Thinking about denying my girl dikk until she loses weight
- Thread starter ChrisDorner2
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mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
Key words "broken up". She was losing weight to get someone new/get you back. She's back in her comfort zone now, no need to put in the effort. And like you said if you bring it up she's gonna act up liek a victim (it's not "nice" talking tio women about their body, but they don't mind pointing out if we take up some weight). My advice is get out of there, she'll say that you're an a$$hole and rant about how physical attributes is not eveything blah blah blah, I guess we just have to accept that bs
your girl doesn't respect you brehShe said she lost weight while we were broken up because she wanted to make me jealous
If she needs some ulterior motives to work out or at least eat better, then yeah we need to reconsider our relationship.sorry, not dating a chick comfortable with being a whale even before kids. I'm sure there's a guy out there for her if she wants to act like that, but he's not me.
DrHackenbush
Happy wars/sad love songs
If you do that she'll leave you soon as she loses the weight and starts getting more attention
Elle Driver
Veteran
If you want her to lose weight be supportive. Why do you think denying dikk would work?
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
OP I feel, this is one of two deal breakers in a relationship for me. My ex was 5'3 125 when, that perfect slim thick. She ballooned to like 180. Saying, telling her all that shyt about losing weight will NOT work. You need to lead by example. She will only begin to get right when she sees you have a plethora of options. Low-key your girl needs to think that you are better than her. You don't have to explicitly say this like an a$$hole, but she needs to feel it from the vibe that you get from other people. She'll lose that weight with the quickness.
JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
Be honest, if your chick was way over weight and some dude fukked her would you even care?This is the most stupidest idea I've ever heard your chick will have another nikka fukking her in that fat ass if you refuse to do so, even fat chicks getting slayed out there...
you need to do positive reinforcement.
I gave mine an ultimatum and date to lose the weight by plus I was still fukking. She ended up losing the weight.
Why not dump her and get with a slim goodie if that's what you really want
U are just wasting everybody's time. She gonna lose weight and leave you
U are just wasting everybody's time. She gonna lose weight and leave you
Don't say shyt. If she doesn't want to lose weight or live healthier that's her choice. Keep piping and living your life.
U could encourage her. Maybe both of y'all should go to gym and eat healthier. She may need motivation and just feel complacent or other shyt like work, family, friends, etc. may just have her complacent or kinda depressed. Sometimes people may have something that they feel some type of way about and that could hamper their progression.
But the posters got a point who said if u get right and receive lots of attention from others especially other women...she may lose weight quickly to keep u interested especially if ur options increase. Also be careful because if she looses weight and get right...her options may increase and some other dude may come in.
But the posters got a point who said if u get right and receive lots of attention from others especially other women...she may lose weight quickly to keep u interested especially if ur options increase. Also be careful because if she looses weight and get right...her options may increase and some other dude may come in.
ChrisDorner2
Banned
If she loses weight and leaves me for another dude then she was just with me cause I was the best her lazy ass could get at the time.. So I'm perfectly fine with her punk ass leaving if that's the case. Regardless I'm not staying unless she drops pounds.