Thinking about denying my girl dikk until she loses weight

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You go ahead and do that. Travathian gonna be waiting like
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If she doesn't want to lose weight for me, He can have her.
 

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I'm skinny and I used to have a bit of muscle.. she has the audacity to say shyt like "I loved when you had pecs.. If you get those back :banderas: I'ma suck the soul out ya dikk"

But if I told her how much better I'd fukk her if she lost 30lbs, id be the a$$hole.
 

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She's short but becoming double chin status. She complains about her weight daily but can't spend so much as 10 minutes in the gym.
Try to help her out. Take her out for a walk or try new foods and restaurants with her that are healthier than the norm. Park a bit farther so she'll have to walk more. Find ways around not telling her she has to hit up the gym. I'm sure there are certain tricks out there to get her to lose weight without making you seem like you're doing it cuz you think she's fat.
 

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She gained weight. One time we broke up for a few months and she lost the weight. And I'm tired of acting like it doesn't bother me.
just tell her you prefer her at the weight she was when you met her. she'll probably be upset and it may lead to the break up of the relationship if she becomes to self concious and sees it as an attack. but if youre not attracted to her anymore, the relationship is shaky anyway. if she gained 30 pounds that's a lot
 

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You tell a woman to lose weight and you setting yourself up for a new dude to slide in. A muscular dude who don't mind that weight. nikkas like you just alley-ooping p*ssy to these personal trainers

You have to Jedi Mind trick her into thinking you want to get healthier(never say lose weight to a woman) and you want to do it as a couple
 

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You tell a woman to lose weight and you setting yourself up for a new dude to slide in. A muscular dude who don't mind that weight. nikkas like you just alley-ooping p*ssy to these personal trainers

You have to Jedi Mind trick her into thinking you want to get healthier(never say lose weight to a woman) and you want to do it as a couple
She didn't need mental gymnastics to lose weight when we were broken up. So she doesn't need them now. I'm not gonna Jedi mind trick this bytch into losing weight. either she's going to get on her shyt or I'm out. I struggle to find her attractive nowadays and I used to feel terrible about it; so I'd put that aside; but it's been over a year. I'm over it. If there's a personal trainer nikka lookin to scoop this up, then by all means, go ahead. I could use an exit strategy. Besides its way more in shape hoes that I could waste my time on
 

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I told her how I felt and she's pissed :mjlol:

She randomly got off the bed and started laying on the floor, I asked wtf are you doing

She said I'm too fat for the bed :comeon:

This is why I bite my tongue with everything. Damned if I do, damned if I don't
 

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I'm skinny and I used to have a bit of muscle.. she has the audacity to say shyt like "I loved when you had pecs.. If you get those back :banderas: I'ma suck the soul out ya dikk"

But if I told her how much better I'd fukk her if she lost 30lbs, id be the a$$hole.

When she said that to you, that was your opportunity for you to "invite" her to go to the gym with you.

*EDIT* And how big? Pics?
 

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Now she's heated I said I struggle with attraction towards her occasionally. :snoop: But daily she looks in the mirror complaining about her weight.

Then she says if I can't love her the way she is then we should break up

But I have been loving her the way she is. For years. I'm just tired of feeling like her looks are mediocre and tired of her insecurities
 

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She said she lost weight while we were broken up because she wanted to make me jealous :snoop:

If she needs some ulterior motives to work out or at least eat better, then yeah we need to reconsider our relationship. :camby: sorry, not dating a chick comfortable with being a whale even before kids. I'm sure there's a guy out there for her if she wants to act like that, but he's not me.
 
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