Thinking about denying my girl dikk until she loses weight

BlackBall

Superstar
Joined
Dec 9, 2014
Messages
16,854
Reputation
4,139
Daps
47,673
frog-sex.jpg
 

Turbulent

Superstar
Joined
May 6, 2012
Messages
18,563
Reputation
4,458
Daps
57,527
Reppin
NULL
OP I feel, this is one of two deal breakers in a relationship for me. My ex was 5'3 125 when, that perfect slim thick. She ballooned to like 180. Saying, telling her all that shyt about losing weight will NOT work. You need to lead by example. She will only begin to get right when she sees you have a plethora of options. Low-key your girl needs to think that you are better than her. You don't have to explicitly say this like an a$$hole, but she needs to feel it from the vibe that you get from other people. She'll lose that weight with the quickness.
:damn: was she going through a depression or something?
 

Rawtid

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Jun 23, 2012
Messages
43,323
Reputation
14,708
Daps
119,489
What good is exercise if she gonna eat 4 slices pepperoni and bacon pizza right after??

Exercise ain't shyt without a diet worth a damn.
You should make her a salad after sex. Why are you keeping that kind of junk in the house?
 
Joined
Dec 8, 2015
Messages
388
Reputation
190
Daps
1,093
You deny dikk and she will find dikk. If you are unhappy, leave. There will be someone else for you and someone else for her. People don't do anything when they are given ultimatums and hints. She will do what she wants when she wants :yeshrug:.
It's unfortunate that she will sacrifice a relationship that is great otherwise (it is great otherwise right OP?) but if she wants to be stubborn about it then that's on her. Also, like someone mentioned, an in-shape significant other is a a good motivator. You can't be a fat ass calling someone else a fat ass. So if you have some pounds to drop then get to it and see if she follows your lead.
 

Vandelay

Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Joined
Apr 14, 2013
Messages
27,942
Reputation
8,515
Daps
102,994
Reppin
Phi Chi Connection
:damn: was she going through a depression or something?

Yep. She had some issues. I'm not one to leave you while you're down, but that shyt was tough. It brings you down. Only thing you can do is be the best you, you can be and hopefully she's gets right. Eventually she lost the weight but we weren't the same for multiple reasons.
 
Top