through the motions. Get up in the morning, go to a place I don't really like (I'm the lone black dude in the department, the one sister is on some c00n shyt and the other blacks at the company are old), eventually come home, and just rinse, wash, and repeat. It's to the point where most of my happiness come from watching the Hawks win (please don't laugh :mjcry:).

Like I've literally been thinking to myself trying to figure this shyt out but I just don't understand it :wtf:. Guess I'm trying to ask y'all how are y'all finding happiness in this world?

I've been thinking about getting back into the church maybe...
I was there. Gotta find what makes you happy and exploit the shyt out of it. For me thats Pro Wrestling & USC Football.

I've never been happier in life than when i got in the ring the first time
 

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Harsh reality, maybe 1% of the population get up everyday and go to job they LOVE


Making 6 figures and being a robot doesn't mean shyt when you're empty on the inside. OP's rinse repeat life is what most people struggle with everyday


Thank god I don't have that life :mjcry:
 

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Real thread. No bragging, just stating facts because I can't really understand why I'm not enjoying the fukk out of life.

shyt is crazy. I got what people would consider a great job, make almost 6 figures, got a nice car, stay in a nice place, got the latest of a lot of stuff, no kids, etc...

But I'm never really happy. Every day its like I'm just going through the motions. Get up in the morning, go to a place I don't really like (I'm the lone black dude in the department, the one sister is on some c00n shyt and the other blacks at the company are old), eventually come home, and just rinse, wash, and repeat. It's to the point where most of my happiness come from watching the Hawks win (please don't laugh :mjcry:).

Like I've literally been thinking to myself trying to figure this shyt out but I just don't understand it :wtf:. Guess I'm trying to ask y'all how are y'all finding happiness in this world?



I've been thinking about getting back into the church maybe...



Quit yajob
 
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